熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: c1 l. b* t1 g好唔鍾意呢種感覺- Y+ v8 g& }- h6 {' {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ d" |1 i+ X. X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! K3 R; G( [1 H; {/ }4 }3 _覺得好空虛
/ i" x- w5 Y1 F* |其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' r! K% ?$ @9 k1 o- J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! E6 H6 F; n8 s4 h1 D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# r( C& p8 Y0 p" l- ]+ E

5 u+ y% ~- F7 f9 p( Y' p0 b[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 x6 e2 h5 w. w  g但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  l3 }, D- H. ~% Q& A9 I8 j5 b熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 _. V. _7 x7 L) v
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 E. F' {6 R$ X4 \0 ?日日有車站,
/ z, G5 }% ?- x+ x' ]( h有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. r$ u) M! L4 B5 D( i
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- v. Z& u7 K* e1 C1 k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ V, B+ e3 w7 U! m- I! _6 q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 Z1 Q; i5 R  L/ W; R
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ Z  q8 a3 T5 b總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 j; g& Z$ G5 ~# \$ A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- D% B/ F0 U; F9 G2 s- H1 \( u5 F6 \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% v) n- a8 p. r4 j: x$ l
日日有車站,4 @, D, e: e1 n1 m& ?& G
有目標!

7 g2 |7 T$ ]/ H" N! cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- \- F3 ^- D& ^* p3 m4 V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 e8 b0 R, f8 m- T0 O9 ?) H: S# |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; y! G" Y/ w  F) V. ^* @琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" Q9 [0 n( a; ]1 P4 s* P0 _1 G( c4 c5 R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ `5 N& Q" R5 O. l. x覺得好空虛! b% R2 [% P) P6 K! w8 Z$ _* F0 h
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 B" d1 E# q6 l9 D- U( I5 f: ^卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ {: s3 p6 C% t( u5 R9 j, U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
' G! e3 r8 L# z/ ^' {# g

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' \' U7 d$ V( _0 a- E1 m8 G7 a8 e- S
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ f0 w6 b0 u' S6 p0 u" D有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ r2 y  A5 r; L+ P3 j9 b7 p
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- @" A' l! V  W  G. s+ la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: u: p. M! l$ \8 G6 I
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
( c' D" S( X" C3 sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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) s$ Y. k) T* m: R' k' z; q$ uJust another thought on lonliness:
9 ~2 x% Y6 y/ d( vLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....3 q: J( V9 _  E/ Q5 l* r# V
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
' A, K" a/ k8 i! n/ g, |- G( K8 C我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
' w* a0 K* o: }% j. k0 [就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 t& z) k2 ~* T8 z2 s/ ^或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
; W. l- R/ d) @空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
, H7 y! m! v" X' h3 {. [; z( ~很少會超過一天～1 m* f( W+ g1 w2 i: M- z8 h
要期待更好的明天呀！