熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 w9 E  l: n9 |9 @) q好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 e$ X5 Y( j! a& |! Y3 E
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* E: Z7 D4 u1 ]3 C. z6 O( ^' Q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: w8 B5 x: Z: }- w4 n; l. z/ w6 j8 s覺得好空虛
' g- }3 m& y, q! r) {8 a其實早幾次都有試過係咁( }8 P3 m2 f$ X& j8 ]" X; z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: K4 O- L) N% k/ \* i, p3 `8 O) v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 W0 `$ H4 E) Y; C8 n1 x但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 u0 p2 R2 [1 {! K2 q
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ d- g" }3 t: Z; w" f$ E' C. m所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ s5 k; _1 z/ }/ z日日有車站,
4 ~" Q  |4 w# y. d' K有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ [4 V9 {+ r5 g1 `3 ^( y" ~5 E你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  b' q5 D. M5 I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; b% Z" ~; \/ S7 k( {" ^感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; s3 W  v" S; J" f8 I$ z# c& w
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." y' \. S( {  |% n
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! ~& p+ g5 H  D& _其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; Q( U1 d5 K6 {; Z3 v" D8 w( D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," p  b/ w" x' n% M! E* I
日日有車站,0 ~5 v" E* Y- n( o
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* @, }; }* X' z- y% r3 Z) H/ v6 H, ?: n如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ C3 m6 N5 x. A) d1 A9 L( J  E好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 o8 j( t: P4 I% F3 k; t& m* O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) K" x2 M1 Y( a6 o0 M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 k1 Q" S; q( f3 @* A覺得好空虛
+ s6 y7 B9 e+ ?" i& _# I$ M" `6 P其實早幾次都有試過係咁* }/ p% f! C& f+ V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" h/ p9 q' x, m" v3 R$ F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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) _4 N/ E% z7 a3 Q5 g3 D這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) x5 A3 d" Z9 C' c' h/ o; v唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  j6 V; E& w  A$ _0 S0 [1 I7 K
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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3 m- t* m/ B. A& S# E3 B$ ePeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. P5 o* C# g  P* F, f/ I+ m& Ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# r$ p2 g+ B7 i4 d0 a; V0 R3 w( wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 w! y9 H- |  c! Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
( k6 ^1 Z2 s; ]2 Z: S2 e* fLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: n) r3 j! m0 m6 h
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 ^/ y* J( w& x1 z' r我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& Y- Q3 d' \$ i6 \6 B5 B) g& a
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* c: i9 r  \7 ~. _- L* l1 }1 W或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  g$ _+ b# s5 V+ G7 o0 k- \空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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+ R+ Q) E4 R/ b要期待更好的明天呀！