熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ ], g, m+ V* Z3 p' D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 }  c' n) G/ e6 C8 N% A% f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 A. Z+ p2 z0 O. d- A1 Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 O) K2 Y9 `. {9 C6 B覺得好空虛
: I& \* E) j- Y9 d其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ C, O  x6 h6 H+ `. J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% S8 q. z4 r6 C7 r) g' ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% r3 X, R* y6 n" m
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺2 _( M2 _8 G+ F; W' U
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 n4 \8 Z9 M. ?& g" S3 S, Z) k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 l9 a! t. k/ W% P$ q' q* M日日有車站,  r2 ?' O8 T7 x
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' x; n9 [  W3 N  `; G
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  {8 F: P  Q! h+ N) E2 g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: f0 |6 ^. h  U" m3 ]我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% C" W" ?+ V+ |. X& d0 ]感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..3 _- x% i; }5 Y5 e6 _( H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 e- ^# R# L+ H! m; t; L* h
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 |9 f: Z5 \4 r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. V0 b4 x5 Y/ J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- O& W, B% F) e) u日日有車站,
8 F4 S! {4 C, C+ G2 b) C0 g1 R有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, s; f$ j7 }) f2 ?# }) F
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 O  B1 h, Y2 x" ?4 m5 Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" y6 t* k: C( L- N8 e2 o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; {+ |2 X) r: W' E8 o% Q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. k+ N& f1 e: R6 \' F覺得好空虛2 ^) S5 Y7 Q- d) e
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 S+ R8 W! v2 k2 E4 S' U卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' y" V# V! W$ P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
8 ]- X6 f8 O& ~/ N  m

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) S8 z4 b# b. i, F/ m這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& E( l* z/ P9 c: A7 Y' u( L' i
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
! w# ^, y  P' o/ z/ C2 q* r有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ u+ I! |" q% O: H$ r* d
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 e( S. ^+ N) j; y3 R$ ]1 E
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 K; T6 G/ y  J% Y5 k. B& _b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 g1 R  V$ L, Jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 N5 F+ B& m5 c

2 Y: }9 w: \* G) e( MJust another thought on lonliness:1 h/ ^/ v3 k$ t) R, S: F  |
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ z1 X' r/ O- X9 _4 bBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～0 K% J2 j2 f$ {* P
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 N) t1 Y: a1 r4 [就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ {5 V& m: p( p/ N' ^# f或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 a% b1 \: C2 U" E( ]空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉1 B1 V9 [; |3 Y; q, V
很少會超過一天～
/ I' a! T! T5 ~, v9 T要期待更好的明天呀！