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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
& a- X! Q3 T7 l. P/ E* Cconsider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?1 j! T0 a) Q. W
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
5 [: Q0 R, U  W* G3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
3 I. b+ S+ Y  E* o  ^5 I3 e+ y4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?7 ]" N) o+ {( }7 g- Y

- g& C$ ?/ z! Lfor me:
- V% [* }. b. O) b# qi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
) G/ w0 Q. g0 h: Y1 ubut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)" {/ P9 Q& K: {- b6 W" m5 \" G1 G
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!- a9 v8 m8 \  l. a1 t
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。. m- g8 F% K* }2 y' t$ a
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。: i6 g8 y, Z  p. f7 o: J
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個% Q: m' K* @# K: e  k
只要有數我都會滅