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6 @' Y7 q* x$ k" p# M! {0 T假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任% F8 r# a% |2 e8 v1 A
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
2 D' K3 ]- _- Q+ |- V9 Mconsider in the following (not in order):. @* F1 ~& d: ^2 I" A

6 A4 C: s5 }1 K  x# }: r1st, how close the relationship we are?
* K" ~0 v# Z  _) x7 F0 H2nd, how serious he/she has done?8 z. G6 e! w0 n' v$ I
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?+ z8 _: ]4 F7 c
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?3 P2 g' g9 V% |8 _( Z
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for me:
5 L, E. {4 W' k. H) Ii may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
2 U: Z$ z* `* Mbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)5 G7 X& b1 l6 d
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!- K6 U0 x: j& R" b* s
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
- K8 d8 t; w4 _* Y第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
  k' q, H, c, B. }! C6 T人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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