[5/27加分題] 你o地覺得應唔應該接受?
一個女仔俾人追係好正常ge 事…… 尤其係一個樣同身材都唔錯ge 女仔但係我就有一個疑問 : 如果有個你本身並冇咩好感ge 男仔追你( 甚至你唔鐘意佢)﹐
你應唔應該接受佢送ge 禮物呢 ?? for example: mp3 機﹑laptop 咁
就算唔係呢d 咁貴重ge 禮物﹐ 如果係d 小禮物﹐咁你又覺得個女仔應唔應該受?
定係一早疊埋心水﹐直接拒絕佢﹐叫佢唔好再送埋d 咁ge ?
或者你會選擇接受佢ge 殷勤﹐到最後關頭一腳伸開佢﹐咁樣黎著數自己呢??
你o地有咩睇法????
唔一定係女仔答ga ﹐男仔都好應該講一講
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[[i] Last edited by trista_cheong on 2005-5-26 at 11:31 PM [/i]] 接唔接收對方的禮物就要睇下個女仔係邊類人.......
如果唔鍾意人但又照收D貴重物品有似好衰.....可能會俾人話貪心
對於小禮物﹐都係唔好收，免得令人以為有機
接受曬對方D禮物，但到最後一腳伸開佢，比起一開始拒絕仲hurt得更重.....
個人認為應該直接拒絕佢﹐叫佢唔好再送 唔鍾意當然唔應該收啦， 就算係小禮物都好，男仔都會誤會個女仔對佢有好感。
當然假若個男仔明知個女仔由頭到尾都唔鍾意佢重要只係貪佢著數，心甘情願地成為女仔其中一個小小的觀音兵，我又覺得"接受佢ge 殷勤﹐到最後關頭一腳伸開佢" 不失為一個令佢清醒既好辨法。 我本人就覺得收的話問題係唔大, 不過最好就真係講清楚比個個人聽, 你對佢係冇感覺既, 好過人地見你收左佢既野, 以為自己有機會....更何況講清楚之後, 個個人可以再諗下送唔送比個個人好....不過我都係覺得..唔係好明顯有機會既, 都唔係送大貴既野喇...如果唔係大家都好難做 要看個女仔對個男仔既"定位"係邊囉，如果佢真係完全唔會考慮個男仔既話，我覺得就唔應該收任何禮物啦。因為肯收禮物其實即係俾左signal個男仔，話俾佢知佢都有d機會，起碼個男仔一定會係咁諗。所以，如果個女仔係覺得都可以接受個男仔追求下，俾個機會佢試下既話，咁收禮物就應該既。至於價值方面，無得話應唔應該收名貴的禮物。在於被追求既女仔，佢絕對有權收任何禮物。就算佢唔貪呢d，又或是勁貪慕虛榮，佢都有權收架! 因為你要打動佢，係你要追佢，你自己心甘情願架嘛! 不過名貴唔一定就掂既! 送禮物俾佢個目的係乜? 就係要佢開心! 所以只要打動到佢開心，禮物價錢未必係關鍵，你get到佢鍾意收d乜野禮物先至係關鍵。唔係下下都係貴就一定打動到對方架，你送貴既，可能唔及人地送份令佢suprise既咁得佢歡心呢!
不過男仔都要注意下，究竟個女仔係有心俾機會你定係淨係貪你d禮物? 我覺得作為男仔都應該醒目d，保障下自己，唔好俾人當傻仔咁掠水嘛! 有技巧d既話，我認為最初送既禮物應該係以心意為主，到大家發展得穩定才開始送名貴的。一開始送名貴的可能會令二人關係被扭曲，而且亦都令自己好難分辦女仔係貪你d禮物定係真正俾你打動。
以上只是個人意見，大家都發表下啦~~ 唔應該收... 我成日都覺得無功不受碌... 如果真係唔想發展既, 無謂收咁厚禮啦...
如果係D好普通既都可以接受既...
最好當然係直接拒絕佢啦...
當年我都係拒絕左一部MD......
[color=Red]其實點解知道無可能, 都重要係咁送野比人??? [/color]我好想知...
[[i] Last edited by JCer on 2005-5-27 at 12:34 AM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]JCer[/i] at 2005-5-27 12:32 AM:
唔應該收... 我成日都覺得無功不受碌.... [/quote]
你會唔會拒絕一部laptop je!!:cool::cool:
其實點解明知冇可愛仲要一直送﹐我諗係一片痴心lor 個女仔唔應該接受.................接受人地禮物示論平定貴....都會給對方一種錯覺/希望....若個女仔要完禮物仲一腳伸開人...就非常唔掂.....一種非常自私既行為....不過當然亦有男仔明知個女仔唔受佢...佢都堅持送禮物....甘個男仔都攞黎既.....佢要死冇人阻到佢.....
