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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way4 N" H* t) o- U, P- W. P
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
! s: w5 T1 b2 z5 @# E1 ?2nd, how serious he/she has done?+ n. V( d1 y) } \9 C7 T2 W
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
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for me:
: [& j' a! P5 k* ti may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
. B" V; q. [2 o( `- O: T& f: [but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
" w. x8 C& `" l: \2 ?: f4 G2 Xbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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