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我就二十歲...Mj u/V8}:?CM\但係我發覺自己未有目標同理想.
我唔想以後後悔同一事無成.
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我心智未成熟...
宜家讀書,又唔知讀乜野好,對邊樣野有興趣?講真,我自己都唔知.
我又無乜話邊方面特別叻.
有無人可以分享下,或者俾d意見小弟? i am one year larger than u! ](waL$j_
"但係我發覺自己未有目標同理想.
我唔想以後後悔同一事無成" this is what many many hk student also have this feeling, i think hk education makes us to feel study is for entering U and then getting a good future job, but making us to ignore our interests, and this is one of the main reason why someone is successful but some are so poor, not mainly due to ability and academic reason, but is u need to have goal and motivation to achieve yr goal,P5O9R ea C9lx
i am studying, i am also worry about my future as i know what i am studying is not very useful for my future and i know that i am not interested in itT+B1A'] ESW4XzJ R
so i concluded that interest is just for after having a stable job and income for my case
for yr case:p%i4l2V jd
no goal at this moment is ok, dun need to enforce yrself to have one, but i think u should have yr goal, this needs to find by yrself
dunno study what, right? [ m5z'f}P
try to study some that related to yr work or future work or u interest, because this will make u have motivation to study, if not, that's like my case, u will feel boring on study-z&h/K _ER(V0b&B
interest what then also need to find find yrself la, i think u must have but u haven't think it very very seriously and clearly,yw;u7Y.F0{ pIY
i also suggest u have a stable job or income b4 getting yr goal except u are living in a rich family, but if u have interest on something that can be yr future work, then u must go it,
because u can save much more time, hope u can be successful in the future^^@3R1C*f@"e%a u
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[[i] Last edited by jason williams on 2005-4-5 at 12:51 PM [/i]] 我都係wo....我就快公開考試...Zx `/Zn JVe
但就係唔太想溫...
我知道我對考試係完全無興趣7aI!j!bK)NbA6Oy
但係身邊d人又同我講個考試有幾重要....衰左就咩前途都無哂....'wh q#Zq[:?
點解要咁 ?? downdown地.....:( **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** 讀到書都唔一定有成就既,你自己先諗好自己比較鍾意做邊一行(能力範圍之內) 然後比心機做啦~正所謂行行出狀元嘛 我已成為了 隱閉青年 ... [quote]Originally posted by [i]JCer[/i] at 2005-4-5 06:26 PM:
我已成為了 隱閉青年 ... [/quote]
ha? if u say seriously, i encourage u to back to this society, add oil! 問下你屋企人囉 放心啦！我之前都係膠流流，你讀哂要讀嘅書先，出左嚟做事就慢慢搵到目標同埋知道自己要乜ga喇！如果學校有社工嘅，唔好怕醜，搵社工傾吓。船到橋頭自然直，唔洗擔心得太多，有計劃係好，但太過左就變成鑽牛角同尖，首要都係做好你手頭上嘅學業先！ [quote]Originally posted by [i]minghkhk[/i] at 2005-4-5 14:08: z+O`P3wC s7?:T
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be happy la,
you can see a lot of people support u
but finally, it's YOU, to encourage and be run forward!!! 多謝各位既支持同意見...|;S;z3kK,MQ ri.B
不過其實我真係唔知自己既興趣,我日常剩係玩電腦,睇VCD ga ja....&br:]YK
我鐘意玩電腦,但係我又唔鐘意設計game wo...好似好悶咁...
