我好煩呀....請大家幫下忙
我早排識左我表姐(佢係我阿姨個女....大個2年)...我地好夾架....後來佢主動拖我手，我地就開始左啦。但係佢係我表姐，我唔知屋企會唔會反對呀??另外....就係佢住係美國，我住係香港....我好掛住佢呀....而且我又驚佢......我好煩呀....請大家幫下忙 哩個世界甘多女.......你係要搞自己表姐........ **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** 我今年17呀，咁我都唔想架....有時d野控制唔到架 **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** 即係點呀....遠距離點幫我呀 即係點呀....遠距離點幫我呀 **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** [quote]Originally posted by [i]ryan_wkm[/i] at 2005-9-11 01:31 PM:我早排識左我表姐(佢係我阿姨個女....... [/quote]
If you like her and you're having a good time, don't worry too much about other things. Your family's not gonna like it, but hey, she's not your sister or something.
It is ultimately an economic question, do you value how other people would look at you more, or do you value having a good time more.
Personally I would go for the good time. It's my own life and I'm gonna live it my way. another thing is that you should make sure she's really treating it as a real relationship.
Some of my (non-Chinese) friends slept with their cousins, but those are only a fu(k-friend relationships. 但係我真係好想同佢一齊呀.....如果同佢分手.....我唔知點呀 hey.....ur case is much better than mine.....at least ur cousin feels the same way as u do......my cousin lives in UK n we also had sum nice time when she came bak durin summer....but she treats me as her best cousin only....or say TREATED.... afta she knew wut i feel...she hasnt even talked to me anymore...no call,email n everythin....its been like 2months till now
so....if u REALLY think u 2 can work out sum shit...go ahead n treausre the time...i perosnally think theres NO WRONG to love ur cousin..... 但係屋企人方面........ [quote]Originally posted by [i]ryan_wkm[/i] at 2005-9-11 03:19 PM:
但係屋企人方面........ [/quote]
It's your own life, and it doesn't hurt your "屋企人" in any way.
Do what is best for yourself, and you don't have to tell the "close minded" people about it.
[[i] Last edited by westsider on 2005-9-11 at 03:30 PM [/i]] 咁又係......咁我話唔話俾佢地知呀?? You don't have to tell them, just like you don't tell them how much sex you've had.
you have to pick your time.
Just like any other relationship, you need to fortify the relationship before telling anyone. If not, you're just opening up for whoever that would attack you. In particular, long-D relationship is very fragile, so wait until you 2 settled down at the same place geographically.
The most important thing is that you should only tell them if they're "open minded". Test the water; there is no point telling them if they wouldn't accept it. 其實我同表姐拍拖係唔係好過份︿同埋唔應該呀 no.
But whatever you do in this world, there's always a bunch of close-minded people trying to make your life miserable if you don't do things their way. 屋企人一定反對~
你阿媽同你阿姨由姊妹變親家,好難接受 [quote]Originally posted by [i]YUEN_LOUIS[/i] at 2005-9-11 05:03 PM:
屋企人一定反對~
你阿媽同你阿姨由姊妹變親家,好難接受 [/quote]
Well I know of a lesbian from a very traditional Chinese family. She's living her own happy life with her partner. Nothing wrong with it.
I also know an European guy from a really racist family. He's living with his Korean girlfriend. Nothing wrong with it.
You don't have to let them know if they're gonna feel bad. Just let everybody do their own thing.
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