熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 @: {/ [# b" M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# q3 I, T. x! G+ p1 e+ M& D. }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ J* E1 ?) K0 L, M7 l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) W! @8 m8 g" J" v覺得好空虛
* Y" r; k6 n* f0 i- w5 L其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' J3 r0 p9 Z7 g3 H: ~6 r, b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 r% X9 r& ~# T* x$ q& @- o' A用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- O+ B9 X! f6 ]( V) w5 O2 X( ?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,& K; y% r- K8 E5 \5 y
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
$ y4 {0 U8 D6 G& I8 `- o熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! w# i. l& Z2 c. {
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& M7 i6 H( M, w# x6 D. ]- [0 e
日日有車站,1 ~: k) U, k) t# q& k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* R1 m& o- ^9 t6 s你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" e+ e4 L3 ^# ?* n1 ~$ R& D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

9 _9 ^& U! w3 _7 Q6 A$ I- \: d我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# A7 ?, e: H: G' V感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 D+ H$ d- v9 G& |1 s玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
9 Y, z" E$ A1 V5 E( R總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ m& N/ F$ \: ]( [( l5 n% W) X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! ]7 n! M- ]) A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 g; d# L- {# K) X' u日日有車站,
$ z' t3 B' I! i/ {% o1 O有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: P1 m- c$ i9 X  ~9 K
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  j/ [1 _: G/ f; E7 k6 C# S. ?. a
好唔鍾意呢種感覺# |: M7 u9 `9 U1 S- f; ?+ K8 P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& ^) h( L/ n/ {. k8 W
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ N; M5 g2 s; U覺得好空虛
9 F' S: w& N3 H3 x0 c其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' s( M7 ?0 L0 F4 T$ z) W" i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ B0 V! l0 ?# b* Q% _& i- U& |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; V2 s' T' S) g" W0 B
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& X/ J, m1 v, l% \8 o. Z0 |& u
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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9 b" k+ i/ a: K& w- p  fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  U9 ]9 D1 W' s, A: L+ J; Y6 ka) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long) {6 L5 w5 B, S# M" _: b+ U% ]3 ]
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 u  K! j0 s) E0 U5 i: q9 ^
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
3 d  D* j" x3 l. k! ^8 B2 mLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....# W6 H$ W8 W) N2 D5 V9 l
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
$ }3 t- s  D: N8 A% X3 r& v我會有一種十分空虛的感覺6 j3 O+ u/ y" `- ~: i2 a7 o
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影- P0 I: H2 E, d+ ^' K( A& O
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* x! z' @* @, _  w" x6 B5 ?; R
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 l. r# @0 G* h( a# m* ]; @2 N* Q
很少會超過一天～
  J4 C+ e6 K/ l要期待更好的明天呀！