熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 @" c: Z5 D3 j- ^, ~& m! d+ ~, `2 w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& y3 ]! u& E( v2 U' p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* E4 E2 d3 u0 d- t+ x; u) D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* f+ h$ J3 [) \' Q. P. S$ q
覺得好空虛
2 j% B8 J/ ^( J6 C, C2 ^其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 C$ c: d3 O  T) L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! N  K) W% M) [& R2 G- ]( e, e2 P9 |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 E" c  i' A/ P3 n0 V) L

* ~! Q% S' F% f& f1 Z7 E3 ~[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 F& ^: k6 N) E
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
" I6 T$ r0 ^/ _8 X熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 j! z. _* P& v% L3 W; H/ _$ o所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ f3 ]; |" ?6 |! F5 ?4 [# \9 M
日日有車站,
+ D8 C% O3 _; S. F" n7 j/ d有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ Z) H9 c! q) u6 x
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) N9 Y0 a. Y- e% s" O+ Q# P8 q  Y  }2 s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

+ g+ _( Q! s+ c. z我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ ]" ^1 U) l" D# P2 [% Y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  o- z8 D/ Q' I2 n% v玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' h# _, W8 t$ p1 I2 k. h
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* E# Q' S1 ?0 ]+ i6 ?, i其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ Y& L2 q) p* u/ f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. |9 n" I3 L( r日日有車站,2 h8 f4 N" F: m- e
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 m- W; F# j/ U! R3 [! z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 u) b6 R' P' V+ M$ [, w' A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 P4 e  Q; L/ p( U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- x1 C$ I, I! }- q% \& ?% W, a個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& u% z" w* o* I  ~  S覺得好空虛5 j1 a" e. r* t, D% p- p- v0 c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 k+ D& i* F$ ]: x- K- @
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! M* V/ n% ]5 k0 v# U3 g$ O用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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% u2 Y! q9 y# e  c( Y9 m$ e這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.! t- @+ z/ H9 _5 ]6 t3 Z" B! k/ l
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& H* h& B% P# f# N
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.8 D0 d( z) N7 q0 f) C
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 ~, `( Q8 E1 K  l/ ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
! O+ `' v" z/ g/ k( B) yb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ h- O8 H% u/ m; T3 M1 q
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 R/ x- m3 ]9 t! h3 V* @, ]# F% G
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Just another thought on lonliness:
+ L# @; l; }2 b. M1 w: WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ t9 b5 p- {  [; K; R
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( H2 f5 @+ q9 Q! [. ?0 I8 z) J: n' @
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- `7 p. H6 o$ u就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- }- g; p6 t. ]( o0 O或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 x2 G$ y9 S& f6 l: l  t5 p& [
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 q& N0 I  R* y  }  B& f; E* a
很少會超過一天～
, l, }3 Q. q' D- K$ ~要期待更好的明天呀！