熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' s& G/ u  I2 h+ ~. r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ W; @5 m: |8 {/ M$ z4 a& i0 Z' r
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: R; J7 [8 k) a0 m4 n* x, C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- {6 r% i( M0 L! B& K) ~覺得好空虛
1 m; u5 p9 q: b3 ~- c其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. w$ W& i% z. L/ e, G* e1 s) }- {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. x1 c' H& @* P5 ~! A6 g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! S; Z3 _# c% Q  o: n3 J6 N2 m

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) _: }  S' T0 K. y" `' {- C1 {7 F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ ^- r8 y2 {4 ^5 K) l* j% z$ d( k
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# @5 Y9 s, l  U. p* U
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," g6 O' \" H3 z# w
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, `% [1 d) g8 l你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, V4 t" t- C  R2 Z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 V/ j- ]2 S0 O+ p8 T我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( v9 k2 X2 B- T3 m( @) X' d* A0 @
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
/ |1 w, }  {2 z; G2 T; G6 i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 \# o: S0 y/ ^+ p6 l! d" s9 p2 |
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! P, K5 d2 I2 s1 Q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# l  O: F8 V3 ^3 ?; J9 _9 W所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. ^+ q, K7 v8 I日日有車站,
( d, X- l# a7 _7 b- N8 [有目標!

/ v, m# B: a( z$ I1 Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( y& N. {* v* v, ^  Y. l6 t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 a; z, G2 |& ?; T6 I& _; ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ D" h9 m- b) z  E
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% s7 z* n" e8 S1 D, \+ E
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  j7 a3 e+ J% d5 w  s. c/ O& n6 X0 y
覺得好空虛
  w; l/ J* {  d6 K# h& e$ t. p其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 b2 W7 n: i. O
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; O5 b; v! c8 m" Q% P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
( E2 O5 N& Q! a* q, h! S- P

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 w- ~5 {' S! E1 g唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 `8 @6 ]  s4 U- \4 ^有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:/ e1 [2 ~# E" T* R: ~+ R3 l
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 ~5 z% H' D6 x. o# Z8 \: s# M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 ]( ]; S) u8 ]6 \3 A( K  Q" g* {+ N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.' b* A$ s) T$ ^! s: k
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Just another thought on lonliness:- W0 ^4 `& o1 O; X/ ]
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' Y( h/ Y5 O( }But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 B- \6 c) M. A1 d0 y3 p我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; @$ X- Q/ k6 v/ R+ _- [3 H: m
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影' u: `% s7 f; |9 [5 ~4 n! l
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 M3 O  C6 c" u8 U4 ^空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 `' V, H" r4 r0 A" \" K; u: ?8 N
很少會超過一天～7 i$ M1 e1 a$ G) X5 ]
要期待更好的明天呀！