熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( ]- P9 ~$ T$ s好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 V7 Z  s6 Q* n& x, \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* n- N  \( A3 j  i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: ]: L( I( x- o& }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" u6 _) `6 Y+ E$ _+ S
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& @% E+ }8 i: V" X* o) j9 T/ v

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," _2 n* ~6 N, v" Z; p$ W# q' w
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& R' }' H# E3 Z
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. I) A5 \+ y3 F% i/ L
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 [$ Y" G, v$ `7 n: i& L8 z; A! B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: W( F+ g- \: D) S; @3 T# ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 Y& b& O2 H2 y, V# \& B感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 `9 \  {7 z; o& D玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 d. S, k) U% f3 {  _總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. F' R# R2 a, @1 j其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, W- J6 u, _% M7 J. o所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; l+ w  {& c0 ^* @) w8 ^日日有車站,
0 A$ G6 x/ W$ e有目標!

4 j3 V1 Q4 s8 Y# `9 I! P9 Lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, D) {( P3 V, I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 {8 j' |1 o" j2 r0 b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& O, ]  a; G/ L' y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! c$ l/ V$ s! [, l5 ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; U, O3 a' r% t. y/ k覺得好空虛
% Z* F7 x; G/ ]; M% o其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 t8 E) f- `) @; Y& O" Y! o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 m# p3 ?3 K% b+ E, F, N8 P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- h0 G3 J0 l. Y& K4 t! r- F( R4 N

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) I/ F: D) ^" V' o0 B3 p) M; T
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.! M+ q! U% V, f# ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 t. Z, g' E1 i! S
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ V0 f& `5 x* x0 ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( q) Y& v- y) K$ d. o3 bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ j+ n/ z: e$ @* K4 g0 Q
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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  h* Z) P: C6 U# P8 ]5 a0 FJust another thought on lonliness:
- E! Z$ M' U9 [( b- U& |; E+ l9 FLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ @+ v+ W7 A& M6 }* l8 `
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 M8 w* J1 ]; P; T) @( C4 L我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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3 t2 ]% C' ]: n2 l或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ l' D3 J1 }3 K  T5 L; h& A8 e
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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! i& t# O  x9 ^) z要期待更好的明天呀！