熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 t: _# A: v" l/ s' L8 }. e$ Y1 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* D5 x& S6 h+ n/ u( m琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 `2 z1 ?) l8 a, _. T* n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. g% E, C6 `% B& \$ f: a, p$ ~
覺得好空虛/ @& M% H9 F0 K  C7 ]0 h- d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  {$ K/ n. o1 {& J1 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  ?; o: M/ A; A0 X+ A用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 r+ O$ q7 e) \# ~/ c. b: ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ u2 V7 a0 z: \: r+ }9 h" m熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& q$ h# N. B; O5 d% ?6 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- h5 `, {. Q0 r2 S% m日日有車站,: q8 g2 g8 H) g3 `, Y; o
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
$ F: }8 `1 |! T$ ~( ]- J- \; _' S你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 v& X& v* E( M. M+ x* `5 t
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

* o/ L7 t& E; Z8 K我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 R2 ^7 Z1 ~7 _6 C$ H) f) L9 r感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& N1 v/ h! O& i# q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
8 M: D+ o0 G* K3 X總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 o& v* t+ X5 A; s% Q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 D) B% z+ A  Q' t' v" T$ k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  W5 D, ~; W9 I% p: Z1 i. {$ v
日日有車站,$ K( q. n2 ]! W! ~' x
有目標!

+ p+ W) _$ d  ]5 j% owhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 f( m# a5 z6 _/ m  B如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 A0 f1 D' M3 \7 d5 m; }: T好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ k' x& r8 T: _2 {7 K琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 `+ Z6 t5 z+ y8 {2 `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 T1 @! _# b( K: G+ d0 _: _
覺得好空虛' t* l+ N) R4 J" l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; f# e. |, U$ ~- {! Q0 Y9 o; b9 \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ ^* Q% H' l3 s( F. S8 m用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 i; q4 b0 Z- U+ v+ s: `

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: r9 r1 m0 N  Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ N+ L! Y, y/ w* ?2 ~1 u& T& }  d3 e
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  B# e3 Y4 `# j& n3 a: {有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 |. I7 A4 i4 \. Y
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# l" M1 {1 F0 a$ H9 oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 ?6 p* R! a5 F) C* W! l/ ~$ Rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
: Q1 V7 \+ X6 \" ~; m, {" hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
0 ?) M  |5 Z* [) JLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 `4 L. N" Q# tBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
9 \" h( F! {/ _2 l/ t4 R# D7 V我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! t4 s4 e: W+ L2 m5 s1 I& M: Y. u就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  n& N9 ]5 {" c
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 _% ?9 E; O9 j* y$ ]. j3 n! G
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 g- P0 H- t6 }  C6 B
很少會超過一天～
( @* {( R1 I9 N& d' H, ~% v* [要期待更好的明天呀！