有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...8 q  Q6 h% R; k( p+ i: E  I- I; y

; d# Z8 q: X1 L: o% a- ?感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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, r+ e3 N( `/ F) V& w  C/ ^any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..+ e% S" _: `5 ]4 w$ }1 B+ G
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁../ p. Q8 G  v/ n1 _/ m( T: O) {
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:+ q  T0 g, R4 }$ n) m% l$ J: W& B7 ]
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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, t! S& s6 `! L% Y( G  ]good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me6 |% j' g+ L0 E
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唔係好想講experience.... m1 S3 I3 r3 J
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠, # K# ~8 h3 m* F5 Z8 o1 i7 L' T
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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" C+ b" W3 q" B6 k  C我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.3 l  X- w3 ]0 @: ?0 `' d2 ~
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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2 f0 r$ q# k" b) d我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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