熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! @' d* z+ e( c% l. t- p好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% E  e9 ~! V. s" I琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; @0 Y# J6 c' {" B* O' E6 d: f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' l, x) B5 Y6 f7 N( _覺得好空虛
5 M0 Q7 R9 S' s1 h9 s% {其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# {: N+ k+ I) j, r( i6 t9 S' _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) D: R+ J- N3 @& H3 @' l+ h用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 o- O. J' s- a* C" r! y: |# [: h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 K* |; e7 a# ^. v  s熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" R8 B: }& \$ B% K% a所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' p, r  ?/ b2 ~日日有車站,& A0 }0 I9 G- E9 J% c
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) o3 }6 i5 v# c8 E: v你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& j, I! n, O6 {9 C' U$ C% e
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 `" ]; t. c# ~# H$ ^我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 e( A& i- V- g4 q! v感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( [  t2 g/ C7 G  S$ q  V! l玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
; i2 w8 n4 O7 e* [+ l總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; r3 u, ]( I! a其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 K' K) H# N; G. A, z" O) X5 O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 f8 |5 F1 L+ ?4 O; [6 t) b  |% Z6 b
日日有車站,& [9 X  w  a/ a# [
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 @  B' i9 \9 i- U* ]3 d9 w9 L如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 t& w) [) p) `3 F. O: p3 y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ s3 r& q6 v! _; [$ P9 ^0 t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 d' y" m# R* G4 }- E7 [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: J' s6 n. H: w; w
覺得好空虛
* t+ O. H7 L  R- W其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ q9 V$ ~& n2 [8 N, ^7 [7 `
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' E& V. S+ y0 N: m# {( G) k" V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- J4 X5 O& h& a, _( _3 C
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 p; @+ I, S, n0 I% F! B1 d
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.  ?9 b- \& _! t' _
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) g2 s1 A9 l% G1 C
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& W. {6 B- M) f& d8 V, Rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 u9 e+ U; i! A" F
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- ?( T0 Z3 |7 r. a2 k

( o, j# r4 v; y5 mJust another thought on lonliness:
, y* N9 m1 l. t6 y- O5 LLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... k5 [6 U6 u8 m# ^6 r
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( A  R! h1 h# u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: \, ^+ W3 ~2 f- Z4 \2 X) @就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 a* K: c1 {7 I# ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ `, q: `- e7 f) @$ ^# U: Y2 i$ C& e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 i7 g) G  t& |1 v很少會超過一天～
* O, }) i: J0 m8 p2 U6 |要期待更好的明天呀！