熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 w) J' p- ^1 b3 i2 p& I; h- J3 q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 V, L$ |* W' j, i8 R3 c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" x( G1 J, G# t1 |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! K5 m# F, E( T8 u1 V: S; ^
覺得好空虛7 f8 l( `$ z* b3 a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ A  W! F# `- ?, m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 ^0 C! m: o9 B7 k% I) d$ U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- h, b+ r; R) L
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 Z$ ~2 d" C+ P8 G2 `但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 |  b% C) G1 n$ ?: v熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 h0 c. F4 e0 u6 B1 f7 w5 ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 A% ^/ u6 Z$ B3 O3 z
日日有車站,9 p4 L1 g" ^  C1 Z
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! w' V3 z1 T! M0 C! a
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( [( E  ~; L5 y& h& K, x+ s6 w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

) @& M8 l( F- S. k6 B我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 K* ]6 h7 R# p, D6 [6 U5 p
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; ?* n7 ]2 t& _9 e7 L+ i& t5 M: v1 k玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 @" ^+ i( }% W9 N總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* U! K  X" S' [3 x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 A7 x' w8 u! ]$ K. O6 m$ g; m  I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, Q" B4 e# n, w3 z; I5 K- i9 p
日日有車站,  S& ^% H) N* Z- N0 N4 L
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% \) Z) s7 X7 i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ @! `4 h# j5 Y1 D- }. C" t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 Y: D* }7 U  B4 D# e. f8 [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ P- {0 S. }8 w, X# `- q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 R, U( j: {# m8 n* U. x
覺得好空虛
: P( ?: ~' X  g4 h( h- j其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 J9 e1 p: R1 g, G. w  `. R9 C4 A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, D+ J3 \8 Q) u7 A* [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. ~) Z9 ^9 Y) _' n- [

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) ?/ K! V( |% t7 m% z1 X& L這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% ]8 \* w: r8 `6 X% e- X6 m  Q
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# d. t; C. o/ _2 a$ H, c# y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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- a4 m7 G  X; ~) G6 S; p( D& jPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" \  W7 p: z4 T) E5 Q% h8 a! Da) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. G# v  w7 b" A6 A
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone., X. B: b9 X7 G7 d, g
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:- H6 R8 k1 ^5 J/ L) C; _7 F
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....0 I; r3 D5 q# ]' H$ t
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ l9 c; ^! F; z+ K0 @我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ S$ F, _# w" |  l5 x就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 ~. {6 ~# {% U1 D$ |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～% W. `; W% M, C3 l
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 [; w. G" Y4 O; W: p9 v$ t很少會超過一天～; h* G* R6 d% ]$ q# @" V
要期待更好的明天呀！