熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: F6 ]- O  \2 z$ R0 l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! ]* Q# C3 E3 O+ }, m7 R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 y$ L9 Q) ]/ E, j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# O) l. {" S* H- V" v覺得好空虛" z: \- E& p# g% o0 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ p0 n! S. ^6 X7 P( ?1 w- }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 o/ Z( X2 K* n% J用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 t$ Q5 P0 r% n! |* N
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 Y+ Q! C0 a' L- Z/ F2 L但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ a( S' ]; j/ y& k
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* Y. E% k. N8 R% d4 J! w0 \7 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 u2 M3 k2 R2 _# U, V: [6 G4 o$ [$ k: Z日日有車站,
9 Y( r* |8 c9 A" G7 x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 H4 E3 }7 P& D, E: ^
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. O8 I( h& I/ t# t5 [3 m9 @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
2 `# h" @6 v5 i感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." q( I) g) l. _  I/ t
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( W/ J; |/ J7 ^7 K6 U1 X8 Z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 x7 x& v( H8 @% r' Q9 s其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  z0 F0 Z5 n( e! a所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. x0 P4 M% f  O7 p, a) z
日日有車站," q+ {: w8 R5 [4 v" Z, R
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) d* s& j- k+ e. _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 p- L; w$ B9 L9 e, j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  W8 a7 B# L9 n( r) a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" Q# @+ w0 @0 ?/ J+ f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 g: l9 \: V2 [5 J8 u, z
覺得好空虛
; n1 B+ `$ d) q' I2 ^其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ ^/ z+ q9 ^, H1 R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# z2 l$ Y( L& W/ A) s! u) a8 r
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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! l% o! ]. J, Y# o& p. J# E. E這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦." I1 S6 z- {7 p% E
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.2 ?* ^% n' r( ~4 d+ M
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 o4 z% i% Y8 t' `8 P* J; la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 u% e$ i: T, o7 |. V  A) w" Xb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
: P( {# x  L2 s3 X( t6 b+ ]c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 V& d8 ^# @' |( Z- R6 c  g3 U

, `  |' l  Z. \5 VJust another thought on lonliness:
6 `6 S" E" X2 J/ N& ~/ mLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ J: S: ]. O7 u( W' WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 e- W1 q2 I; |3 r' G4 b( I
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 P" [$ K% Q; @9 L
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 D6 H1 k% J' X( c( h或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 q: {8 G5 ~" |: @' ]: U- b2 G. G空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 }! g6 G. x; K6 N) s很少會超過一天～
; [" ?* Z, I- c- J2 W要期待更好的明天呀！