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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way9 J/ @9 U% T0 l' Q# @
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
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3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?" `3 I$ h+ |3 d. {8 f1 D
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?) d/ d8 L" I0 s' [+ M+ T2 p, q
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim. d1 Q5 P& R$ `, L
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)) D+ U% D9 Y) w
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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