有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...) _' y' w" g) t- h9 v- q

- C6 x0 m+ o/ O2 N7 C感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦.... d+ |" ?0 F* Q3 X
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
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咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
* q3 f/ }5 E1 ]& D) s8 Y哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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8 J3 E7 p1 d# \" vgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me+ ], ~0 q/ n* a! c9 C5 w! d
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唔係好想講experience...
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% Q1 b' Y6 A8 k- ]6 y" S! ?( m不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....3 t1 h# c2 Y0 u9 l; H
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我唔係想做獨行俠, 0 r9 {7 K, G4 m) V: v) y! I
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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: i9 W- t1 Q8 @3 y我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”