熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# A5 M/ y9 j! q  E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( L7 O7 a7 h+ u* m/ T8 {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 e% n7 p4 [( e) V, R$ q4 j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 T5 B7 R) `/ q7 i0 @覺得好空虛
1 h. C: g* M4 I其實早幾次都有試過係咁; j- W4 t4 q0 v' T3 l1 l( z7 r0 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, p, X- @# v0 n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 s6 ~2 k2 ]2 |2 y8 |3 W

' I0 R0 A7 C' n/ w' O. k& I& Z0 o[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 u; A2 C; @4 r: l; j( S但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( V. {6 I5 C( w5 p0 h3 a! l熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 S/ [  H* O+ _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  h+ H; Q2 j9 q3 {日日有車站,
* f$ |8 e. C; X9 l  t有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 F2 W% b$ m( r2 s+ Z0 Z
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 z8 y2 R/ f! s4 c1 @& C
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 s5 m7 J2 ~& L; v6 X. F我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; d: g' w( w. l
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% x: C9 a, X7 |: t
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, e6 r5 G. j( V8 M總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) e3 Y1 I$ e9 {其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ s& W- @' [( i: {$ r( O7 y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 z+ _9 k, H4 n+ M/ \# |日日有車站,
5 ~% B( K6 h! q, z$ h) ~% F有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 d  I* F" m5 z- f+ Q0 x5 [6 B. h如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 v. o, g- d0 \! Y$ |8 G! D好唔鍾意呢種感覺& `4 y2 z4 V. U) [  l; ^1 N$ f
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: `2 o: e' c5 u2 u8 W3 ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, F: k; g/ ?8 N% v
覺得好空虛
* A) V2 o0 S! {: d" }2 H其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" v4 Y' r6 S+ E: f  w8 Z9 e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, R1 e$ y& s; R3 I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 Z' z6 [! J6 n4 w' @9 E

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9 O) V6 z( ]& }" b這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 K7 m. L# L. y3 L- D1 e# N3 q唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: {5 j) F9 Z) N0 Q) ?) U有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.0 f- ?. `0 _& c( q& S: `

, K  V1 a! [/ fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* x2 t* R3 n  _a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- t! ~! k- W* [) V+ I0 C
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. ]+ S6 d. w3 u* O! K
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
0 q/ P( }# m9 |5 {1 \Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. z3 Q; ~+ N+ j8 |: @$ KBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ q3 ~% s* U& [, \. b9 I
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺+ V2 N7 M' z  d- Q1 S( [
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
) j" d) H6 I$ S% _+ Q$ E或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 ?* ]' j! M' Q" w: |2 Q# q1 I空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
4 M' S$ _2 h0 D' l! Z  |很少會超過一天～! [* n$ g" |- ~6 V- h
要期待更好的明天呀！