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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way' Y- O( I( a. {( h) J; ]& P
consider in the following (not in order):$ |( Q$ b) I# z; o( q

8 O& c$ C9 d4 B& G  u1st, how close the relationship we are?
* |6 g7 [' _6 F6 S+ F& m6 \2nd, how serious he/she has done?
0 a! s# T7 \- P1 _. [5 f3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?8 T. ?( ?) d0 T. w& I
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?1 W" N+ \  Y9 \) F1 I

1 I' f2 R  E( Wfor me:7 |' V& W: D4 V  O
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.6 k) T$ A, r* S4 Y
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
  Y- V+ b) E8 D7 s6 m4 Nbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!, \! o; z5 p" c5 f6 u

3 M; s! ]5 O# S' L9 x8 b; Bbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
+ B! b. W4 H: I, d1 ?/ m2 m第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
, K% f* N! r0 ]  l人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
9 X) }! h# ~% s2 p1 @& W; h" G  \( l8 ]只要有數我都會滅