熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  Q) _2 o1 m% L/ }/ {! S) q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 T; U( l8 ?: s5 O5 D6 X/ X; {2 R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( {1 A% ^/ E! a. z" m; c( p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 X) f5 ?) p4 @. }
覺得好空虛. K% b# z* }2 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 L5 A) G- \0 `. t8 `; _  d* m8 V& m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  `' g1 d+ U9 g) G( l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# L0 d, V, J0 z' o" F! L4 F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 D! @) {# r! F" o
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& q( ^# u' |5 U. _# Y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  p9 @! o2 [3 u9 k# D
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- ?1 e* {: ^, t- y! w玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 Q/ n+ i: ]( W! f總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* Q& g$ ?2 y* K" w9 y
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
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日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, t( i4 J* c; Z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ C8 g( R2 L) o+ X, F8 ?6 z7 H. c
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& \7 y) T0 J$ G- P; }! n( N$ w: X1 S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 ^! Y/ c4 l2 c4 |0 F& R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 X& k0 Z3 w( J1 D+ v2 v
覺得好空虛
! T6 T" `4 \2 w) T5 H7 Z) W3 }其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 O1 l) Y& ?* m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 M5 E' Q) z. p$ d' ]" p  D+ P/ L用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ \6 l; _8 f7 @  d- P- L
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 U$ o: d9 v! r2 f
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:& L8 M. M  R* y. k& E
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. C8 F/ G! j) M7 K$ J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; x, ]! e# [9 T5 R" \
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  u8 O* j% R# _0 R: i, M: ]
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Just another thought on lonliness:. j( |# L0 k9 J2 }' @+ |6 a
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* \0 e7 W) P4 YBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- u" M( r' l; l; M! [
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
8 V. }0 ^) {6 t7 C' X8 Q2 |- `就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
" T8 y7 Z) ^1 c" }0 |或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 u) E  f- o2 B. C6 D9 R  n: c空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 G$ H; ]4 u$ J8 o; s3 w很少會超過一天～
- ~( h( v6 a8 X+ h要期待更好的明天呀！