會唔會呢 ??

李健

如果大家同另一半出現左問題,而問題係喺對方度,
但問題拖左好耐都未解決,拖到大家感情淡左,
半年內冇咩溝通同聯絡,但係大家都未正式講明話要分開,
咁我想問,如果大家係其中一方,[唔係有問題嗰方]
咁大家會唔會偷偷地同第二個一齊呢 ?
定係同另一半講清楚先呢

westsider

if they could communicate with phone or email or im, then not talking for 6 months is basically calling it off.   

There's nothing else to say. so going out with another person is not "偷偷地".

Taking this case to the extreme, you can pick up a girl at a club and one-night-stand (the kind with more intimacy), but you can't go up to that person 6 months later and say that you're her bf.

cthim83

如果你地兩個都已經拖到大家感情淡左，可以嘅話最好都係講清楚先，一來可以為你地兩個嘅關係正式畫上句號；二來可以令對方知道你地已經無可能，講清楚分手日後反而唔駛咁麻煩，如果唔係將來你有 gf/bf 會俾對方覺得佢係第三者，到時只會係"口同鼻呦" . . .

藍

你吾介意既話,其實我想聽下你地件事既詳細情況拉
而且,我認為,每一樣野,一定吾會係單方面完全錯哂既,即管如你所言,問題係向對方度,但係肯定你都一定有做得吾好既地方

miffionaa

曾經有個女仔同我分開左一個時間....但後來佢翻來話諗清楚一齊...但原來佢係個個時間,識過第2個....根住比人fly 左..and then call me back..

李健

Originally posted by 藍 at 2005-9-3 16:21:
你吾介意既話,其實我想聽下你地件事既...

其實都係我自己衰...衰冇上進心衰懶,冇份工做得長,
佢成日叫我快啲正正經經搵返份工,所以佢成日唔聽我電話,
避開我...咁我一搵到佢咪成日嘈交囉 !! 嘈得多咪少聯絡囉,
咁感情就淡晒 ! 但係我真係好愛佢......

李健

如果係咁...大家認為仲有冇得救呢 ??
幫幫忙...諗吓計...thx !!

藍

甘搞鬼既?佢想你正正經經搵返份工,搵到反而成日嘈交?係米打漏左字?
如果好似你甘講,除非佢係變左心搵excuse推搪你姐,否則其實佢應該好愛你丫,恨鐵不成鋼,好多女仔都會甘,特別佢有諗過同你結婚既,女仔人家,好多時都係想有個好歸宿姐,如果你係愛佢既,努力d拉,改下你d懶懶閒既壞習慣,比佢知道,你有能力照顧佢嘛

李健

sorry...真係打漏左字 !! 應該係我仲未搵到工,
所以佢成日唔聽我電話,佢同我講佢冇第二個,
呢點我肯定佢唔會呃我,我真係好愛佢,我會努力 ga 喇 !!
thx 晒你...thx !!

gundamman678

點解要偷偷地同第二個一齊?? 點解要咁貪心? 點解要咁無良心??

有問題就傾，傾唔掂又好嚴重既就分囉，點解要拖住呢個又去同第二個一齊，咁樣好咩?