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另外,想問下大學選科點選好???/]i,T5@;GK/Xq J3C
其實本人香港中五畢業,宜家係加拿大讀緊書,ESL course <----即係英文班 Oh I see,.....^ j5yoYS i
you are in overseas too...!!!'fT$A e4D-U9C1r
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you were like me.. about 11 years before....\,m u w;@;B6a t9Ki
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do u study science or arts before?> **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** first of all,
what's your HKCEE results?! if u really have no idea on yr interest, then try to find sth that would helpful for yr future (just like easier to get a job), i think BBA or sth related business would be better, easier to get job if u will come back to hk.
dun try some academic, (such as Physcis, Maths) or art or design sub if u have no interest in it because they really need a lot of interest to motivate u to study. !M Q y7q+X"f-C#O H)}
us said u like playing computer, how about study sth like (IS) information system or programming..........
if u have interest about computer, u can try to serach search what computer relating course would be provided in yr city's university and try to have a serious look 5b Y4m$i6^:f3j
PS: the first year in some foreign university seems can let u choose different course to allow u to find yr interest, my fd's university is that, i dunno yr side is this or not0P8NF H K
add oil ! ESL is high school class, isn't it?! [quote]Originally posted by [i]minghkhk[/i] at 2005-4-5 02:08 PM:
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although u r unsure about your future, i'm glad that u've noticed that you hv to start thinking about career.. while many overseas HK student don't even care about it as i see..;nKD v@u
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well... bro. jason williams very right on chosing subjects
my opinion is if u can't find anything interested u, just do it another way, nominate those u DON'T want 1 by 1, then u may be able to have couple of choices left. \&M)v.L$S
and if u like playing computer game, give it a go for multimedia/ programming, game programming would be great fun but require high logic and physics basics..
and finally, you are 20 now, you have to understand that the world's not easy.. in fact bloody hard, but u gotta force yourself to tackle the problems1H'S {ti1|8p'GY
we'll be with u, don't worry
and a new 'district' may be coming and you can ask us questions there:D
cheers~ [quote]Originally posted by [i]MaxFigo[/i] at 2005-4-5 02:06 PM:(y-~:k ` A&]
我都係wo....我就快公開考試... ... [/quote]
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public exam is not the all in yr life, but for sure, u cannot give up easily by this sentence easily, also i think none like exam, so dun be so easily give up, try the best on studyv*|#c9k;g C7wf e
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but if u really not gd in study, also not mean u will have a bad future, gd academic just give u a easier way to get a success in yr future, u still can have a wonderful future
because from my view, boss are always like some guys having more partical skill than who has a gd academic result (but sure it will be cared for many professional jobs because they really need) Y aD:DN)X
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but work hard is also needed or even more for learning other skills and working in jobs
if also lazy or not gd in these parts, then really none can help la(H:~]2V&_(s8m
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dun ne down la, u're still young, a lot of ways and chacne are waiting for u, right?:cool:n gm [+@%T` F
[[i] Last edited by jason williams on 2005-4-7 at 01:04 AM [/i]]
Why Worry ?
Many students have the idea that they want to get everything done in ONE pass that is indeed no need . Believe or not, probably you will live up to age of 80, you got many chance to retry. For example fail an exam => you can try again , study a wrong degree => you can study another one, break up with a girl => make another relation. However your fire to actualize yourself is really really important. GO AND TRY otherwise you don't know where is your direction. You think something is good is just your dream and there are so many people just dreaming but don't bring out the effort to actualize their dream so they are still dreaming . ( May be I am talking about myself :) ) Believe or not just TRY something DIFFERENT and you may feel what actually can cheer you up. When you are interested , you got the fire , then putting time on it , and finally a perfect positive feedback loop will bring you to the sky ! Just don't look down yourself.When I past one of my saddest day during my University Study, I just dig a book out from the shelf and read it , its the book written by Amstron(spelling correct ?) , the first astronount walking on the moon. He wrote something at the back of the book I still remember today : When I was small , I was just dreaming of walking on the moon and I've never thought before I really can what on the moon when I grown up. R/y LM9Z s ?9s F
Just go ahead and do what you want or try somthing different but not forget not to do something hurting other ones like those pk... 以我經驗所得，一個人出來做事的成功條件，最大的因素絕對是人際關系，其次是應變能力，還有是真誠，我請過很多大學生，但很多時都不如一個有心去做的中學生
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