有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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& ~6 P* f' T$ d* d/ x2 H/ R感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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: S( u" v& i, D$ S2 c0 oany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
. u. {" a# X9 {! x+ d我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..- H" n+ }7 J5 v- ]0 f
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
8 }5 V4 i+ \1 g& ~哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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唔係好想講experience...; ?, C5 P, h" Z, |8 ~% w

' P% K+ ~& z& b$ i7 S) u5 G不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....9 k) I  ?9 s9 S3 R
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我唔係想做獨行俠, & C3 O$ j* |" Q* K
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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+ Q1 ?/ Y" J" G6 Q) ^  s: ^解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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! j: X7 C6 D7 S6 Q1 H" o9 t7 r+ @我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！. F2 X( b4 }! @3 Q$ Z& p
只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”