熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 `9 G0 m$ E6 n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺# R% l, Z4 b3 d5 Z& k; ~$ L' r. r
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 T( Z2 j8 E1 B. K' c; d$ n$ ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 F* |3 }4 n6 [/ a- l覺得好空虛
3 R- h6 n$ |' D9 F, ?其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 p- l+ y8 j  f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 I. G& F* @- f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
" p5 j8 |& W6 M  W但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: h: u& H+ T: Q3 N; [) ?" @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% H3 Z6 Z, T1 k; `; X) m* N0 e) u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% N7 b4 N; X, S: l. U
日日有車站,3 e  A2 y) p: K
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) M* V) D: {7 u( m; W* V) L2 R3 s你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% A! a- l" e* d- @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 P" i- d* Z) [9 Y3 f1 V. Z感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( x5 h' j$ f) l' P5 ?8 @5 b& W, Y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* q/ K( t: R/ g5 m
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- b. n9 I& P0 }) ?
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 R% R, \, q& y' Q3 w所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' G$ N" v, [$ C% @/ q  J
日日有車站,
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0 }" Y5 N0 ~0 C$ o& p+ }& Vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 _+ ^7 y. Z6 s4 [3 y0 e2 V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! M% v* @: |# S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- n9 J* s( l! y4 x+ c6 ?0 _琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, _: {- a1 G. n5 n" j# T. ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 l3 z6 U2 m6 U9 w2 O) a
覺得好空虛. e* P& Q: m6 L8 i- y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" f1 j+ b. c( U$ G, x. \6 p% {. [卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  [: d/ M% R! X% g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( N, F  _+ T+ K/ H
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 L: F$ ~1 K4 [8 d0 t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' J, g  I, U7 S/ ^9 O6 K

2 O" x$ q% U/ DPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% `% ]' w4 t* h' B4 S# o5 ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# ^1 s- i( ?0 ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- a* X; f) ]# l0 x. t9 oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 {8 K/ J( O  h* [
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Just another thought on lonliness:; f$ j" z# y5 f
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 _6 c+ o* E+ b- j
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- X0 k+ c5 t/ C$ N
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺/ C) y# }) G3 `7 K$ g
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 g4 Q% j% c$ N) e4 {& A: [" k或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* x- ^( \8 v3 W' f7 C) y; `空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉$ J/ S, `' @9 O$ Q) w! o) d
很少會超過一天～* {3 e% {0 w+ T- E& y
要期待更好的明天呀！