熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) O+ r0 }4 n% h/ K$ L) p3 s
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  t  V8 p% |& O% A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ Q; d- d: M9 }5 f& g% J) L- [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 ~: P) {, S9 }: y( c( s; t( Q覺得好空虛
. ^) u- `# V; F$ [  a; j0 N. W其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 e7 l9 |6 Z3 M, }1 [% [
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. q* {2 I: |7 p, m' F* f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! ?) `, A/ m9 J2 e/ @' _2 s2 X但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  \' B8 ?: [/ v+ I" b$ v% t熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ M' V1 C+ \/ n5 i, ?/ ^# h1 j
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# e' m, p9 I& |) g& \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 I& v8 y+ ]8 l8 }. K3 `如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ H, F3 U% B' ~8 i1 c我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- J$ i& m) z. c1 x& |
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
& P9 L( |1 W2 b2 L$ y, v玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
) o% x. d5 p8 X- m. q2 m1 \總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ p. M6 }- ^/ ?; B
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. F8 O* z& u( Q1 K8 R/ D! g% Q/ H
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 u0 e* G* a; b$ T3 k( c0 u8 _+ j
日日有車站,
5 b" K  `- N8 k- `有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 o9 j" Z& j( l2 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* H8 G5 s% f- c% U0 R+ r, l好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( W$ S5 y% d8 w5 H- H3 U琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ ^2 R6 d* `6 l( a) p+ P- S- o( F& M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 C" P$ A0 Z1 z% O覺得好空虛% m0 }" ~/ A+ X# w
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 \' o1 i9 Z' X1 f; P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: L- D( r0 w  C9 R, }& F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.  \9 W- ^* y7 N$ B+ T) c, [! [1 y
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
& t/ Q! |+ f2 h2 e' P* r: Q/ j有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 O) D4 W0 f8 \4 A9 X5 @0 F0 i" g
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long( s0 }8 k- {* j: t, D
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
$ E3 |) N3 @  C1 y( cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.! M9 \2 Q* C3 e& s6 X4 Y

, n% R9 q* h7 _; r3 P. @Just another thought on lonliness:
) _# R2 j$ d/ f1 t2 B! H- \: \Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. Y1 x9 J& W- X% O8 i0 c) uBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
, W" G& D8 `$ B4 W* |- l我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
7 G2 M  e+ X, w. c3 x! I. b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& l* x) g- G4 u5 y: m
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～4 O  m8 T& O* D: F* d9 [) D
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 d2 U1 e$ P  w# \2 h0 |很少會超過一天～0 Q4 p* g+ w+ A# ^( d/ R# D
要期待更好的明天呀！