熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. D9 L" {  D. G: Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- J. ]" d$ h# {6 ^5 d7 J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! Y7 t# x4 M! ]5 r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ |+ C( G  d0 V3 _! J$ O; p覺得好空虛
% @2 E6 C2 `0 N: N其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; D: a8 U( \! R. u* @& D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& N  E( C) ^, W  X6 S
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 V7 C- E( p% Q/ n
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  c: a; e7 C# u- g但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* H& x4 B" b8 y# I9 |8 c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 f- f7 a# h( \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. e  U' q5 L! q7 A% A. |日日有車站,
: z* |  v8 k  p1 p8 v有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 M, q  C/ x, k/ ]: \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; |& O: A" {0 i" q, k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& Y3 S7 ], m2 l2 k6 F& j3 N' E我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 |1 m9 ~, e6 |4 w4 W8 E' P7 Y: {感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 M! {* v. q# ]
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 a7 R% Q% w! H4 D! X; _總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ ]& f( i# |7 A7 U; u
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 `; s. g  }  q( H! v7 Q+ _2 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; A9 j. K- D1 r, ]6 j
日日有車站,
% c# ^! x& f; l7 ~3 }# u有目標!

0 W6 ], R9 T  _) u5 f2 D" b$ v1 zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 Q# p$ l: f: f: e5 B如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; T6 ~7 J. ?& }/ b& H; x4 u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& s  A# j4 J+ G+ c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& E4 p' ~3 j% U" o# |' `! d0 d* J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 B' b: B, R  M: C- `) f! ~覺得好空虛9 v! n, p' S4 V& v- c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. F. q; l. [1 Q) E6 P3 F/ c6 g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 u+ e% g( n3 ^, C
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% _2 }6 x7 _/ H  e唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) w, \7 T& B3 h0 P0 |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ P! n* V# C6 F: N4 E9 m
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ N- o1 f: f0 w" [: n& _7 H2 D% v0 va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
" o' b. H8 c; z' F5 ^* Hb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone., g  k* Z/ F: d9 M7 a
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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9 o6 v% e" U% ^; i( zJust another thought on lonliness:
! Y' \, T" F5 _$ @" @# |5 JLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 F) @6 {0 b+ k/ s, M( a/ e
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
' w+ }, x1 T. ]' m0 S6 r我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
) d' z( D+ k) E# Y0 ?- Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
# O7 e" M2 J$ d! E9 K. t6 m或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
( g" |# B5 w( G: {4 [( B: T空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉/ h' I1 g) w) v( J7 b6 [
很少會超過一天～- B8 m& o# ^9 U) \; D# U
要期待更好的明天呀！