熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  V% @! B% z5 }好唔鍾意呢種感覺  j5 o/ Y! q6 J4 N+ \  \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' z& f2 Z' z+ R( v. h個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ O( H9 J5 l* \/ v! \7 H覺得好空虛
9 e2 _3 ^* |; ]; B2 j5 `- f其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ v8 h( _9 [% w6 y6 K+ v卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; g1 W' O$ h$ |0 D. G# n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 n/ E1 S  d- Z! J; T[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' c2 m- t- V8 m/ ~! N# X但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺  O1 j$ U+ m. j8 ]
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# u  }0 N7 W, M( A$ k  Z6 C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" i, C# e7 f% n) N3 q" o& ^7 B1 B日日有車站,
0 N% ?1 M. m% S. ^有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 Z& f6 ~( q: v
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 r% D) O6 |5 I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; q" [# Y' q& Q6 u我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) N% O% g  N" B6 E7 J! t感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
" F5 j5 G2 v7 K. K* m; i3 V玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) P; K( Z3 j" V8 {& [
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; }( k; p% P: n其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 V& S! X6 C( v) H: P: x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- _' `. d" e7 C) w  T" G7 H# I
日日有車站,
1 D. m5 x5 r/ t/ ?4 U有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- \6 W: Y) F3 l8 J& |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) h5 ^, {. G$ g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 }' x' S) F1 a  M: ]
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 w4 N0 J, V0 ^
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, F5 e* _* x- q' G4 m* o覺得好空虛
! g' U+ V1 |9 @: ?( L5 N/ p6 |4 f7 h其實早幾次都有試過係咁% t" h9 d- N7 y+ T( K1 H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: A# ~& A$ {) j1 m/ T- M$ o/ p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 L& p( Z, P$ c& G$ j1 J3 i

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2 p* o) n1 w' Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
/ Y  R3 Z/ `( U* m9 \1 k) z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.! D' a& x3 k) q; z) ?% h, H6 a
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' f5 K* |1 G: ]) x% J
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# t' B$ `; f# xa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- Y' G9 t7 u0 ub) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 q+ F, B! A1 v( ^! `
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:# U% Q6 c4 f! O2 B+ I
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....% \' i2 X% P( ]$ s
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
3 k" h% u! m8 |我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- ^- Y1 p* o; p. ~% ~就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
6 n1 q4 K" }  w$ o- j或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ I% d4 k8 U  h. e& v2 e
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ N& Y3 G9 v! g5 h很少會超過一天～
( E% g1 x% c: [" E+ q$ @要期待更好的明天呀！