熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: Q, {% ~$ e  g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 x) U1 a3 d; m; R2 H# W, \& p
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: o$ m+ u, M! B個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* R1 F1 S, n* R覺得好空虛, |! [/ O" i5 f$ a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% P3 v2 X% E# s; `" n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* d3 d  I8 a" y0 `2 G* u用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ p$ r. W6 w) r, E% k$ I

& j& O3 Q( U, f5 d  e, w( g4 d[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 K2 z0 H8 O' p% d" a
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 x9 [5 b" z4 X熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ n& O3 }$ z- L" c6 ?9 l( m( R
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" k. a! N/ ^& z日日有車站,' \, g' e$ @% X& c" j! i, g
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 H3 }' V% ?; e# G' z
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 D' H5 L+ Q9 u# _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% l* \4 n- t. y感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- O( d! T+ o' ?* u! |: x
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 K0 X- L1 i/ C; G9 |- h/ @總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 P# C/ }$ w/ ^% u1 s3 [: z其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( N7 N) r2 `; d& T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 |' Q2 n" l; P8 @( h: p2 j日日有車站," L: g+ m  P/ v) v% n5 D; _( {
有目標!

& w& `$ ?5 a/ gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 ~7 _8 `- r4 \8 }6 @7 T- f+ F6 t3 h如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: h8 ?: l/ D2 o; U好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ u  L2 ^+ ]" T琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, L: u0 X) o0 p' X! ], E個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" l/ a8 m2 u' i$ y% {
覺得好空虛
) N$ I; I1 A* y! z) V2 M其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 S' p5 ?- y! D; S7 {4 r) x
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) L8 O) [* y5 K% ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
; N( f4 m9 b/ }' z9 L唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ j0 y8 O. @. A+ D1 V9 _
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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; \' r: J# ]9 h+ s. u: A8 v1 V( GPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ i' [# m7 h" t+ ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
5 H2 q! r$ D2 ~b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' @5 m) K' r& y! d$ zc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:7 B# _5 _8 m4 w1 t
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... s( |# d2 s) {0 l5 T# C- Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
: D) u: e3 V- _3 Z5 g: D我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 i: d6 E# o; V# g
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* w5 [8 }5 t  d- A6 h6 Z" j
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 l  Z# m2 B1 P
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 |6 L1 I- _1 h+ Z, ]
很少會超過一天～) J( n/ V. Z: \% e! Z
要期待更好的明天呀！