熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! s" N% U, V8 V$ N. m+ q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; O1 L+ G' s7 @" [% v
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 U( s& [' S6 o- ~0 u
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" A3 {! N+ C1 f5 d' B% N覺得好空虛
; }7 l3 a0 Q0 k7 W7 w4 l其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* G* v8 W5 x. a9 ?* B卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 {5 p# _6 T+ e- B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# `* m6 ^7 V  z

+ ~3 W% M7 ]& s  G[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. j- l3 \% l+ v2 r5 L; G0 c$ ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ @8 c  G) C3 m
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 `0 V# L" j& D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 J" ]; D2 r- F# G1 j9 l
日日有車站,$ b( p) v* ?7 X  ?3 s' h
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 q) u1 l" L- e1 T* T, z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 v' c5 ~5 |7 B' f. I如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 _" ?9 G% v. B, U
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
. U! l" m/ S6 k0 ?: Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' B. U! @. D% B7 C- [8 y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; h" y. y, o: F) m# S& d) c
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. l* ?( y4 c1 M/ j) h, w  x8 B4 q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 @% ?! u( p# Q" P+ ?3 O& |. M
日日有車站,
9 G( x# ~: P( R3 v! H有目標!

: @/ q/ H! u5 L9 g& R  Bwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  H2 Q7 j% V. z' U
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( h9 N) j4 ?+ y9 y8 {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 p$ b# g& y; o& V
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! T7 Z; ~* d2 p. o" X* ]% O! ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 z, y+ V+ \$ d) [
覺得好空虛/ R8 a' g3 @0 ^  r1 _6 m/ X$ I
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: A2 v( ^" E! s8 b3 J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' }" ]8 x" c+ w
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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1 E7 O4 ]3 q! n; }( D這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.5 X/ s" r$ c: G9 i, t9 P
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 \% X& K( H$ C: A7 D
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 ~( T( D" `$ B: t; C) Q; |( B

1 m9 ]9 I8 O8 ?# R+ ?1 cPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 p4 y4 n; f/ \+ \5 i; x* W5 @9 p1 Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 Y/ ^: q% {! X$ T
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( ^' r  n+ y) A& [
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# d3 H, P# k# u, R2 ?

1 d0 l% d, {" B* _: H' e$ mJust another thought on lonliness:
8 C- f# _6 j0 B! D' p. ]$ w+ V7 B& CLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
( c1 L4 j- Q3 u) PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 S, H2 m; F" t: V
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% S# s7 ], e7 p! E$ `0 z; c
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
: N/ [( _3 ]& D- m9 U或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 D! a. o( u# X5 ~, I" d空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! K* i( y! U7 S很少會超過一天～- H- c: F4 a7 x& H
要期待更好的明天呀！