熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" P# T+ d$ i6 ]. S8 B3 b6 m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# K- H# G/ X% ]1 h7 `* p0 x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 _6 h$ B" N6 ~9 F/ o0 [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! H+ v) c% a( @$ G6 d& l9 e
覺得好空虛/ s$ D5 A, Z4 H9 b/ Z( o
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 E( B$ W! d9 M; m3 r7 Q  ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; w! j8 V. r) ^) C+ K* z! }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ K) x5 M( \* X, U" f$ \/ I; }

- e. n+ ]8 V* x* L5 n4 c9 Y! N! T[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
; Y2 Z: w0 {, q: O" W, c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 j; Y: U3 B/ h1 o0 _4 ?熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 u* H, @6 t+ s# V8 p9 d所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 r, {7 x) \" K$ Y& [3 M日日有車站,! {9 w" w/ P9 z5 y" k9 K- u  v0 ?
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 x$ X, |- t- {: j( P% a你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  N& e3 i& b$ Y: r7 c' T4 h. _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 y7 c' v4 a2 C( K% W我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; }" L* j4 S' [8 |5 [, n: O  |2 s! n8 F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
/ l5 i( a. ?% c* P1 c* ~玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# r' d. J! L1 ~: V* G總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 i9 S9 `* d) X' X2 K1 w其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 S, ^' p4 p" q3 S1 m! m  C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 Q, U) d7 G8 I" N2 U
日日有車站,* e) L0 Z) `6 y& K  [# Q) H9 M- l
有目標!

6 R4 k+ x/ l) a  nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- b  @" O9 o: a- {6 d; ^3 z4 T- u7 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. q" L  m# b/ C# q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% V$ X# t  m0 K4 ~8 z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' V! z- s6 {; D/ ^, x, ]* m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 l6 Q* ^" g6 {/ c$ b9 w
覺得好空虛5 X" V! A) x+ Z7 |' I0 {
其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 j: M9 _/ E% r% }; G1 e
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, j0 N) g; W: W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ p) V( z& v4 }0 R+ L' p

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 ?$ m/ R3 X- q4 |: K唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.1 H: b$ t4 I9 w; j3 Z$ {5 Z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, J$ I& H* ?+ Z& z* \, n/ L6 Za) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 n& G+ Z) }9 Z! Bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
0 U/ F) S. X6 o( f$ f$ L2 n9 Jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.( e6 R+ h& Y/ d/ C

" Q+ W7 D( b: Q/ d0 FJust another thought on lonliness:
! w9 o6 }) h# B5 L  ?, ^* ?Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
7 S4 O- x3 s" ^5 aBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
- q* U! K7 s( q( M" V; E我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 H4 }: x+ Q2 N/ }8 [: U
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ d- s5 [. ]) g1 C- ^3 J或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～8 Y0 ]4 M  D# f3 f' S: V. @
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ b) e+ \6 a: X# X+ Z5 R- A. N很少會超過一天～
" S2 O0 G% G8 T; w1 u( Y& {要期待更好的明天呀！