熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 I# K1 v4 u8 \& t8 X' }/ B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ \( T5 s3 m0 L  F2 F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 t7 n0 J* e+ h! W) Q) y9 w5 S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ i2 n7 V8 D! s3 a& \覺得好空虛! Q  c3 B. J3 H3 N- u
其實早幾次都有試過係咁; v' I+ v- U) X# a/ m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. w& I# T& `; I- }
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 ^" @) V9 \/ d" \但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( m( D( G( l5 [4 L" f) i
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ y9 q7 M. E* r; [( L- u# l5 S5 ~( t" H所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 p" e% w6 q5 S) H$ {
日日有車站,
5 A" ]2 B' b4 D3 B/ B# r$ [有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
1 G6 K$ u# @4 B- p; D; L你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) X# g: h8 K( ^! O' k! d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

+ u1 `5 `4 F! J3 ?我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) Q" t+ b/ i3 k% k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 Y0 G3 [: G  y8 E玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( M+ d2 c/ u5 @- `7 x8 R3 S' u. _總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  n% r$ E" u6 t+ A# ~% u其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! C4 W2 ^) \. i; _' S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% e8 ~6 U3 {  w7 X日日有車站,
$ H" R5 e: l- @  V  [' p, w有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- t+ |8 I! p/ T! a如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 M$ V! b- T$ h好唔鍾意呢種感覺. {  K) j( u0 y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. n1 n; t* O% L5 Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 j( W$ w" ?, h3 c- Y4 [
覺得好空虛
( d8 I% G- N4 J( @; S* {, Q% ?9 K; M其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  v+ Q- p& c+ o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  q6 p3 l) l7 L! P5 z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 p- Q* Q3 z7 d- Z3 `

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# _! g, h" C; e% ^$ I
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  d+ U; O# X; j7 a. o3 U7 q' K
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ j( B: f" Y$ }
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ _% \' e; ?3 M# J* I- Q6 v- l
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long6 `, W5 l; ]" C- P) J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 ?6 G2 a/ q4 I% E( g2 _c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 y% K" x: m) a4 D, ]5 l
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Just another thought on lonliness:
1 L! m, G9 O0 n* Q* q+ gLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., Q" k3 Z1 ?; ^' V& G, Y& I7 D
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 t2 n6 ~( ]# j8 z/ e1 k8 R2 t
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# U6 }% Q, v! g0 z
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& u6 `: x# }5 Y) N: b- p+ j
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  R4 \! E( L' Y& s空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉* e1 `( ]' B/ \: c' X" e" c
很少會超過一天～
& F7 X7 g1 ?- {: n& |3 b# h要期待更好的明天呀！