熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, V3 U( O+ H) [7 D# g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ L' Y1 J% q  y! H! ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 y  p* z7 o. D& F: W0 o7 Q, n個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 F* ]" @# n; ]
覺得好空虛" k) i5 N. y" j- ~9 V, `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 X! Z/ @5 _1 g# @卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: q4 B+ h6 M1 M7 t7 U+ ?
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ y6 V% q6 J/ l) y* C* P/ }( D: w

5 g: m- M% ]' \, V$ ?7 x/ C8 K[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ Q. s6 u* t- H1 Q+ c4 U但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 \, E0 l9 E$ H. k' K
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: ]. q1 k  G% E! ^; _! t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 B! N* t* Z# v+ r6 o; q# ~日日有車站,
: U+ P8 r& c0 b/ P. K% ~( _有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 S1 `+ r  i! X. U& Y2 h
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- N( j( J# t! G$ w
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 g& d* x, p2 X2 P
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
" f6 l; D+ @# U2 i總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:$ ]; m: J( l8 h6 n+ o
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ h7 i6 @$ G( V  w
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; N$ v8 D# I3 I+ q日日有車站,5 A- r. `" v( I
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 A+ u* a8 l/ d1 f' U2 r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 a7 s1 ]) e$ b" T0 n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  |# v/ J. B( Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  P& c! X- ~" F& Q9 _' ?個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% a% p0 [; ?8 c覺得好空虛& s( Q+ I4 j3 M" ~! F1 f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁* n" p) n: @: I8 y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- f8 C) ?5 o4 H! M; H) ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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* ^' p* ~% O! x, W7 D這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
; Y+ e5 a' F- Q8 Z1 \# U) |唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% }' j7 c' c# U5 S% v  ?! R! J有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  [5 j/ _0 k) o8 ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ Y/ ^1 n: M7 L: Z
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! v6 F& W5 S6 b. W2 G4 M
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
2 G! i; o( l0 v! |- V+ R7 h7 K- ?1 [Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ L8 u' w. J+ f: C0 sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
8 d; _2 M: _" J3 [; v, a我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
8 w, g& N5 [. z% @7 @就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( `+ t( ^; ^' ~5 N8 x  u+ a/ s
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～' Y. |- b& k3 _
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉$ K; b5 @  G" O# s4 C0 Z0 r& E
很少會超過一天～
+ J# L: m  d2 l4 }要期待更好的明天呀！