熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- V: N) f0 j( o/ r: @6 n6 F' `/ O5 }7 F好唔鍾意呢種感覺: H% O# Y; v5 f. q9 w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! v/ J; Y6 N; G* w: S: y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 C; E6 y, o# C# a3 d" i
覺得好空虛
$ Q+ w) x: X# S% Z2 I其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 ?/ H2 ]0 T" J% H% p/ M+ W2 ]卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# \" i, N5 s2 S* c" H& e! p1 [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; A* B2 A% V9 q2 S9 O
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: \) f7 T& g/ P# @; v
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) k7 Y' C$ b1 u5 \  x( b% c/ O3 w
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: w- F& p( P. O3 A) f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 n$ |3 G4 K& c" |* C6 u
日日有車站," v# o/ N# n) Q0 S# e7 u
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. h2 [# r' |! X% E- M3 O你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* P# X( Z/ Y2 W! d' s/ Y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 w  _5 H: B6 F+ J我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. G, G" P; g  N
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% @* C; m) l* k# x6 {
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
- o" l5 Q8 z6 z8 \總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, o4 \1 ?' |3 o- p7 F6 P其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 ^. i5 C2 T$ F2 x7 w所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 y7 S7 t8 T2 z& [$ ]: O! ^
日日有車站,7 r0 V' G, }7 q; C, Q8 H
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' q2 |2 M$ V8 g4 T
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: v8 N, i9 k9 G: J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺! p  m! E- r& E8 Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: t0 [* W5 B& N  ~* `! K個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 \& d0 f1 N  _
覺得好空虛
' W8 a0 @+ t, o4 e! H其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 T/ P7 `! j2 ?- N/ p! X8 L
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 s8 j* [: r0 ~7 O8 s$ }
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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* i# c% ]+ x$ }- f2 y" t# ?這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% m! _# I3 O6 |1 H唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 U3 C; _$ |) [" A) q6 }5 S有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 j1 I0 r& a' {: c% L- r: T% |a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 ?9 z" V; T. s
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
* ?7 \8 G) ]. k' Dc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 y; G# ]( a5 S" F% F' B. G
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ X# C! Q* d7 {! m0 U) O- ~+ i
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....3 K( @; R9 ?! f" ~- E
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
8 _) J& a' L  i* t3 X我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( k/ w+ [1 y& o- X0 s" i7 {! ^$ ~就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
' o. Z. A. f+ ]3 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 l) j* _8 \  h5 L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
' B; ]0 r7 Z6 ~# B: F( _很少會超過一天～
: o+ x- n+ w: d- O, p8 `要期待更好的明天呀！