| 你話網上有冇真正 既 Friendship 呢 ？|
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對現實生活無任何利益抵觸,
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但假如有一日，
有人係現實生活中出現問題，或者需要援手,0n%ZShzK
因為大家在現實生活始終都係陌生人
面對現實中出現既問題，又可以做既係D乜野呢
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TriAngel [quote]Originally posted by [i]playbr2[/i] at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得 [/quote]
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:21 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]playbr2[/i] at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:hwh-E ~X.}i*] wi
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.&[(@M v b g*]3h
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:hoGLgQ C)z
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!E1B|a c"NY
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好…… [/quote]tSn"}0iJ'O1r ?
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:54 PM [/i]] 自問自己人生經驗尚淺,
網齡都唔過兩年
Trista,
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[color=White]不隗係我地既學姐，[/color] :clap::clap:
[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:33 PM [/i]] 很在於每個人對朋友的定義.7A({p1j2bfZ V9k&n
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
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i guess it's quoted from [i][b][color=Red]trista_cheong[/color][/b][/i]:haha::haha:? [quote]Originally posted by [i]Triangel[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
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覺得大家日日... [/quote]X&]X/K!c/}+P
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support [color=Red]TriTri[/color]¬¬:P:P:P [quote]Originally posted by [i]12d3[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:%xC/y8E:~ }8ab X
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:05 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:*v;RT li I URf w
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i guess it's quoted from [i][b][color=Red]trista_cheong[/color][/b][/i]:haha::haha:? [/quote]
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所以move 黎 吹水版
希望可以多d Friend 繼續吹水:clap:
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:30 PM [/i]] 最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友q"oAx2O
我要講既只有咁多 [quote]Originally posted by [i]gn00987333[/i] at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
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[color=Red]明就明，唔明就算[/color] [/quote]
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[[i] Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 01:33 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]gn00987333[/i] at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:*m1K'xM$qZ _*F
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?:confused: 當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,z(eT w c&o
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呢個就係ef令我有歸屬感既原因喇:) [quote]Originally posted by [i]左輪仔[/i] at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~:D:P [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 15:23: S|?.N X+{ u
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~:D:P [/quote]8}"oD#X h
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動:cry: [quote]Originally posted by [i]左輪仔[/i] at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:7VGx*J a2k.i
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動:cry: [/quote]KY@c@
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[quote]Originally posted by [i]playbr2[/i] at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM: di~3KG+`6Q7Z
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........+PT b/[ ~f
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:agree::agree::agree: [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:)wqR$D/n6l#r+f!?
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?:confused: [/quote]
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