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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
+ E0 U) E* `( kconsider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?9 R0 s' ^* K9 i# u* Z
2nd, how serious he/she has done?% j" O# e+ X0 y; M
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?% j% ]6 a) }8 v, Q9 D& ?
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?$ i1 S- o  h+ b/ r
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for me:# a6 I# e8 Q$ }" W; _, C
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
% t5 `% d; k" D8 K9 |7 _8 Wbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)1 L) G/ R- f: C" W% K* }+ p$ V6 [- r0 r
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!- c& Y' k& S% X  I1 _3 Z
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。  x% L' j3 _" o6 P
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
9 ~5 h; w9 \: P/ G" w! A+ M  Y人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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