熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( z, R" `2 r# O4 |好唔鍾意呢種感覺# M$ W, q" p3 k, q* F* c" A; V5 t6 ~# o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 x0 q; A9 @% _- K( q9 o! \" d. i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( H* R% C- g. T5 N
覺得好空虛: E1 ]& H3 O3 t; G% g( F* ]; [% H
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' T6 Z- a8 j+ S, ^* N& n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  i; s7 n1 ]# K* v3 w/ o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: l* K% z0 y  L' ^- z

5 e+ u2 h! n( K) X[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! }/ V" f! C0 V/ M6 j- p, w
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
$ l6 Z+ f% X* P7 o) r: u熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. P6 N! X% L' t+ N+ }: a9 A所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) U& l5 W8 e4 e+ }. I日日有車站,' z: {8 ~$ {6 U
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* J, S+ t0 [- a4 m, q- R你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" H* W$ o/ @# S6 Y2 A2 j5 G" @/ o
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 |, {3 w$ y% U/ s我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# L! f( t- ~: O* o3 w/ r9 m
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ u) S+ K5 X+ m, I5 M  d+ x; N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
9 c$ L; f: h" J- d4 \總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:1 m( F# p7 @; h7 S' {: z3 k
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# T  ?) ^% p, |5 o所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ H. a! t' [2 o% x
日日有車站,# P* e2 Z5 z6 y* c3 E# {
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 ~. P6 Z- O6 R
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, c, @+ g1 }4 d' L5 @. t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 k: I9 p) B* ], W6 s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 |8 A' }: x; ^6 Y) b
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 g1 }7 }  A7 v3 J
覺得好空虛8 _1 y6 A0 {2 Q; H8 B# _' {( X  h3 p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 K; g) n* Z: ]5 f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% I1 ~/ b0 @# @5 G2 ^
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 S, W4 }$ r9 V" Z2 ^

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6 I$ s* ^* {) A$ e, K# m5 J這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 u  k) p0 e" i4 e0 g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ m2 p" |( F) W有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ Q3 W7 s3 \; k1 U; B2 G0 c: k
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 L' l  x& t" @  ~( ?/ Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( N" j; i% s8 jb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 {1 C" q- j$ u) G
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 Q/ i* c' K, f( W
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 i. y. t5 X& p. u) Q6 k2 K
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....3 L3 d% q( w0 v# y" o4 O
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ r/ n8 L% [  Z6 x6 x; a$ Y, `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
7 l# |$ K% [* R7 \9 N, V/ @0 W就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* I, }* G  H$ ^& G! T
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) v$ R8 o0 V  Y空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉! N8 L& a! C" Q) g- C- A
很少會超過一天～/ P/ C$ M* K4 n! |6 E' n' W
要期待更好的明天呀！