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勸佢收手
( ~9 w, ?6 |) C; L8 w5 c" J假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任4 k1 j9 ]" t9 l4 I1 I" a
回頭是岸

jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way5 Q4 C5 Y- B. j2 @9 O' m
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
$ v$ ~2 |6 d' C2nd, how serious he/she has done?
6 ~9 z0 G9 L" P' B% _/ U3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?6 G: X' i. o7 q* @) V4 l  e
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?$ v# z8 O2 Y( M# I6 C: Z6 I

9 c9 j, S4 j6 A' }' t" ^0 d( Bfor me:
, o. D$ w( O+ O" y( U+ j0 si may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.: ?5 \( j4 c  l: ~! s" `
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
/ I0 |8 _$ D( Dbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!# g0 w# b( G) `& u5 ^' n

4 t2 K8 A* Y) ]& O  Ubut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
) W! o; v& d( X; R, a. J6 I第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
/ l5 J( ^' ^  u人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個' _1 W; ?7 @' Y) i9 ^3 ^1 @/ G
只要有數我都會滅