[討論]真人經歷，姐弟可戀嗎？
真人經歷︰有一個男仔鍾意(暗戀)左一個比佢大6-7年既女仔。而果個男仔係讀緊大學year1，但個女仔已經係一間大型既公司做會計。那麼，除了年齡既間題之外，個女仔果份工雖然未必算得上係ｗｅｌｌ ｐａｉｄ ｊｏｂ，但起碼都有唔錯既薪酬同夠ｓｔａｂｌｅ，但係個男仔乜都冇．．．．．．雖然個男仔係思想方面比一般同年齡既青少年成熟好多
咁你話，個女仔鍾意個男你既機會係未好細呀？而個男你係唔係唔應該向個女仔示愛，繼續暗戀佢呀？仲有我覺得大多數女仔都會介意自己男朋友既人工同職位低過佢﹗
ｐ．ｓ．個女仔係好大程度上達到左個男仔既理想伴侶既條件。另外，個女仔而家係冇拍緊拖ｇｅ﹗
你地有咩意見或者「計仔」可以令個女仔接受個男仔 同是天涯鄰落人........
我都係呢個程形,大我3年,工作薪酬又幾唔錯...我宜家係失業中...
我宜家都係暗戀,但feel到佢對我抱有好感,但係佢既薪酬,年齡都大過我,
所以覺得好自卑...佢重問我聖誕節同唔同佢出去,宜家未答應佢
15/16繄...我諗住選擇放棄...=]
#1 & #2
對樓主黎講，當與對方關係尚未明朗、而自己又在求學階段時，好應該叠埋心水，努力求學工作先——你要照顧人都要有能力至得格，唔係就好難令對方感受到你既誠意。做住朋友先好。對#2的個案就不一樣，如果你已感覺到對方有所表示（當然假設你沒有感覺錯），那就不應因為無謂的自卑放棄！緣份未到時當然應好好裝備自己，但萬一未裝備「完滿」（觀乎你如何詮釋「完滿」）時緣份已到，是否就要讓它白白溜走？別傻了。愛情不能沒有面包，但面包不是愛情的全部。
希望大家都得到幸福。 情況大致一樣,同佢係同事,大我3-4年兼有男友,而佢一定知我鍾意佢,而家我都係15/16...個心好亂!! [quote]Originally posted by [i]Lazyman13[/i] at 2006-12-4 03:08 AM:
同是天涯鄰落人........
我都係呢個... [/quote]
去馬la..
聖誕節約得你出去...即係對你有feel la..
有朋友都唔約, 約你wor...
你一去就一定成事 拍拖就冇乜所謂, 做人世就唔好 la
女人易老呀 [quote]Originally posted by [i]bigfish[/i] at 2006-12-4 11:51 AM:
拍拖就冇乜所謂, 做人世就唔好 la
女人易老呀 [/quote]
係呀﹗不過我又唔太介意lee樣野bor﹗
另外，其實我最近都同佢成日有出街，但係當然唔係獨困隻啦﹗但係每一次出街既人數都唔多，三至四個倒啦﹗不過我就feel唔到佢對我有既感覺啦﹗但係係lee 個moment我覺得我地好有緣，佢都有咁同我講過，you know緣既野，唔會係一世跟住你ga la﹗唉﹗所以我先我知點好，因為我都明有穩定既工作同收入既重要性......我其實唔係話想拍下散拖ga﹗因為難得搵到一個咁付合我ideal condition既人... [quote]Originally posted by [i]jeff_0930[/i] at 2006-12-4 11:20 AM:
去馬la..
聖誕節約得你出去...即係對你有feel la..
有朋友都唔約, 約你wor...
你一去就一定成事 [/quote]
我就係驚聖誕節悶親人:( [quote]Originally posted by [i]bigfish[/i] at 2006-12-4 11:51 AM:
拍拖就冇乜所謂, 做人世就唔好 la
女人易老呀 [/quote]
愛﹑鐘意對方關人o地老唔老乜鬼事???? Why do you mind the age difference between you and her ? Some years later when you get older, normally apperence of man is older then woman and outsiders will not be able to indentify who is younger. In fact, this is the matter between you and her, none of the business with others. Remember, when you can satisfy one people, you will not be able to satisfy others. Just think about you are happy or not when you two are together is enough. 其實我個人認為女既唔可以大過男既依d系舊時封建既唸法,
如果真是有幸遇著大家啱key既,咪行埋一齊咯....
如若真是要顧慮咁多,到機會失去時千萬唔好後悔﹗ 用誠意感動佢啦,年齡同工作唔係問題架,我好多朋友都係咁架啦...支持"姐弟可戀" [quote]Originally posted by [i]davysiu[/i] at 2006-12-4 10:39 AM:
情況大致一樣,同佢係同事,大我3-4年兼有男友,而佢一定知我鍾意佢,而家我都係15/16...個心好亂!! [/quote]
bro,
人地有男友好難溝架 :(
同埋一日佢對條仔未死心, 都好難有機架 :o
機會好微............
溝果第二個啦 :good: [quote]Originally posted by [i]ALWIN_WONG[/i] at 2006-12-5 12:27 AM:
其實我個人認為女既唔可以大過男既依d... [/quote]
香港d 女幾封建架...........
要佢地識咁諗都幾難....................:cry: [quote]Originally posted by [i]soflowar[/i] at 2006-12-4 01:55 AM:
真人經歷︰有一個男仔鍾意(暗戀)左一... [/quote]
差d 唔記得reply topic tim :P
機會係有, 但係唔大 :(
人地話晒係audit 既professional, 分分鐘係果間firm qualified 埋CPA,
係big four 仲死..........人工, 地位真係有一大段距離.............
感情唔係話咁易填補到果difference, 男既讀 medicine 另計啦 :naughty:
仲有, 果女既大成6 -7 年, 思想同話題真係有好大分別.............
分分鍾有代溝架..............
如果男既feel 到女既有意思, 當然不妨一試............
追唔係唔得..........不過機會真係好少................:o [quote]Originally posted by [i]homan~[/i] at 2006-12-5 11:29 AM:
差d 唔記得reply topic tim :P
... [/quote]
唉﹗我都明，所以...我都決定掩飾住我對佢既愛先，唔比佢同佢知住．．．
因為我驚，如果lee一刻我去試，隨時出現反效果。而且我而家同佢既感情都發展得好好，好彩我都feel到佢對我唔係好似對細佬咁看待，係一個fd咁啦﹗ [quote]Originally posted by [i]soflowar[/i] at 2006-12-5 11:44 AM:
唉﹗我都明，所以...我都決定掩飾... [/quote]
bro, 依家起碼都仲有機先 :D
其實同佢熟真係好好架
at least bro 可以知下佢既資料同近況
同埋可以知佢對另一半既要求同埋睇法 :naughty:
add oil ! 搵到一個真心愛你既人真的不易...goodluck la 其實6-7年都唔係問題, 只要大家都是真心相愛的話, 小龍女也大楊過成四年, 所以我覺得沒有什麼問題, 但要承受別人的目光, 特別是家人, 正所謂人言可畏, 最大問題是可否將來也可以繼續相愛, 例如是當個女仔四十歲時, 個男仔只得三十三歲, 他可否抵受得住出面的誘惑... Agree with supereason !
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