熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 s7 T( B! K4 Y) K$ z# k1 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" S  m; z0 D& V' e9 ^6 B* J5 u琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: B, ?1 G  p) l) i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ x3 A+ e- q9 @覺得好空虛
' ]" U! H3 u- {3 g7 \  Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) N# z5 m2 e4 i8 n( L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: L2 Y; n& @0 B, d; f3 c4 @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, b# B7 v5 [- X
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' _0 x8 v" j% N6 H. Z5 d. u
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 R* A4 _/ Z1 T% v熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ G6 [$ z4 i  m9 f0 M8 U& L  [7 k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ a" Y' Z9 a6 G8 a日日有車站,
- E' J( X/ ~6 G* M  n7 z有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ X, t: e6 i2 i3 ]" [# g你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 b/ ]( v; v* E% ~5 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; ?( r6 A$ S% x* Z8 h4 w我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.' ^1 B& V  d, U
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
# E2 T, ?! p/ s3 L4 U玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; w* F- R3 k4 c' I' T
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# \* M8 N+ I! J8 R
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' d: s- g) }  X: P' x* S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! z8 s: a. Y6 D$ K3 S$ Y日日有車站,
- _8 K* E9 q. M& }1 x0 V! j  @有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* q, g9 C; b2 a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! {% a' [0 b2 i; P- h$ R
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ @6 _3 U: @  u: I, X琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 K7 L* a4 {* q2 q, o- T
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# b5 Q( ~" G3 @8 L1 q( f5 P/ }覺得好空虛
8 f  b6 B5 p: R$ r7 \其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 o2 i2 G. F% z/ x% l$ `4 C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" D+ e2 `/ g5 z' F  b5 q/ ]$ \3 U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 ^& h" I$ \" ~- E7 ~1 M& n/ u; c這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ X, @* ~3 U$ I/ }. v$ \唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& e8 Z* p0 v, L$ a* [0 j
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." \* H/ D% w  R" S. p4 O0 S

3 P7 d; {4 X8 r  J8 Z* H& kPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 x  }+ B0 E- C# h5 Ka) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' ?8 a. ^: l$ T2 f- v" Q! {
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 I2 l/ C! f0 \$ j% u. \9 Uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
0 c. P  R; ~3 \5 o, hLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ C; W! W7 I7 d! G1 @- l& CBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! ~% W0 W! Y2 X- [; e- z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. \0 O% n; X& ~( ]( d7 g1 u就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
) G$ k8 X- `1 u3 G0 `5 r/ X或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 ]$ c% H# X  t( S空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  }6 I. [3 r& Z3 S- b7 n5 |2 e
很少會超過一天～, o/ R$ J8 {; r" Q) r
要期待更好的明天呀！