熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 _9 B% L3 T2 C; J' O7 q1 N. ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& |2 r5 f! _, K( L# K琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% j  v& k( Z+ Y: M% D( E個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& w' ^9 w1 ]' D
覺得好空虛- @* P3 S) B4 n" ^5 \! o" H" `, d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( H- Y! e# N: m$ h卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ y: q$ }/ t) E5 J( i- b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 A! f8 X) P# y$ W) e7 L! {' r
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 c8 E& p9 W0 F& z0 u熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, ^8 x0 |( r# ]7 V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! g% ]  f, M! w  z) l日日有車站,+ z4 C' @. }0 f' m* c4 d; V
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ I# ~" Z% _+ o3 p
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; P- {& q6 x4 v% `$ {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( {  @; [) q; d# O; r3 z8 J; g4 v我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
$ A2 e) V  e% h! |; ^感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
! Z7 \- d& Q# i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
5 t/ s" a1 N" v& q總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. V. |$ ]% Q# W
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 P& k. p, e+ e& G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( J) \: R1 R3 h% |
日日有車站,- X& B; f& t) v, Y
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 O+ c# ~5 T) s$ \" Y$ ~4 t" T如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( \1 l" c( o# ~: G好唔鍾意呢種感覺' y% F; t, q$ s7 t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ f5 t' m/ u4 D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 f4 E7 m# E+ r" n% \覺得好空虛
& o- p4 C$ e1 Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁  x$ @- z8 Y4 t$ R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" `. A6 @" a4 T3 k" b4 f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: _* L1 Q6 u& Q- k1 p0 r- Y
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 |1 M( o8 A" n2 k+ Z8 F, b有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 I/ G3 w; a5 h$ H; K
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
* O  u: @7 Z* W7 f& |" o9 Vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& X3 w/ E2 R( [
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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) l& g( T$ h' a8 ^- u2 LJust another thought on lonliness:- W( r$ P" r/ }7 Q9 r
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' q( u- C# U. M# M6 V0 jBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ i  M+ B/ d- j( K& o  j我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 ^+ K1 A, l1 k* }
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 p2 Q8 ?4 I3 d7 C$ t5 E* |, m或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ u0 @! \  _/ d& `- W( f8 h0 R空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
. _: g) N$ ]3 J+ \9 u; A! m" C很少會超過一天～$ r8 T/ _; ], B; ~3 ^+ w
要期待更好的明天呀！