熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 z6 g) r7 m( u/ `" Y' {好唔鍾意呢種感覺# m8 y* h( M. D* Q& N! Q) a9 P# M
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& u) W1 X8 B  e2 E個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 q0 T3 x! z; F% x0 @+ @覺得好空虛( x1 S, ]- [& O4 y; J1 O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ G9 w9 x  W2 F8 ^2 m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 g' r4 Y! h5 V  b% x; @& k% V8 K$ W
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& {0 Z! V3 ^  y! {
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ o2 V; B4 n' L5 Q) V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' J9 {5 s8 N1 i
日日有車站,/ B3 K" P% [) u7 F. S4 V/ k& J* P
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 N9 ?1 n. c: N3 ?$ Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. B5 Z1 D: Z8 Y; V; i" M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
: ~) T# W; ?& W, d  T感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 `: z7 X) Z5 F2 y- h& K% v
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 u$ o& t" c- M: {  z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- Q4 @% q8 y. u
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 [9 R% e! C( N7 I7 D
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 o5 j8 I6 u( L& \, v$ q! s/ A
日日有車站,5 V  c7 N5 ~: S) U$ b8 Y+ {( e
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) F4 m/ K! h: D+ ^6 Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 m0 o" h0 t. d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 V; w/ X% ~* `- a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" {# Y& u; P# d  q. }  u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; I" _1 I( @  s) A) n; o. ?* G
覺得好空虛
  G% {9 E6 o9 J( ]6 J其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 r9 g& ?/ r/ s- J, J+ Q& y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% N# f( c* {9 k4 X+ j1 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  j( u: s3 ~( z* {: A7 ?5 w# x- Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 W+ ]9 ~2 s9 I
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.7 Q: A1 e& n0 S/ e+ I, ]& d  ]+ ]
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 F2 D6 r) w6 X8 W* s# Z" o
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% {6 K! Y0 k8 y& f# D
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
3 y/ Q- N4 C+ |+ x' ~3 `+ {" {) Pc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
7 }  A8 \% W# |% QLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: d. G9 a; V1 L6 g) q( `' T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
( U: b* K( R5 s我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
+ Z0 d/ I$ r$ D5 H就好似睇完一套好睇的電影! z2 k/ j# `* O) R: U! N( K/ d
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
( R1 ?& v/ O2 V空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 L: M/ ]. |0 o7 @1 M- j. G9 j很少會超過一天～6 P7 z% t0 [" l: w
要期待更好的明天呀！