熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! S7 p* t, M: O* l8 e1 _5 K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! }2 h0 h) O8 ?: t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' w1 a8 d) _) O1 @* Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) |" g5 q9 m* u0 v+ L6 ~" ?. Z  m  U覺得好空虛
, x1 P2 V9 b* `* \. l% o4 T其實早幾次都有試過係咁" @1 x; z1 x9 C. w7 ^* ?* M2 V0 A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# [1 W* x' ?: y7 V0 c4 L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 P2 Q4 u9 r% M. S' B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: p6 U2 x- Q7 S: [, l
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" u; g# o; P3 Q' i* e  S( n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& K/ D, {# Q3 f6 m4 @( ^1 x
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 f$ {; z& }- h) C% T" M# r你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" b8 A8 E6 f5 f4 a; a5 s" q) |. }如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: f2 h( P% ]* ]8 J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..* A$ J- f$ y+ e4 Y) I' d
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 N8 m( i# C8 W0 T7 m& v
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:5 b5 X8 ~$ u. ?
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 k$ `; ?+ o# Z3 H' ~1 z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 @+ r3 E' A; Y) V1 Y: y4 V/ i% i
日日有車站,4 J8 X& |+ A' ?+ P8 W) h
有目標!

, ^) S$ \, i" [9 |* B7 z8 F# Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# f" `9 {5 w) T- |
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; f4 C) c2 [1 U5 }
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! d6 E$ `' ?( I. L1 T5 B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 N8 ?  I9 [- e, y! ?4 G個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 U# K$ G& r& K+ s3 `+ ~0 c覺得好空虛
5 X  K& K% Y) W其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; Y5 s% v& ?6 G+ ~3 p6 b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! S  L8 a, Y+ d; m, ]& }
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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, [" w) t! p/ K* n6 ?- V1 O這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# M% s7 E; m% m0 @' G/ O
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.- w. z& w' ?8 I" R; r% f# f5 Q: L  c: N
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) \/ m# N! }6 O- G4 S! r9 Y
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:. {5 ^4 S; L. A/ F# R- n! a
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- C9 a' V+ x) ^& a
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 @" ?# Q! y$ t
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 I4 `: T* e3 ~
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Just another thought on lonliness:8 O8 _& u; v5 ^, l9 u& B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. ^; V. a- J& E5 R8 P2 cBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 S) z$ G& y8 l* h* H9 N9 ]
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' A+ X  i; }) _6 x7 Z- Q$ K空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( d: Q3 L% R% o/ `; ^
很少會超過一天～5 Q8 c( Y: }# T! g3 U
要期待更好的明天呀！