有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...% G9 F- O; H* r/ E$ s! A
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..3 U5 o5 p. c& K' m
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁.." a2 E/ t' I: d% d) m+ {: d8 V
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:7 R. @& T$ f3 r) N4 m5 ]. K' A
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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: U" N: d) s$ \: c; m7 W0 K- Wgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me& h) u) g% X8 T* r- V
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唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.7 [) u0 w6 R0 w

% P% E. F' _9 O6 b- a6 _2 D7 V: E解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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6 F( [! @$ c/ u! i9 Z# ~我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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