熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 x9 y( @9 K' ^% L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 R* g, K0 y) {2 R$ |3 K琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  Y7 f. J9 K. k2 w: a
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 l/ q  Z5 t6 B7 ^( U/ Z) R覺得好空虛' a% r3 ]) C* p9 l: r) c- R) _! Q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' ~5 M2 W' q, V$ b) Q' u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: Q% z  H& ~& \3 X, C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% j3 U1 _: V; p5 J
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) s& Q9 P1 c8 b9 V熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ Y+ H2 x3 ^  V  Y, y. S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% ~0 ~( S0 p) r( P; q& X: T* u3 B% ~
日日有車站,  G6 t% t# R3 q6 R% z
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- \+ f" V5 i- ^. }/ E$ A2 A
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; m. n% Q( O% @" N7 U# @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 h8 U1 U9 O  R1 L: R/ ^5 y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* u" \1 m% a5 W( c/ J玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 `( ?4 k6 z) I! h" Q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 j9 [! @& x& O& m
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 @- `/ Z) I: {0 ?4 I, J6 v. m所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 a) ^  b" q/ c# \9 |
日日有車站,& W/ G" P. n5 E6 x: s
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; r  Y( U9 k% d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ p# h3 N! f9 p0 L7 H' h4 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺! u7 a/ S  }' }; b; [0 b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" [9 v  p1 }+ g5 }6 x* M. G- P- G% d個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# E' e: d- ?  b' A, }覺得好空虛
' C' {$ E! L  Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- o! h1 |1 N# W, A# L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 F' L6 d5 G$ k3 c( B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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( N) I8 K* i! z* r+ [這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 ~+ @& s2 u  N* X
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' b2 ]: m4 G7 V4 z/ }$ d) h$ ]有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" I1 a% H/ \% v& |% ~a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) h, H: x# p* U! K+ ?, Ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- P" b) b5 a3 P  W+ J& ?. A' h
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
0 `4 z5 j6 F' j' l6 fLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....$ Z2 a! v9 Y7 h
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- {/ e0 a3 ?: U! X- ]
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, V  N( M1 z# e
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影5 V2 }$ T0 }6 @8 Z8 U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 t1 W- I( P9 q: Z, P4 o' a, a* U空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉/ k5 S5 {! K4 f" t  N& \7 K
很少會超過一天～: ~, h$ f; X' M( T
要期待更好的明天呀！