熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 j; w/ x, t) f5 s9 z& A( O* h, l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" X) |' ^7 D: R6 F  e: u( i6 ~5 I) a* n琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, F% ^6 u) T5 ^+ A) ^( c個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 U+ ]+ Q* ~$ f
覺得好空虛
* t* |0 F( C9 K% }+ [$ ?  O其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% G4 i7 U" P* V5 T( m3 \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ h) c" ^7 p2 G1 @8 f4 [8 U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 d) y& V# P8 K) n- f! k. ~4 O

! n1 Z7 g! n8 n& B) A9 j[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,, z3 O, O6 c, R# t7 L" D/ @$ c2 Q
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( V+ o9 V  e) O1 c/ D: D4 s1 n: W熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 {* F) C$ F. [3 r% h0 H所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ _5 m0 T" z; y  A1 v1 ~8 h3 E+ p日日有車站,5 e' }. g# W5 A; V# _
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 Q3 N4 |6 n" M6 F( m* O
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 I1 t& l; x$ G/ D4 w
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! N: N9 Z9 E" i6 L& Q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" G! m9 F; j" D0 R1 j感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 M' _. D1 W# {  j7 `" P玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) x3 Z& a1 b. a& c
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 V0 B/ J9 }0 @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 O8 V+ v0 l# M8 q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ G% u8 W2 O' h. d
日日有車站,. k2 X7 {. X: |  m$ r7 i' R
有目標!

+ i+ A3 _* V6 B: Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 D& f. Z2 B' h$ |& c/ L- `& U
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 ^6 x( o1 T/ C好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ w8 h; c" a6 v" T* v, F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 A) _' O3 e  m+ r9 G' r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 w9 C( n' c4 _6 j- Y, Y覺得好空虛) ]# K! v. F  B" A9 H# G9 y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' A! x0 R! z) Y! b. ^- u1 K卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 D. n( S# e/ g# O. B  Y; B4 ]
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
, r* q3 N+ V" k* F% Y' }& @

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, a% @2 q- n) e. d" s唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ A' ]' R# j2 d2 i& L2 c8 J" k* w有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ t" j% y! ]5 e% a) N$ a1 ?4 M

  {  P! N) b+ MPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:( \, `" P  V3 x  e/ u: r7 m) w
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 E* ?( U, m( lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
& T/ U" I. Y3 Fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:2 L# q! ?6 Q0 I- d
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
; L; F8 H5 M0 W# t% cBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
* o, x2 C! a# K8 v9 G0 `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- X) Z1 D# f. q就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 D6 r" N! u, [
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
& q8 a4 y2 G* i4 F& |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 f* F1 y/ S7 G5 r6 y' W% T
很少會超過一天～
( ]5 S$ S" B( o  v( M5 \要期待更好的明天呀！