[5/23兩性加分題] 在這時代希望女友會煮飯是否過份要求?
在這時代希望女朋友會煮飯是否過份的要求?很多人都說現在女孩都唔會煮飯,是否冇咩可能女朋友會煮飯
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[[i] Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-5-23 at 11:05 PM [/i]] **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** [quote]Originally posted by [i]Gretzky[/i] at 2005-5-18 01:33 AM:
Cook together la....I think asking girlfriend to cook all the time is a bit too mean....and personally I believe cooking together is great for relationship building.
That's how I got my wife ga! :D [/quote]
exact same situation here :D 梗係要識啦!
佢留係屋企,照顧仔女
我地就出去搵$
咁就最理想啦!
ya 最好係雙方都識煮飯! 因為男女平等了，淨係要求女的煮飯，她也會不滿意，但兩個都唔識煮飯又衰，唔通餐餐出街食咩! 所以最好就係兩個都識，兩個一齊煮，有飯食之餘仲好恩愛添! 我煮嘢過佢食多，其實呢個年代，無所謂啦，唔識咪由佢囉:D 佢夠愛你既話，你話你鍾意食[color=red]佢煮果d住家飯[/color]，佢會走去學! (我試過:P)
我鍾意食，佢做都唔做，唔理我感受，咁佢唔過份咩?:mad:
唔通結左婚又日日出街食咩? :(
我點娶佢做老婆呀? 咁我娶個賓妹得啦! :lol:
我又唔信賓妹一生出黎就識做家頭細務喇! Re: roykenroy
個人意見......我唔太同意閣下既講法囉......你呢番話既前題已經設定左煮飯既角色一定係女人。講真，你都愛佢架，咁都可以係你煮飯架! 除非女人結婚後無做野做家庭主婦，咁煮飯就係佢既責任，但而家咁多夫妻結婚後女方都繼續工作，咁就唔一定仍然要女方揹晒煮飯既責任了。
而家好多女人結婚後除左工作外，家務、照顧子女都仍然係佢做晒，我識得有d咁既家庭，做媽媽的真係辛苦得很，好大壓力。作為愛另一半既新一代男人，我覺得應該同太太分工合作囉。 [quote]Originally posted by [i]gundamman678[/i] at 2005-5-22 11:47 PM:
Re: roykenroy
個人意見......我唔... [/quote]
你講果d.....我明呀! Anyway thx! :)
但係佢個標題係[color=blue] [討論] 在這時代希望女朋友會煮飯是否過份的要求? [/color]嘛！
我唔係要做死佢呀....佢至少要識，唔識咪走去學囉，如果唔係點分工合作呀?
咁咪做死我?!:lol: 咁又係，所以我覺得兩個一齊學就最好! 可以增進雙方既感情~~ surely not~!!1 [討論] 在這時代[color=Red]希望[/color]女朋友會煮飯是否過份的要求?
希望就唔會好過份, 但係要求佢識就唔係咁好
唔係個個女仔都識煮飯, 等如唔係個個男仔都識整電腦
煮飯好似係女仔既工作, 今時今日, 煮飯仲邊有分男女
識煮咪煮, 晚晚出街食不如學下煮, 到有需要時, 自然會學煮飯, 唔迫得
一齊住, 一齊煮好似會幾好feel
佢唔識咪引佢一齊學囉, 順其自然吧 希望當然唔過份喇..要求佢一定要煮飯先過份呀馬:) I 會煮飯 (when i have spare time)
if you really want your gf to cook for you.....
you can try to cook with her ..... it is more interesting than cooking with herself only. [quote]Originally posted by [i]saki[/i] at 2005-5-24 01:59 PM:
I 會煮飯 (when i have spare time)
if you really want your gf to cook for you.....
you can try to cook with her ..... it is more interesting than cooking with herself only. [/quote]
贊成一齊 cook 跟住一齊 eat 多麼幸福 :lol: [quote]Originally posted by [i]waiting[/i] at 2005-5-26 12:04 AM:
贊成一齊 cook 跟住一齊 eat 多麼幸福 :lol: [/quote]
yeah ~~~ I think so...
ho warm ga ~~~
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: 我本身思想不算保守....但我卻始終女生應懂得怎去煮飯
我不反對男女平等 指的是在角式上 like gender
但大家要清楚男女永遠是沒有平等的 in biological sex 方面
簡單來說 與生俱來的是sex 但行為是gender
所以女生可以gender係男生
故男生gender也可以係女生
女主內 不是保守的思想 卻是gender定位
即一個女生該有的skill
如男主外 也是gender的定位
如男生該保護自己所愛的女生~
不好意思 以上太theory了
但我也贊成男生該學懂得怎樣煮飯 否則像我這些留學生...真的無啖好食了
我只是以事論事 故先撇開 一起煮飯能增進感情
即是 煮飯該是女生的duty囉~~ [quote]Originally posted by [i]szachary[/i] at 2005-5-27 11:20 AM:
我本身思想不算保守....但我卻始終女... [/quote]
唏，現在還甚麼男主外、女主內?? 而家女性做野都不知幾叻，就黎超越男性既地位啦! 我覺得男性應該要醒覺下囉! 如果再係咁界定男女角色既話，好快會俾女仔超越架啦! 而家女性既角色同地位己經係今時唔同往日，有好大分別。如果仲係諗住男人先至做野叻，女人就應該係屋企煮飯既話，咁就錯晒啦! [quote]Originally posted by [i]gundamman678[/i] at 2005-5-27 12:48 PM:
唏，現在還甚麼男主外、女主內?? ... [/quote]
+10 for good response
[size=6]i really love what u say [/size]
好多男人都未醒覺到呢點ja
就算意識到﹐D 思想仲保守過d 女仔呀( 我指處女﹐相夫教子etc) 我自己就覺得而家係香港，最新模式既家庭結構己經開始變成男女一齊外出工作之餘，亦共同處理家中事務，無分邊個係內，邊個係外。呢樣野其實好公平，大家都要做野，點解淨係女人要兼顧埋家務煮飯呢? 如果係咁既話，即係女人既effort仲大過男人啦! 咁我地成日口口聲聲話男人要照顧家庭，點解家中最重擔子既反而係女人? 我覺得我地如果係愛錫另一半既，就應該一齊承擔，唔應該俾自己既女友/太太仲辛苦過自己。除非你一定有能力唔駛另一半出來工作，又或者請家傭啦，咁就除外。
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