熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 d0 Y* f# G4 p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- V+ t: b- t- Q( d琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, D+ l0 V& m0 v$ ?; O9 l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( f, S  o3 P( z' i2 @$ Z4 _覺得好空虛
4 J' \, i- {. u! z0 f& P7 D0 B! T3 \其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 F6 h, i, Z* ~5 n' G, E; r- {" C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 h) L: I. i4 Y! h
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; R) k6 p, `% \; _

; z* Q* H3 s* J[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 {$ r  a. M! @2 M& l
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& h# C/ x- i. k1 c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# \% Q' u6 k* k% A" ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," `0 A' H1 o& S- p  K. w
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& u7 r, @( T( Q' R" F: u; H
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 e* {" E& }' t& z5 i. m
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." H) K+ P4 g; F8 I3 I9 P4 ^" `
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 f0 V8 }% Y# ?' Y, c8 Q# f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
* K( b8 P2 x2 Y2 r% l% o+ a總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ w: x/ N5 Q: T4 L) b' _
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* t  Z! A+ u: B- b# V. M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 L: f* P7 A0 @1 e
日日有車站,
% t' F  H. h1 ~# Q有目標!

) v% W8 r# I8 Y  z6 Pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 i. |, ~) Q9 z% S  ^
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% k6 i  A: @* N1 C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 ^* [$ j5 R) V  S$ O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: W- q0 E& P. e9 w( I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 L! N- M! Q# {) c$ k覺得好空虛2 \5 }6 C- v" k* \4 d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 j, y9 t" g% w# }) j' ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* F8 V. W& w1 b* n4 u" L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' o! ]# U$ K  r7 v  W5 v

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 k% `2 K2 h" C! x' t  H" z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.4 C# b- K! O* n
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: n7 ?, t- V/ q

5 x2 K. b3 `0 K  A3 ]. `People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 }; H) ^" i8 D$ y
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# r/ ^: H$ v: P) v+ n8 fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
3 Q! L4 G' T8 e$ f5 r. @1 Gc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
* k4 Y1 {' B5 q' A" Q6 WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 }2 Y# H: b: b, p8 [4 z6 g0 P
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～% H3 V2 l0 t; F. c; X3 ?) G
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" C! N5 R: G" Z2 k: ]3 \# h2 J7 H; |就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 i; z( e# }2 W4 y2 {( A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' {" B. [; }! G% w空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 [0 V8 }& p- E) F
很少會超過一天～
3 L4 g- ]% p+ I% Q- Q( s. ^$ N要期待更好的明天呀！