熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ M8 g8 S& R  d/ X% q: c好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 f) X! E0 Q3 X0 M' C  D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* d! R' ~1 h% x# V9 ?
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ B8 p0 Z4 a  _6 w6 M1 I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# k8 S6 D* c5 O: c用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) B. M# J5 [( e/ y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
; K& Z- O0 s4 e( q熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, Z# Y2 t5 ~$ }% ]. y' s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  f! d/ X% m# n
日日有車站,' g) r3 l+ X$ Z. f, ^, ?2 K
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ j( q" s; V. d; `- m1 C: k8 g( w. ~1 O
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% u. Z  J; p& g9 g' T如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ z/ K  `+ M. _6 e4 _1 r我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" x0 V7 w6 q5 W; E' |感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- E8 i6 D1 `1 O5 ]  |
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- P1 B' P' f, N1 _3 B' B' ?6 f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' Z! D% B: f# s( e
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: _. p5 d4 @& |! R% f- J! d1 \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 E, E9 M2 f  N) w日日有車站,
! s! e) C7 W4 y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 l' Z9 K9 E  v# |' L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 Z+ R2 L# Q; |2 q! d好唔鍾意呢種感覺) m. N* T# y9 w) e( ~4 j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 E3 L" P8 d' e& k2 D. S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ X* B2 M# j) G6 k2 h8 t
覺得好空虛
; p' m6 _7 q* V' H9 {9 J其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 _* ]9 \& W8 _2 l, F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' ^$ w6 e+ ~' q& L" U1 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 V2 [1 \. m' Q: i  e! K這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* H' w# c9 @5 d0 y5 J' y6 ~唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足." S3 u$ J0 C/ J$ }, ?( H+ m. t# O
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ |0 h. B* D" U  L/ W
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! H) h7 g1 i: {8 A
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.' v( K. F1 O6 b/ W% u+ e# A/ {+ c

3 j2 J7 o- O# j) ?3 I. Y" e+ `Just another thought on lonliness:
5 S0 S; b+ U- S' _4 ?" JLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, [# U5 Z0 Y( e" v" M! v5 v+ BBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 D9 _, Q% o+ c5 `7 _  v2 Z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
6 H& C" L$ j1 T" |就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 H) k7 d' \% s3 {) u. U0 Q; b) x
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* ^6 R, o* q" W0 K2 M, j空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
, v$ z) k4 N4 E. {很少會超過一天～
& P) ^( ^4 x- Y( H) R& J要期待更好的明天呀！