熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; w6 s5 d0 ^/ x4 J* L, e好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# t( K2 p4 }4 `/ S: q' t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: g$ v: O! d, Q' M個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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* ], F; T( H" l) f% \其實早幾次都有試過係咁  Q- h' l0 S' T4 j" f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 q/ ]! Z* r2 K8 @* ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 A' t1 a$ v+ f) b, t
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺4 x& H2 G- F! L' N. x
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," B& v/ C5 j. F* O, V: Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 W% C( M- w: j* g- c日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, c) j* r4 `$ h你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 C& o7 R+ y& f5 i3 X如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
$ H4 e. t4 Z5 M# d0 k, F0 d感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
! A  H) ^: h0 Z) F; g1 |) g玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( E* I+ ?4 S4 }( [1 |9 Y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. a6 y: t1 H; [& b8 w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 L2 @0 x; t/ V5 a! n* r
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' y" U9 T$ v0 Y, d' \7 @5 @8 T
日日有車站,
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) Y% T% G( g# Z7 F7 iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 b* N) y7 Q6 D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) w8 I) M6 X% Q8 l& D8 ]) l/ q9 a0 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- m% n3 v- z7 ?' r7 x! I5 S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ o; {1 R/ {" p$ A2 i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* h9 F" z0 s8 ^9 n7 o覺得好空虛
6 S( t/ t  R) z& c+ w其實早幾次都有試過係咁# Z3 K* `; C. t+ @8 h1 D5 o. Y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* H" l5 t6 W9 S' ^: |& b- z8 ]用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  m7 r. B6 t7 e1 q7 }$ y) j9 T

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0 `/ ]5 M9 q- u9 M% L6 \" P% o& b這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 v8 ]6 E+ Z- l3 ^唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( c5 Y% v; E; j3 a) w' x# ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 Q2 U( ~" h" z* o4 `$ p( Kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ ^/ P% U7 l4 O: _" [2 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:  U& _+ n( M; }0 w5 F7 n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
  Z- A. p; A  y8 w; m2 eBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ Q4 n% S% ~3 [
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 p7 V, U4 v  I9 l8 _% I
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影- y! T  z+ q- T+ W" F! K1 u; |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- V- w" ~: m5 |$ ]
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: j8 K6 A7 s: g! \- K4 V
很少會超過一天～
" d* z# N; Y# b1 f要期待更好的明天呀！