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勸佢收手
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way: L4 K# ^0 d! i: `# n4 s. f
consider in the following (not in order):4 X/ o/ g3 Q6 V
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1st, how close the relationship we are?1 a; |5 v7 R5 T5 T4 f4 F7 N
2nd, how serious he/she has done?  U- d* p" y1 ]
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?* f4 G. m. D( P# [$ _
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?7 j: Q2 F0 E' z; r

1 {9 u% U2 r3 |3 w) ^" G! E% jfor me:1 V, W$ u" R3 s4 O
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim." ?6 z9 z! o4 y" b, B, J
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)/ o: a* ?$ P( r( X6 v) i% s; @
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!  h& e% M( X! J5 W; n

, D( {" o# _# Jbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。2 T4 q6 u, f& D9 [9 P7 a5 |7 T1 C
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。: P1 K) Q8 N  W
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個; [* N( A4 f" ~% F
只要有數我都會滅