熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 q* v5 l0 C- S8 G好唔鍾意呢種感覺( h' L, Y) V. u. E% x' c
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 [. N# N; C- p4 D* ?! b' ?/ R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- ^/ f6 T  ?: M( n6 U7 Q1 C5 s覺得好空虛
9 S% X/ @4 G9 d$ E  @7 p9 q2 y# ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 J! J0 a. ]/ \; k" _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! J1 y8 u* ?5 Y1 K5 p+ c1 E用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 \+ O8 _! J* q" L/ n* T) f1 ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, R8 H& ?. y" V( {/ C/ V  z; D" o
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: a2 X4 r/ Y( R$ s  P6 g, Q0 [) _/ o
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% |7 H' b: y0 ]/ |0 s2 y9 R日日有車站,- K+ u/ j* j) ~! O5 B+ ]! J
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 w( V; C0 j% E
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  I1 W8 e1 Z( `- |, p8 n如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 w2 ~; ]+ J+ I' Y% g! E+ D我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., N$ w* o- U0 N
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... g2 [: x  u# k
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 R9 O7 H9 z- J$ e; Z, y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 p7 J4 \* x% w% \  d; t$ H
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ z- m; B' m' A% c# n( O所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 J7 A) K4 G- E0 S/ s$ Y
日日有車站,
" Z1 O# n! [: y4 |; h8 g有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 V" q, S! z3 w5 J* ?, ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% Z# B; k" q  [0 _6 j4 k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺# g& U" d* U9 y9 u6 Q7 j( j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ X/ \6 [" R1 N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" R6 h; M* E; r8 @. \覺得好空虛
/ U3 S6 I3 b$ F3 E# u3 w其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ L" H4 ?4 r* i/ N* L
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ z* q, k% g" i2 C$ R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 f0 ~, u& q+ I: ~4 Z1 {這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
" ^) X' J1 \8 L# ?$ W8 _唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 E% O0 w' s: m# r% b
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) A+ B" q2 k3 d4 C6 h/ T0 u
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ O9 K1 _8 n& @" V9 c' c
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- W' i8 I# }8 ?b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ `! Y' |% \. {" `# r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 j9 Y  l+ l; J1 W  F, d; Y

! P$ Y, f! b" s' p, pJust another thought on lonliness:
: Z3 e0 z+ [+ R* Y6 XLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
& |6 `" h- E1 ^/ WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 N4 e: \) M6 P/ O/ v
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; D- d" s  G% }就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
6 }0 H3 E0 R! M2 u或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  p. X) v* N0 F  V6 A0 V; P空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# e1 [- n1 e) v! o. k
很少會超過一天～0 ]5 J- j9 z8 b4 F; u+ \0 I
要期待更好的明天呀！