熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" P9 O0 r' @! q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 ?9 e. i, @! i1 O- ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 N0 D: K, n0 ?4 q# h- ?個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* |1 j' z* ?9 ^0 d- i! [, |$ }2 X; p覺得好空虛# ?# A4 c  q" t4 f# f8 i1 z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- ~' c% m6 }) G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! i. j# E* H5 |1 o0 o: W7 O1 M. ?) T
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) M3 `/ H% I  [# ~$ N; v5 k% g5 W5 j1 c

9 ?; p* C' z( m3 N0 j; ]: H[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 ]0 L4 B+ J4 R0 |0 o: B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, @8 x0 A9 I1 ~* @! y" K/ E熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 s" u5 S5 y. }  f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- y; m) a! k$ I" ]; v9 }* U9 o
日日有車站,- N6 w' [( W* S7 r2 ?" J$ W2 ^9 b
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
% Y, U' j6 `' v+ {; o  ]+ U你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! t3 o8 a( w8 Q/ Y: G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% O$ r* b# g5 l8 {8 M我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
( Y( X4 H' ]- M7 q' Y! A0 j! X, m; v感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 o7 `4 O7 i" c" x# ?6 Q. i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# N+ g7 U; h6 O! g總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:5 V2 }( t* Y: Q+ K2 j. N
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) g, I$ M8 W* L6 a( g
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 ~% T% P$ n: S- @8 S8 H3 S5 C& _
日日有車站," Z# n5 x6 l( s+ w
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. h" J4 J" ~" }8 x# o; Y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: v* ]# s- O; G* `# n) q0 t好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 }0 n2 h4 L; _# Q# z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. p; X" {0 o2 c( P' }+ w" I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" E- d2 H" ^9 |8 F% N覺得好空虛
" J* m# Q3 V. _5 j其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 X" A3 B9 L) {% I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( K, t2 |, _% Q( s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' Z' @! s/ A& t0 O3 e

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., i" x/ H) a; _9 `4 L
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ Y1 k# r& E) j$ Y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 n- j; L; \- D; |- ?8 W8 `( e' q

; h2 g2 Q" ^. CPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:" s, z8 J; {, m7 q# c' A
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 {( e7 ]* P2 d8 Q5 P+ t
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ L5 _; t! K' e  R* L3 N9 Fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" h& l6 K% a2 J. W  @Just another thought on lonliness:# X8 ?! `1 G+ W0 n7 X
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
5 U% X9 R4 G* Z7 ^+ iBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% w+ T, ]4 R) b" \( }4 b% g我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
) o. j1 j" F: J( |! o) R- j; K就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 s( m, _9 l/ m$ M
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
& T6 G( J1 L9 U+ [; B空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  ?3 K& p5 B/ z) s! e
很少會超過一天～6 h, p, g5 V" Z/ c
要期待更好的明天呀！