熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* B; Q9 r8 t4 k8 c' q7 S1 i好唔鍾意呢種感覺) _" i- m; S$ W8 t& @
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  R2 t5 ]" x* c6 S" ]
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 C2 Y* H: \6 [0 f5 r  T. R覺得好空虛
9 P( ~9 w4 B* P/ a! G其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. Q+ I6 Y- }; q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ ~6 y0 y: p+ b) V# n/ I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 K( q+ M/ v# P$ V; `8 @: L但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% [1 O- n+ Y. T( o) V8 k' U
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 ]- X! {, l8 a) h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ B% j% L  j0 ?, Z/ l# r& @* t日日有車站,3 U: B; O$ x) d+ I' J; }) ~) K' X( N
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
5 G0 D, K  u1 q' a3 \8 n你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! `/ T+ F9 P! J* U$ C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# I3 A% J/ N/ k9 `& W7 ^8 F我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- f; k" R" h" T9 k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! K% P8 x7 V  A" W. T# L
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 ~& H2 i# Q9 R" v' B' N
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, ?( |9 E9 F3 d6 }5 D* V: R. X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 J9 E  f" Q, ]  c* x" c. d+ ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' g0 a6 U6 ?: a1 l2 U" U2 Q  h
日日有車站,3 U2 }( s6 w5 |; [3 R$ y9 _& s
有目標!

: g4 G  J: W& [1 Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 e: o+ M& \' P( g  ]9 u3 z2 P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( A2 b4 ]1 j, B0 `4 l# R好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 w! f9 u3 O5 N: k; Q# ~( h
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. G0 o& [! v! [) _$ \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% P9 H+ i8 T* m
覺得好空虛
  D3 ?2 F* Z: Q6 y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 T" m# y. P% Q7 x/ s: m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) G* R. q4 Z/ s0 r9 y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ O. I9 X! I, X( L) W
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 M) ~. Z% B# ^. A有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ H0 l7 K  _( B% }+ e
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 Z$ n9 t2 J9 h8 D. _( i
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) w" Z( R9 G( ?+ F: ^5 Wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! K/ o  j$ g/ w* M8 M2 i
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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1 q: p: n+ ^' w1 `Just another thought on lonliness:
; `& ^7 p" x) @8 C% J9 }Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& L0 m6 |6 T& V$ I* |" ?! ]
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
* ?: ]1 \. i+ @我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 e7 m1 U8 e( v1 \' S* d1 c2 N+ T1 @
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% c' |- T" x6 ?. W. h5 W或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～! Y2 U4 M( F2 G$ r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 h8 }1 w3 v$ p: i% W# t
很少會超過一天～+ x( X3 }2 B6 v* e6 g
要期待更好的明天呀！