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勸佢收手
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
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3 S3 ?  e" e1 ]! o1st, how close the relationship we are?
# S( D7 A! L' n6 i; ?2nd, how serious he/she has done?
1 s: I1 P  ]( y& U# _' ^1 g# A: T3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?1 G, _+ T2 @! j: ]. J! [$ \
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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1 ^2 c/ \- \% i6 ~* Qfor me:# x' W8 Q4 M& `: o! K% @/ K8 T
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
, S- v6 X- R2 s) t3 l; I) l+ gbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)% r6 a0 h1 I6 R1 \8 V' L+ H3 t
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!9 v: s! o, S; U5 R" j3 O7 {: W
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。' `9 A) X7 k" h3 z( d
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
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ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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