熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 G8 T4 F9 ]: n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ Z+ D4 v9 C( M0 b# N! y" K琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 \: w5 e( Y5 e1 x+ @$ b; ?
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: z' C2 s. y) Y  x9 u" Y
覺得好空虛. R4 s9 @2 D! a7 c% |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; ~( Z( r$ o4 u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* |8 E& ~7 A  R# p; t5 O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
& k; o* `0 \+ Q4 @- G你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 ~$ b: X1 ?/ [5 n. ^4 P0 G* o
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! k8 }2 r5 [7 g" P5 @1 r" k4 N我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., |: W8 H* p$ q8 m/ x3 d
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 e) e( G4 I5 J+ Z: s7 }& }玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 W( j2 O/ p9 D# w# k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 H" H3 k& l8 r2 E其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, r$ r; j$ ^' C" s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 P- @4 I9 M7 W" O. N
日日有車站,
/ x, f+ r; e+ Y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 I& n. U) M/ A$ E' y- z' C7 v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% m  q' W& J& B) l2 e1 V* Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" j! d8 t9 ?/ S! p4 z# Q2 \; H. K6 X琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" K; k" c: ]2 _+ N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& q. p) g) V% L覺得好空虛
/ h8 e6 Y" [6 N0 G/ `其實早幾次都有試過係咁  w$ Z3 u% }; u: _: x) c
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& c( _; b0 Q& z8 a; d* v2 v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ }6 V2 h# x, T4 q唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 e, v3 }* _6 `5 z  ~8 p5 @
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.7 v# i" }9 N" m' ^% F
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& F* q2 a# e; `) h& ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  A/ n8 S/ p( U, ^6 E8 K% P1 t- Zb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
3 u% ]3 T6 r: Y4 I7 nc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 w8 X0 B) p9 ~6 @% b
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Just another thought on lonliness:
+ i  g- A! K3 e8 T( q5 g( J4 ]1 TLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....9 L6 Y8 c3 n$ l( J
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# G$ b2 X. o2 l, F8 c
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& e. s3 ]0 [+ v& N
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 M. P8 l5 ^( B- a$ E或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～; E1 A9 y  |7 a" I
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 f2 Y9 j* T1 R7 N( [+ [
很少會超過一天～
  D% K2 G7 o; K0 i  g: J3 c  z; O要期待更好的明天呀！