熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* {! t. b- g. u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; y& F4 ~1 n# e9 ]+ o2 Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; w& U, p1 t$ b4 |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' l% F8 Q+ f! I/ n# H
覺得好空虛* b0 D9 ?0 e$ u& N
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 c- x/ j. e2 k/ S* q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* d7 \/ P1 |! C% V* y6 [用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 S, K0 u; L/ ^- T5 K8 I
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' J# |6 i: p0 w  k. z" f. R- q3 T
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% t7 z. G5 m! v' k7 n: H熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 M6 ?0 O* u% p1 Y. x7 I' R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! P# A$ N9 M- r. i  c  c日日有車站,7 n7 W8 d9 r6 a) z- l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙% ]. P$ A5 Z" `3 A, |9 B  u. }: u  _; Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* j( i9 ~( p5 B. e, w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ ]& `8 n# ]( Y, i7 n3 q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) i8 _; R4 \7 Q+ k  ]9 T$ y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 x& F+ k' O  d; ^玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) q& _+ T9 N4 E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 P1 i) \/ t  r# X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ ^* O  G( H7 Y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% g! T  F. M1 B+ o" J9 T日日有車站,
# Y! Q# d* n7 `( q9 _4 n1 a: C, ~有目標!

+ L7 ?% R5 @8 \0 x: C' Vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  j9 I$ A* p: `如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ F- k4 b6 t0 E  m好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 a  D" v4 ?, E/ R: t" n琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 V$ l0 Z" p% ^; {& x  b6 Z6 }) z5 r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 K0 E3 }6 g& A/ X8 |$ y% ]( f
覺得好空虛
5 F/ A1 u+ Y7 \; g4 _* r其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 O' u; [5 t7 y# K
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  @2 l9 A/ q- \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 k; O- J8 t0 L1 K, T' t8 c& d

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: f- `$ x4 t  k0 G7 s" H  T& _這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ A/ w! H( f  l# Z8 l, [& D1 T
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
* Y+ |1 P' B( e* @' K* l" F有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 M3 i; U* ^6 J6 l) h
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
: _5 ]  v, T- v$ V7 c( Ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." R2 m3 P# V% p" J- j( ?2 ^% r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ b% Q6 \! s- U, u

, S& h4 U6 F! IJust another thought on lonliness:
- L4 f) o3 {* a! R. v" VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....$ R: w% ^" b9 k. g
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
2 U7 [# L& Q3 R  X我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- F" j" z5 U8 F; `. a; G
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 U/ o1 l9 a1 U或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  u: J! R; Y6 j6 r/ x$ u空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 Q% F! Y1 z: {; w4 H$ o
很少會超過一天～
2 h5 _& A+ L0 F! `要期待更好的明天呀！