熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& u: h* l8 z1 y2 S" E好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 G0 Y7 S  A/ U* f1 ]0 S9 U8 [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* W' x4 \/ X/ d4 s個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 i( V( z! J6 m* O, @# ~! S% Q覺得好空虛
/ H4 I6 X. y* V2 f其實早幾次都有試過係咁, p$ T2 J( T! Z" i; X4 S& F
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 l6 x  H* H+ E5 i5 `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ O0 \' ~9 K1 J" z% c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 V% |/ B5 _6 T7 Q
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' M! S; p3 F" ?7 U; a8 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' ?. r  ?7 ]6 \, y2 h0 y
日日有車站,
$ X* e6 ]/ O6 P! g有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. u' E- `; i2 O+ y; B- |+ i
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 l9 h9 a% [" K, `! b" i+ H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: B, r2 i$ T9 ^4 I3 z我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
$ d0 h( T* l* o# S, R. t感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." k9 Q3 G" `1 `7 D7 q) J3 s; a% n) ?
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- t2 J4 s+ k1 f5 v# o: ~" I
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:8 A6 O2 y* R* h9 D4 Z- k" q( i
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 c; @. j) `: s' S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) t7 }, Y1 W; p7 ?; Q
日日有車站,
4 F3 {/ X' e$ Y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! e0 m3 }5 c. {) Y& i2 ~- |
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) n, B, ^, W5 g+ B好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 G2 s1 n6 y1 f3 ?琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 a. M* ?1 Y* a0 U6 [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 u- N8 p8 O$ k0 Z! M3 r覺得好空虛
9 ~$ G6 ^! l$ y# j) v8 d$ D其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( b( c& y  W" u2 L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& Y! ^) X+ d* Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 f3 v8 w( w' u' X% j

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! ^. [  z2 j: _, h這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ v5 J$ P9 f' p; o% V
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.9 e7 m/ d. T8 m9 X4 M
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: ^' r  h$ _: W. [a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: c! ~% W, b3 G
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." l( l( `" f" @% P0 k) P: r/ n
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" I7 n4 [4 W  zJust another thought on lonliness:
! ?- z/ N" `6 Z2 ~Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 J2 \  p0 n! n8 a, H7 KBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" y9 Y& _. m* p) Z0 p0 {
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺6 g( G: S9 t& c! m: F" r6 Q) c( v
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* L% @" e; @6 G' l3 l1 x! y/ a% M
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 r: l" D" B. m; S6 c8 d- g
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# U; \6 N& C) j( D7 g
很少會超過一天～0 ?- _2 e9 A% x2 s' q
要期待更好的明天呀！