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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
4 N! x$ ^8 ~; K. e! Hconsider in the following (not in order):9 q$ W% l$ l# `/ l3 \7 _
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1st, how close the relationship we are?8 D% C1 |) e0 r6 o4 z4 y
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
9 A% V. l) F7 [5 [3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
" `' A& R4 a& ~4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?2 A  @3 i" {" E( o) q
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for me:
  t( L. g, K) I" H6 Ki may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
9 d* c- Y0 Y5 u5 X/ kbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
: C5 Q" W' Z. Bbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。# W) S2 b& l* u) w' a) {
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
/ T" o5 \$ Z/ U. c3 l( ^4 g" ^& b人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個+ M' G* I( X' O7 T/ W  g7 Z0 v0 h
只要有數我都會滅