熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% i/ O% F* ]2 ^1 @/ _; ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' U8 m2 F( V! b! a1 @8 ?! w2 p) b4 L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& N1 k, Q3 w6 |& q0 G% w" a6 f0 F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 L5 g, D' j$ T: h4 _) W( a
覺得好空虛
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卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! x9 V0 D8 c( x1 |& J. O! e
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 z, ^" V' U4 r5 w0 f
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& y. k; N( t) b, b但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
& @( C3 k6 B. N9 N# ^8 n# k熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 C, Q! C8 P6 x3 s! w- L
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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2 |8 q. n* i" \( i有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 R" ~( d- w( g. b5 o) x8 K, P你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. c8 O; M7 {9 c# b4 d; n4 @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. L: h2 k7 }0 |7 W; ^  i. H7 M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
6 O4 w0 x1 a0 {% s% l! h玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( d& M0 T  n. U. w! ?總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
5 ~/ a, I% A% }0 X其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! w) x$ N6 l. d2 {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 Y5 t) v2 P7 Z
日日有車站,) w: {: Z: n9 ~
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% R: b3 \2 h3 l7 D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' l" @5 r& \, @5 B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 Z( `0 h. [$ ]6 L; ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ y" H4 N3 v, K+ Q1 t9 y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% e1 q. `" Q( Z覺得好空虛8 w9 E) P; [! T( L6 x# w
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 H1 ?' B1 p0 f# d% B
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 o, F9 M+ m- Z6 U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, W' U1 u( q4 C" p

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 o, O" ^' q) p, N) a
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% d' ]+ @1 H3 W有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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1 |/ \% ]4 t  g6 l. Kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 \2 k5 P1 f/ a5 t4 K' B# gc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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* n3 \* f7 i* S  Y6 ?4 ^0 w( V( hJust another thought on lonliness:0 b+ H3 [0 i, T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
4 u) y8 ^5 M. o2 {But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～, o! M: g& w  {- c9 k, m9 `0 F
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
  [8 j4 N! m) \: F0 p% H1 O就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！