熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 o7 b/ v: g9 b1 x& ]4 Q1 O好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, _& R* e( {/ f. v琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, F7 X8 Q2 }" G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 W3 `& `& w+ F5 M! o
覺得好空虛
. c9 s4 f9 @+ i4 I其實早幾次都有試過係咁% e( U- M+ k2 M* [' |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* \' o' K, R+ l5 |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* j1 d! Y5 j: q

' u5 X0 u& C+ M1 m) _5 [$ F, e[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& h( X8 R0 C' p: e9 }但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- Q& R# I& _& I; C6 |8 d
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 a" O& _2 q0 c- p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 A: L( P* }  ?/ c$ K
日日有車站,0 O& C; W& D' x3 T! w% J/ P$ B: f5 `
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, j: b( m1 ~, z4 v9 K/ c你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 B* H- W+ P$ Q2 ^+ m如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& w% @1 B# m: b! d* y! ]! f( h感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 B: ]" d  b& f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 c5 _# `& i( B9 v! r( g總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; l4 q7 G6 @0 |9 Y0 L( I其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 l* J$ E" [4 S& E  o5 X' i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 T8 \5 J% ]1 V5 r) ?5 [* _日日有車站,1 s* \9 t+ T7 Z# @) p, z5 a
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: z( h( D/ H! D* ^/ T如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ D$ S. V( K/ {0 b0 Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 W) y& h( ~6 O, d6 P' X0 R& R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% a, j. r  |8 c3 ]4 {
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) [; U2 V6 i3 y( J, ]8 Y. z覺得好空虛
/ c6 }6 T! [  @2 V! C0 S* ?其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( U- d/ n& R. ]9 d8 H. R卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 w/ ^3 S+ h: W4 L# Q: j
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& z/ t% \/ m1 V

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7 J5 a# E7 F3 {& d  i- `6 ~) L這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
; ]4 q' W7 t( x" E, I唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
# w2 ^8 L6 U2 h" N& b2 i0 w8 q+ r9 a; j有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ h. T8 B, D1 V2 A& f/ f

: A+ k0 M0 l+ K7 m# p9 N4 F$ a2 QPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 N& e: Z, F! j$ T, _3 a0 v: `
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long; s0 @. S( E2 }
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ D' w# r/ U  A  `# C2 l) u
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.& [/ S$ l" I2 u# c9 q1 j  H- `
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Just another thought on lonliness:
% G6 v: y) h: l9 A) f9 y) b2 b. |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 e0 x3 k! o* B% F* }But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
: H7 W( S# Y4 p# s我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
& s4 v, C; q2 @6 Q1 i就好似睇完一套好睇的電影5 |5 x5 R: q3 D
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- }. T) q- W  s, E# p2 |: z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( [- a) j1 c3 s  |; `4 S+ H0 u* ]很少會超過一天～
/ c  j- D7 J% f! n0 O要期待更好的明天呀！