熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 [1 o, `: F( N* u0 u* Y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% V/ m# E3 F* T. y$ l+ T& T* p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 L6 M& n+ E6 V
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ P. @2 J/ h" u5 [覺得好空虛# ^7 D5 W, v8 G. I# U& l: J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; _3 i% p4 V0 O4 o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% I( l  q+ G  F6 _/ G
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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$ |! t& y6 \4 p3 U. ^- }. O2 a[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& t, b: [# I, _! C: o  D但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& z; b6 J/ A. O5 N/ R( i" m
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) y& z8 e& k# c& w$ j* d, ?& J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 |  R) n: d& @6 N
日日有車站,
0 h( y6 ?5 X" \  p+ P, G3 |有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ @  q$ g% F4 t, l你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, D4 o9 S7 ?4 ], {; L# B: V! g
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! B/ h- {' C1 G3 q8 z  J1 R
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
# H  p2 P2 @5 T' U. |玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
5 Z: j3 c! q( |3 L5 v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 Q. A4 B! b. p4 ^  C) Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- X6 d3 }+ O* p' G/ J/ b) ~2 O* L' z& U: k
日日有車站,
9 o' C( o) `% c- n  }3 {有目標!

8 N) t; I8 Y* L7 kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 n( b; r8 r9 x# W% p% l. ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, Y: p/ P6 H0 T' Y) z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 J1 o( m2 g5 ]9 k5 T# o% m琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 a, z9 L+ f( a& [9 `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 f0 r# A7 l7 Q) U8 A
覺得好空虛1 _# U: k  M% k* ~2 {
其實早幾次都有試過係咁: z7 o6 \3 p9 a: C' L
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) F6 T+ A2 g4 Y* z/ \4 n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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% }+ a1 P3 t" c# e+ [; W這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 [: E* {5 X  O2 P4 u0 z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 p( A0 @+ t2 o( S  |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.  K1 @+ K+ M0 T4 l/ ]6 |! E% T
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 [% b1 R6 t8 |+ P/ l% T  q( ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  H$ o* t/ O" v; T& o4 x. l
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  n! b/ o5 G# Xc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.* `* ?( h0 H( F: Z, n/ a0 W/ e! _" O
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ t. j% S; o) k5 Y
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: D3 N) Q6 |0 H& l! a3 `( h1 m
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ p, E9 o% `5 X$ P5 B4 j或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～: z" l( y+ |; S% e
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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- E% S) [3 S( H+ F要期待更好的明天呀！