熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 b% h" i& F8 Q) K5 K2 s8 ^- ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, v( K! Z1 g: V& V* f" ^琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 T' A5 f/ v/ n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 W  t" g0 L: W, V覺得好空虛, {* X' B: d1 I  `( x/ O6 A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: j. c2 d3 o$ Z: Y6 s4 _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) ?: S0 F) _% h/ x0 x: [9 R& P" @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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- F3 s2 a! i, h; I9 N[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( ~5 D! W' _# ~; e2 l( W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 U! I  l7 s: r' e( K8 U" p
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 p" I3 q, }( W, f. W
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, s. [( I7 u9 a: d- Q日日有車站,9 N1 L" r4 A/ F7 _
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 s) L. r1 d# g8 a4 x! B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.* M6 H8 O' d9 Z: _6 _: [6 b8 M7 }  S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 h  H: A' q2 j$ o7 J; G$ Q玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& W) V0 _0 v! d
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; w% E9 X4 A: q% t8 Y% W; b其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 ^* R7 v- Z, r* i' |% Y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 D! U0 j+ m4 J9 P4 h日日有車站,0 c; c8 ]% Q! Y8 n
有目標!

: ^7 W* t( ]$ ?5 G, z1 G/ |% d: \what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' a+ F, ~/ _2 {, S8 _+ p6 g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; Q, l8 }" r4 }% l8 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 `" L3 P, G& P7 R' T% q! U0 s琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! U2 }0 \  w- P& z0 E, S' J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 ?" j' `& L5 C! ]3 m4 n& L. S) T# ~) r覺得好空虛
, w0 a9 t" L7 M# `# N1 o! H其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) s. ^: h6 R4 ]/ c  Q2 I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 D, Z4 A* o9 W4 t: s; o) a+ M7 n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 V, T* Z- I0 k4 u  [6 f# w$ l- U

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( {8 @  J0 W5 D唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 R  V; X# J8 t6 ~0 K' _; r有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.7 m! p/ U6 j% y$ j9 q- P! O) @3 g

6 p  o3 B' C7 F9 h2 j0 rPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 D$ v/ ]3 v- O) e) {: g$ ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 `% j/ v: g8 ^6 @* o7 y, ]% hb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
% b4 ]4 b# s% Dc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 y& N( F5 d) k3 a8 T, G3 G; kJust another thought on lonliness:
: M4 Z" S/ D8 l0 X# {( H8 r4 kLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ H1 e, o6 B1 f- E5 U
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 b3 P1 g. g' d+ z( Z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; N- n* ?  `2 U1 F- j* w2 N
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# |8 k$ e4 Y6 |2 \2 h+ s
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* f# Z* ?- I& H4 t8 i+ N空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( ^' u0 e( v3 z  m" L5 l" P- E- ]很少會超過一天～, s8 ?7 Y# C  G3 f) x
要期待更好的明天呀！