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其實無論貴唔貴都好 ~ 最好就唔好收 ~ 太貴就盡量都唔好收 ~一來唔應該貪份禮物 ~ 二來如果第日真係拒絕左個男仔 ~ 都唔會俾佢話你貪心 ~ 話你cheap ~但係如果個男仔係都要你收佢份野 ~ 你就要表明你既諗法 ~
e.g : 我真係唔可以收架~ 我地只可以做朋友 ~ 唔好再浪費金錢係我度啦..... 我唔想連我地朋友都做唔到
如果都唔掂～咁就收左佢先 ~ 不過就要講清楚
e.g 好．．．我收左佢．．．．不過以後唔好再浪費ｄ錢係我度啦 ~ 下次我係唔會再收．．．因為我地真係冇可能 ~
如果個男仔下次又係咁 ~ 就點都唔好再收啦 ~ 有意思咪收,冇意思就唔好收算了,我都有試過(下次我係唔會再收．．．因為我地真係冇可能 ~)
(金句)
無能為力接收就放手讓我走 苦戀拖得太久讓我默默退後
但我被迫要留在香港受苦,有人願意介紹一份工作給我嗎?或賺錢捷徑好嗎?謝謝!
[[i] Last edited by partyjoy on 2005-5-27 at 05:04 AM [/i]] "如果有個你本身並冇咩好感ge 男仔追你( 甚至你唔鐘意佢)﹐
你應唔應該接受佢送ge 禮物呢 ?? "
如果果個女仔都唔鐘意個男仔,就唔好收la~~~
收左,比個男仔誤會,以為有希望~~~就算係小禮物都好，男仔都會誤會個女仔對佢有好感。
最好當然係直接拒絕佢la~大家都有機會做朋友! [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2005-5-27 03:05 AM:
你會唔會拒絕一部laptop je!!:cool::cool:
其實點解明知冇可愛仲要一直送﹐我諗係一片痴心lor [/quote]
咪講少... 當年MD機成 2xxx ka...'
...我認我膚淺....咩叫laptop ? hahha:P 我覺得唔好收,無論平or貴都好,我覺得收左好似比緊個機會佢追你
你都對佢無感覺,不如直接同佢講,等佢唔好抱住個希望話個男仔仲有機會追到你
同埋唔好叫佢再送野比你
(可能會再有野補充) I think I will tell him the truth ( I won't accept you, pls don't waste time on me)
It may be hurt but is better than I received all his gifts and say I don't like you !!!(more hurt)
I have this kind of experience before.... I don't know the boy like me and I received his gift...and he think I was accepted him because I received his gift....
Oh ! God ~~ It really hurt him when I tell him the truth.....and I explained I really don't know that I accepted his gift is = I accept him law `~~ [quote]Originally posted by [i]JCer[/i] at 2005-5-27 11:55 AM:
咪講少... 當年MD機成 2xxx ka...'
...我認我膚淺....咩叫[color=Red]laptop[/color] ? hahha:P [/quote]
手提電腦又叫 notebook
放得o係大腿之上所以又叫 laptop [quote]Originally posted by [i]Rika[/i] at 2005-5-28 02:42 AM:
手提電腦又叫[color=Red] notebook[/color]
放得o係大腿之上所以又叫 laptop [/quote]
咁講我咪明lor....cher..... All the brother (and sister) has sum up what I want to say so I won't repeat it anymore.
I think if a person accept a expansive give but don't like the other person, that's very greedy.
If a girl accept an expensive gift from me without any hesitation, I will have some question on the personality of the girl. Of course, if you are in a long term stable relationship, than it's different. 咁要衡量番果件禮物既重要性,
如果件禮物係for生日or聖誕禮物,
當然係可以接受,
因為個男仔送比你只係一個表示佢對你既感情有幾深既行動,
但平時無啦啦送野比你就可以唔接受,
因為你根本冇一個理由去要,
除非你接受佢,
同時你都應該係呢d時間同佢講清楚你對佢既感覺係點,
免得佢有進一步既行動.
當然,呢個世上梗有d係唔係都收既人,
最緊要係睇下你果個係點jei. 我覺得應該分開黎睇,
收男仔禮物, 如果係一果暗示既signal, 咁就最好唔好收,
做返果有良心既人!!
當然, 有d 女仔覺得冇問題, 你情我願,
但係, 一收就有某方面既signal 既話, 咁就唔好 !!!
無論件野幾貴, 都唔好衰貪心 !! [quote]Originally posted by [i]trista_cheong[/i] at 2005-5-27 03:05 AM:
你會唔會拒絕一部laptop je!!:cool::cool:
其實點解明知冇可愛仲要一直送﹐我諗係一片痴心lor [/quote]
版主, 依果case 係咪你黎架 ??:lol:
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