熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; A% Z' W+ f- N# V* {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 F4 \' A6 o: V$ k, M琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ L  I8 W# p2 z7 F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 h5 @( H' q7 ?
覺得好空虛) i* V3 h( n/ k0 m
其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ D' h6 o0 X8 `& l% U  ]
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( r. @1 U( a  E- A5 Q' _( R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# x( @0 u# `3 s2 G

4 x% j+ j' ~. t, j[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 G1 R" ?. l8 n0 S$ M. e, a但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 e8 x( j$ i% z$ t* }% ^3 n( g, |/ A熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ M# a# ?+ C) z& ~) q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
: z- ~* O; d& v: ^日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙) X" u- c" D0 P6 P
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& ~2 @0 E0 r% x5 O: O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" p7 e+ g& L  R/ a感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..# r, u1 G7 z* q  c, D9 C( o
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 m; A4 U- t8 f# {; [* F! {% C
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:& \. ~- @- l* V5 A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 q" L" V. R* u所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

- w& K+ x" {! Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 i8 U3 ~0 z0 z# J6 {, n5 o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! q$ R* y; W% b1 l, h8 w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 d# c$ C* j3 x- ]$ ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" o; G5 c; Q' i+ e* c5 H  m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: Z' G  O3 N, O# }+ e$ U# e
覺得好空虛4 K; T( @5 B- l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 n  d: k+ d$ C9 f) o6 ?& g  I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; O2 u# q" Z2 r. l+ W  R, v2 _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' h% |1 x- n( B

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: L: O: b, A/ r. S0 V1 t) b/ a
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ A+ s5 O# c6 [6 K, _有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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* K% Y9 N( o  X( mPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" T3 o3 g5 U# \1 g  _2 a3 `1 fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# S3 Q" C# S# t7 F/ ]3 \) J, m/ Z* J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% }  L4 C$ T; R% F$ r6 t) N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. f6 u% i2 e0 e& k9 g. q) q: F
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Just another thought on lonliness:. z3 Y: A0 o: S8 Z
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 W# E, P4 G- O8 C4 j4 Z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ o3 Q8 r: F5 N+ f8 p& D1 L$ f
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 o" f( C5 K0 G! q" U, c$ U空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; f: }/ e6 @, H9 |$ C$ v) B很少會超過一天～
1 \5 j, f: ^, K0 I. Q+ s2 L要期待更好的明天呀！