有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...+ f+ }% ]: V. r3 w. A: ?+ p5 Y7 o
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...7 T+ z3 K9 @6 g* U6 e+ }$ @! W" H
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..7 S+ Z  i. j; s) q0 D
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁../ w/ X# u) a- |5 z
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:1 i, Q4 M6 e' Q
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me2 a# a/ J# J6 ?* N: c2 N
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唔係好想講experience.... y9 A8 j0 g; E: P
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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* [6 b" H7 ]  b5 L* o/ _我唔係想做獨行俠,
# w2 A# P5 ~8 u" @4 K只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒." y; w8 @8 N* r0 k" m  W5 G
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:' S! W  j1 g$ C- w5 K: u: l
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; I5 h0 W& }- ^+ q0 _我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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