熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; E& b* ]4 x. Q2 @: c$ @2 G! |2 }
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 l; U3 Z" @: y9 I0 _' I5 I' ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' s, y. X& c; {. r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: O6 A4 y: f+ g- B0 T& ]覺得好空虛! Y, X( L: \: a0 b
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 D, H7 s  g, K2 H9 _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; G4 \% q$ [7 f2 i  u6 @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,/ {* Y; o* q- a
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 D6 d- N1 w! p1 y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% `4 V7 p: w  p+ m所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& F1 A1 w* e: t
日日有車站,
. v: j( k3 l4 i6 x1 f4 P2 j有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ ~2 m' C' B* [6 t! K3 z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* ]9 V1 }  ~% d( B, b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

) r- n- M) T1 w- m. n我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* H, N( V1 s2 Y5 d感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 ^- c) A7 J5 s) R, K- e. P: R- z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' X; I5 Y" B6 @  T: x% P4 \, f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
" x% T/ u3 A9 a其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! U) f: y5 @. d* F) s( D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 t! P$ i. a: T$ K  O. q8 W7 \! o" M' A
日日有車站,
4 p" k" E$ q# E, o) i  D有目標!

& U3 D  {  e, y4 n: B+ Cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 ]7 i7 X* z* ?6 k) \% c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. a: i% _7 ^8 X  e; H0 E0 u8 y: N
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 e9 l: U; x5 `9 c3 u琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# j# y' c6 v0 a% z% L& I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' S0 J0 h1 A$ S& B5 d覺得好空虛
% f9 o' `2 d& B% X其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; a' k9 x) f: Q. h) W9 }) E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 s- d6 f% [- K. ]& d+ B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" b  |5 G6 o1 V5 e* X" P

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 @" O& o; V5 A6 R唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
( [& f0 R3 I1 F8 c# t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: g1 e' N3 c; C! b7 d( e
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: |' F# @( d& X  W+ c
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 S; R) P% U9 d+ \b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; k' I4 q  l  Oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." X/ [* G; r0 W: c- F7 A& [  z

+ D% C+ Z" T2 a( j# V0 PJust another thought on lonliness:( _2 u: {; N* i0 \
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....8 [0 @. K' {; x8 I6 h3 Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
+ t( N7 r5 k$ r# ~9 f我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
3 Q+ P) L) S7 O4 g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 @/ J1 k/ B2 k! n6 M; P1 O
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 X/ {2 j  X4 m2 F+ }; A
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 J2 E+ A0 d# c$ M1 S: L8 V* X2 H很少會超過一天～
  A$ \; N5 i" V; r) F' J. d/ D( |要期待更好的明天呀！