熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( ^* z6 w8 k2 }+ v/ G好唔鍾意呢種感覺( U! g7 Q$ D$ m, N- `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" w, L- m# P7 u3 w0 y) Y9 T' \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ C1 j) a( g& Z% F+ e; S! U
覺得好空虛1 w0 ~2 n9 F# f5 G9 w
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' [! G& m, x/ \  S6 k4 f+ T$ H0 N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 x( Z2 n9 i+ g2 F5 f  m! V# L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# n0 m% g3 @! Q4 s" I9 i* h[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) ~$ J4 m' \& y- K$ ?3 q4 \! z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 Q9 I' F: \" g6 m3 u, C熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 C3 N. h8 n, W2 @8 @4 H
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 M7 I. S8 ?1 T. s9 Y0 t7 N日日有車站,
) x! z0 F3 p6 v) }有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙* d! U' ^3 f% X. A+ S6 F
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 m1 v! }% @" s* t! E' {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 n  F. d0 U) A7 H" I; h+ W8 X* R我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ ^5 T" j5 H& x' r/ g1 ^& u感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
% }  m7 M/ h: z& S玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ D0 P* ?1 I; A; r3 k: T
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" g& U4 B( N, ~; l2 Z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 K. p3 O5 P) O+ S. q1 g$ R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ o9 ?) |) G" L% B6 S日日有車站,
& }# E* w5 T. j/ ~0 h7 F& ]  _; n有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ H8 L$ O& S, z2 T+ D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" v, B/ u6 G6 G( J: q  ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; V  z, G! X8 b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( a! W% G  C5 N! o( `& w( p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 _2 t3 r6 `+ W+ i* c
覺得好空虛( W) X" ?& u3 U9 {$ {8 U: w9 C
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 j" V1 W" m/ m  D7 ]. g! b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# ^7 x$ D% ]* u0 ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: v/ c# D( L( ^( W

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' |: @6 b& ^5 g. c& }9 r: ]7 s這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
: o! B9 O& t  V唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ l) Z4 {" l' W; e' {1 \8 L
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% L1 q% y9 R# k$ z$ W

1 B- \2 R5 i+ z2 s1 NPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, t- F  E6 V" i/ p% e/ Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 w- v, h9 u) `0 N& p6 x* g0 lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% }$ k; I, M1 F7 a6 ?* i* Q
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:2 w% \9 X2 f" t1 r- K5 [7 u; R% k
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....0 A- {9 t, w% `% V$ {0 U$ i
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( E! ]$ P3 _% h- z; H3 A
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' d# y, _8 N  b  ^
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
1 E% r8 t: l6 K) C( S/ u或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 Q8 k4 H/ h6 W1 e4 p空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, c3 W( R1 e2 _
很少會超過一天～
3 ?( b/ S% e( h* ~9 s/ q  e要期待更好的明天呀！