我都有個感情問題, 請大家幫幫手[trista+]
一直以來都追緊一個女仔...大大話話都追左成年...在暑期工認識佢個時佢有個男友, 但無耐就分左手
個時佢話心裡一直都無放低個男仔
所以無接受我既追求, 但係又無明確表示我無機會
只係話俾時間佢...
於是我一直係度等, 期間又送禮物又約佢出街
但係次次佢都話忙要幫人補習無同我出去
之後我話佢朋友有約佢出去, 點解同佢地出唔同我出
佢話一早係學校約好左, 無辦法...
我地於是係電話中晚晚傾, 好close下...連將來一齊結婚生仔既野都可以討論一番
一直到一年之後即係而家, 佢同我講番佢同前男朋友既往事
佢好似放低左, 我再問佢有無機會
佢話而家忙緊補習 (佢有六份補習), 所以唔想拍拖住
但係他朝有一日可能會一齊
我唔明白, 真係好唔明白個女仔諗咩?
各位可以話我知嗎? 同埋我應唔應該等落去??
[[i] Last edited by trista_cheong on 2005-6-3 at 07:21 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]chun_singho[/i] at 2005-6-3 12:58 AM:
一直以來都追緊一個女仔...大大話話都... [/quote]
我覺得佢只係當你friend
佢唔想hurt 你........
你唔同你出街, 同人出就知唔accept 你啦
(你仲好意思問佢 .....>o<)
你不如諗下佢點解唔accept你仲好啦 **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** [quote]Originally posted by [i]Gretzky[/i] at 2005-6-3 01:30 AM:
放手吧啦, 施主！！ (just joking!)
... [/quote]
agree!!
佢想同你做friend 多d [quote]Originally posted by [i]homan~[/i] at 2005-6-3 03:56:
agree!!
佢想同你做friend 多d [/quote]
但係我諗呢位人兄似乎係的一做唔到女朋友就連朋友都無得做個隻.........呢個個我既直覺, 如有估錯,請見諒 [quote]Originally posted by [i]homan~[/i] at 2005-6-3 01:56 AM:
agree!!
佢想同你做friend 多d [/quote]
I agree...
It's been a year already. You have expired and have no chance to become a bf in the near future. 好明顯佢就玩太極啦
耍緊你啦
如果佢真係有心的
又點會拖你拖咁耐呀？ 其實追女仔個段時間唔好拖太長… [quote]Originally posted by [i]chun_singho[/i] at 2005-6-3 00:58:
一直以來都追緊一個女仔...大大話話都... [/quote]
i am in a very similar situation to urs... so i would like to share some of my experience mate....
based on ur description, the girl is either rejecting in a rather implied manner, or she just isn't ready yet.... but if she is a bad girl, she may be just playing w/ ur feeling.... so u must figure this out....
neverthelss, u still stand a chance, as she has never shown any sign of strong dislike abt u so far... but this only applies to a nice gril...
but the problem is, how long will she take to be ready for the next guy? she may take forever!!! coz she knows u love her much more than she does to u, so she is always on the upper-hand. to her, u are a nice guy,or i should say, a nice subsitutite who will wait for her forever. but she wants something much more than that.
so my advice to u is, just try to keep ur friendship w/ her in the moment, if the friendship blooms and grows into something else, then it's something u both deserve. but in the same pt of time, u better keep ur mind open, coz u may have found someone better. n she may find hers either. better prepare this to happen...
never attach to some1 too much, as it may lead into something u wish the least to happen... 謝謝各位的建議, 我會積極考慮我和她的關係的;)
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