熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' Y( {6 i) z0 K9 a) e6 M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; V( y% Z) a4 _8 Y1 Y4 ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& c. o) {# m, l! H; i) _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# o! _; e1 `7 B; J2 B+ X覺得好空虛
+ u- m. `6 U# f/ @其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' |" x# V: ~; A6 G; ^* u- F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% y, w9 e6 t( ]! m用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 o5 [* }! g. X) ?7 y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: u9 Q& O7 |: }" G" m2 j# V: _% M熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( D4 g& X: T1 Z; d$ }* D" P" [/ n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( r$ ~- F! K" C  g- d( s5 Y- p8 G4 S, h
日日有車站,- k3 @2 ]7 t6 w( t+ X1 B
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙+ V0 J* }4 V' }! D; P3 H) l
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% C& P  a* x; ~. I! i  I! E. x# R# _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& I6 u- O+ D! N; b. {9 Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 f8 s9 D) h% j( _" S3 R9 F
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, ]: }& ]8 b2 h9 U1 x( a! B/ a玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( b( H9 m: ^+ d6 [  }& L1 q% k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  W# ]6 c7 c3 K7 n  h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 [4 Q, U3 A6 `7 x$ R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; K# `5 l3 Y3 A7 c# H9 R- _
日日有車站,
6 Q2 H* m0 P2 z4 T  G# q# n有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& y. L0 a. ?/ v1 m% t
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. K2 w' t7 J! F5 \+ W好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 Q# q; q' y' n7 T6 M/ B
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- J) Q. K7 T, ?- p9 f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 f. o& i% {5 M4 r. q9 P覺得好空虛2 B4 v5 d6 Z) v, s, q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' K: Y* j. S! C* W2 Y3 j! Z1 j  T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 v6 Y# [1 n9 [/ M! k; l$ x0 P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# `5 E& R6 ?  H7 Q- @6 b* ~這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ l7 p) y  A$ }, C. M唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% T$ ]- `* ?( q' n& ], w, i
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ |2 a8 N) P5 n+ D: K

' h+ A( C1 l! tPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: s# t) g$ q/ s' w& y7 W- |7 ~a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long0 M% s; s- [4 _9 G8 A
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ E2 ?, ]) X' K1 F0 ~& F! Vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 N" U3 ~" Z$ S0 M

+ N2 r7 r9 D( v6 MJust another thought on lonliness:9 L# p" v: z4 M7 u4 {9 @* P4 B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
+ g0 V# o8 M, @( T# H9 |* _2 RBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% `1 I: s- {+ O我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
1 x/ o, K" b; B就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 ^! i1 @! W/ I或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* q' n+ x& _% F9 E空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉6 ?4 k1 Z  b. v. N9 {
很少會超過一天～
' \! p/ r/ t, Q要期待更好的明天呀！