熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 N* l. T3 P' u+ J0 n$ ]9 z好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ k& M* q. R6 T' A/ }# {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* t9 V1 n% K/ h. ?
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% M$ ]" w4 U  Q% n* S' o2 \' w3 a
覺得好空虛
; T" \/ u/ x1 d# D7 z. ^) r) m其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- y# r2 X4 L6 y/ R5 g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& w0 ^' t  G" v: g用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," s! u# l. E$ R; N+ j3 R
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) u3 @5 u3 S- ?- e4 t1 l( V' Z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," Z* u+ |$ A: F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% {/ c8 G; A9 K日日有車站,1 ~' Q, v& h( ~) s
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 G/ E- M* k. u7 J2 ^( B1 E你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# g! H1 Z# D) t2 H* D" N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# {1 R  Q0 b4 o3 U我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.1 c- J* I( C) M1 ^/ N
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' ]4 e% P  e! L玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* a  m/ |$ a2 I" e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:% `) g9 F+ T  `3 l( d+ _5 K, E! w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 p2 L/ U1 O& D& H! t* V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- d1 S5 u* [/ I* j0 i
日日有車站,
- F# x( w# e1 z7 X  n* ^有目標!

, F4 e  _7 M7 u) T, C* }7 Vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 Z0 c* e3 M" s& {+ M  f如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 ?( _7 l6 P* L, G$ }好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" @0 @3 J/ c# E$ i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 O( d' X, I( I( u6 y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! v* V# z* r) a
覺得好空虛
% t1 M2 a1 p& H$ P5 [+ L1 K: @其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( a3 H$ a: E, }6 j  T! ^1 |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ d6 Z3 |. Q+ e& W  \1 r
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 A* a9 M# }  j  m! W( a; h" R

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 X$ i/ w* B) O' W# Q$ S3 _- C; T
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ r# c: L+ Q8 D: p
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. Z  o, W5 f) P4 L' }8 [

1 V" s; \0 h9 V) f1 {* D) ^3 k- `, JPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) [3 W& I9 N! S+ H
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
/ V2 l2 X. {$ sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 ~# ]5 s2 |7 R' U/ f6 N* ac) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., f- l% D2 J1 F8 [, j* p% p& |

, Y5 ^' I! K& ]& TJust another thought on lonliness:; m& [2 u9 E& ~; ]% F1 Q" G5 `
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& |9 X! h+ a( @4 T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 Q* F) W* Z; N- a9 u2 P$ e我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 }7 C7 P5 b$ a- |# i6 u8 B
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 m; P  x4 ^& T. @2 W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  s4 E, l) G. G7 e; e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
1 |/ [+ P" ~0 z3 K# S很少會超過一天～: M* W8 a/ z3 x% k2 F: v4 I2 d
要期待更好的明天呀！