熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 g8 g; G/ S# V" K# \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' z3 K+ \. f. n3 n* r8 i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 F& t( |8 v/ ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 L$ D0 j1 m* X% c: V: G; I. l7 J
覺得好空虛& x$ Z/ \5 Z- _* |7 D- p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 {" h' b; A8 W* g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' f5 O) U' B7 @! c( [用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- \) i/ p& V2 Q& V! L, ?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 h. c% m5 c5 _& ~( n9 X% h
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺1 u5 j+ }1 R/ t2 }, b1 C  |
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 ]: o: H5 W) r/ a# N
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 U' t5 p0 X2 f* U9 j
日日有車站,
+ @" e; i4 s% W有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  }- X: ]: V1 I3 C! A4 X/ x你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ ~/ K  o$ F9 i: H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# z3 E: [' a. T/ {: C# h- z# F我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 V$ w2 O5 Y8 n5 Q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& Y- {5 k8 h; k, i2 p9 @
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( `! R- s. u; |: \- }* V9 O1 k9 ?% n
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
# _2 w7 x6 r2 C' V其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* R. B8 y: O! _6 ~, T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ h9 n& }) J6 e! _' ~% s日日有車站,
% M3 H! ^5 D4 e! {有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 L0 `- N, }# F. ]如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) ?- \7 n6 J8 k. R好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 i4 t/ x2 r  T5 S& |7 P( ~琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ P8 `$ v$ y" h8 ~( v0 ?個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 M" ]/ J% A! ?* Q* U) r
覺得好空虛
0 Q6 O0 {; Y+ F4 S其實早幾次都有試過係咁* I" P8 W8 X1 v9 h- v2 \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; C  s7 Y; G+ f* r% \4 J
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! v$ y7 F* @$ h! a/ Z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 W6 o; x7 ^" ^: D/ {- S
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# }& ?5 Y# o" N% F: M; ^7 h  I

* y/ W% T/ [* S2 zPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" @0 k5 k( ?9 I, z8 qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 y" o8 G. \7 T: g+ \+ G0 o; db) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 c/ a5 {: X* H  @* }8 i! I( S
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
6 r( J1 \) z# K8 W) OLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. U1 k4 Q! w3 u, [+ O  G% V& {But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% V' P8 q9 u8 B; c" Y4 N: f我會有一種十分空虛的感覺4 b; ]8 N0 `* x/ a0 j# Q% v
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 ^; q8 l1 ]& b: d" `或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
; Z9 E% V- v& l# B3 `! A0 ^5 @空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 X* ?! i. t( s- z7 d! m7 Q, X0 L很少會超過一天～$ R' K+ U! x3 v2 ]4 M1 I3 g
要期待更好的明天呀！