熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; Z. x9 A8 M& Z4 _. I: w% k好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% d) G4 e$ T* o4 r, I琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- Y- ?  V7 `. B4 R0 Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( [2 H3 j- M0 J& d1 _0 \
覺得好空虛
2 W$ w( M8 Z* {- J; ~4 p) U3 r# t其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 U9 x! M6 c, Y9 S: A+ a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& e6 Y8 O% r' ?6 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  K. _, g# A3 F9 ?1 B8 s4 j- p% W* j
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
# M( Q: e" m$ p7 T6 o3 F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ M9 n1 d) X7 I, n9 [
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 T7 p8 P9 c' o6 \: I9 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ I0 s; H9 l% g3 q: f0 ?日日有車站,
  X/ w9 ^' i/ o9 m" c, u( G; x& Z有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! j2 _1 F* e7 D; a
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. H$ ]0 L. \* F6 h) L  U  X& w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 _6 P& g' j: `) q  X感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 e* l' d# `$ h& O+ y# |
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 q: l$ F/ I$ t* H/ h總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 t  ^* `1 \9 `7 [& |其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% w& l& A0 D. w9 N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 b' M7 J- m% R9 J6 v
日日有車站,4 {; T0 P# D# E# l0 K) E
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" x: ?7 s! Z( n/ v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, Z: j  M) Z( Q$ g* p$ o好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 ^1 h- T3 ^4 B+ P# V
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 B6 ]/ X0 {, E* q, A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 L. K* i: H' S. P4 o& W7 F覺得好空虛
1 Q0 M; f! @9 y7 G9 i* n其實早幾次都有試過係咁) z/ B* V9 U5 t& K* a. h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 Q1 J6 r3 I3 X+ O9 M- g用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 r  I- J6 n3 g& C4 j. R
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足." K" E2 l5 o+ Z& o, |
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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/ Z: `  r" s' c/ _' u* NPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 J$ ?  A4 S* [( v3 O: T
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long( q2 M- E; K8 Q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
3 H& P, `3 y" L& O7 T, ^c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.9 o* [. U3 I* e  |

& g( P- f6 F- J' l$ K7 wJust another thought on lonliness:5 J  J* }4 B9 E( s  a( H7 M: @
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 k4 `6 i. R7 s% K3 yBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. l# G- p8 X+ G& q% j8 }
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: A; P) b* W% k$ h" p就好似睇完一套好睇的電影' }- @& B7 M8 S, l
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  f' Q( H+ \0 A+ f4 [0 e
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！