熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 C4 [& k# R  n好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: i2 u, T. N. V3 `  N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  j  L+ u8 w7 h0 T! m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 j) V" w  i% N( b" Y* n; y
覺得好空虛' l! N5 n1 V1 e% J. L2 S5 q9 g
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ j9 {/ l5 i! R% |/ u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) Q6 o' S8 ~# C" x6 j用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 Z" m5 H9 G2 v! E5 ]* b7 y4 ]

+ X% d& d0 {# ], Y. P6 a[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,* ?0 U  a: ?: R2 ]7 o
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  [  o. }% }+ G  p% V+ G熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( G  X9 C! T8 D, w, ?所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 c  |( `: |: a/ N' \$ E! G) X0 Q1 N日日有車站,
- I2 t6 w9 l* c4 ^: }. l有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 }, ]" |7 q0 e6 D" w
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 \- z$ e0 c! m, W5 i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, j7 V5 @  y- H5 ?/ X感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ W$ q( {2 g4 F4 b玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." h' O' w! C+ ~7 I
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( W; B+ i& W3 q& }0 s4 `, ~
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' M; g- h5 ~4 V所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# l3 S/ w  v# }0 D% d+ @! c2 x: d
日日有車站,
; b" O" n, q0 ^+ d) U有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! `0 N# u/ N$ }4 w5 Q5 k  i8 e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' {* A' y% f' _/ i2 E9 `好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. H5 @/ e8 D/ m- q' V- `# Q1 q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% ^* }1 v( E4 g) {1 J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) O" ]& l) K% Y3 c* }$ }覺得好空虛, [! o7 Z2 P7 P: {5 R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 \. G6 e, T; F+ h: Z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 T3 n! Q' P' s# h$ x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 G5 o4 g3 u7 b/ b, i  \8 N

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5 k' k" u8 S8 I這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) e# |4 F& T4 l9 p- x3 t# Y; I; T
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 |: }# P& S0 q+ O$ Y$ V有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# A4 R8 g# w* U* b* Ua) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 o1 u. x1 _) X* pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. i. K2 F2 @* B$ Y+ s
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ B) B- v* G7 f  b) x/ y/ [

) X- y# E3 R; y0 e6 s6 XJust another thought on lonliness:
0 ]$ j  a9 a: J4 W+ U5 i+ ZLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 C' Z: Z' o  h
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 y% h6 z2 E9 h2 Z5 t, \+ S我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" e  ]7 x) ~- `5 p' v/ ?' C9 s就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, L! J# `. Q/ K* f; M7 g2 g
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
- z/ ?$ w& D4 \' i! Z* b1 Y8 A, W空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, L+ g, D9 Q3 V/ Q6 W
很少會超過一天～, `* q0 }9 o" U6 m! G  k+ n
要期待更好的明天呀！