熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# J5 ]0 [  u" h% ^% X5 q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 A: P% p; L8 [( e& J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ b" r! d( o, `5 @2 e' ]
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 j6 t, s* t; o3 b1 H: Y' Q
覺得好空虛2 J; z" t( q, A4 x& _
其實早幾次都有試過係咁: ~/ S- R' B6 {/ H% N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, m5 `! A# m% X( b( h
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( c* S9 o, g6 n( \& c1 b3 y; z( @但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% z* L( Y* S. n: [, s% k/ ~* g5 l2 F3 o
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 O. \  ^6 C/ M/ T9 P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ x/ C  N. \: z" X2 i  F3 n4 i日日有車站," L( _, U1 r' y" ?5 x, C& L% |
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; P: d2 _, @8 z  L* M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" @) O6 ~7 c$ D7 x! y感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  i' D8 S! A" l
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' s+ `5 @5 Z" B3 ^4 l: `  Y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 B$ I2 @8 V8 h5 F, L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( C, c9 C, a' M) ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 r$ l% ?: C2 H$ Y日日有車站,. V2 _3 n" h; z- m3 B  y
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& Q: `+ b. }7 e
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! s! d3 r% K  X: D+ h( E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 v5 r0 u2 C. R/ q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: ^9 o' c2 |1 F個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 t; g3 k: u" x9 u# S! q9 s覺得好空虛+ {  I+ N) x8 A0 k9 M7 ?+ s5 u! X% S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 X+ ?6 P: s7 J$ V' Z% z- A7 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! _/ `6 h& ~8 F* L$ c9 m* v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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. n9 a+ Y, d' V" R這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.5 r# y3 c5 b+ Y) A
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 M  f  _; o3 H" q有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 J9 z& @/ T& h* ?1 ]
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 {7 Y$ ?5 E* S( \9 |$ ]: E) v3 r
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 E" F9 J, `2 k; G; P) \8 h" E( Db) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.1 Q: ^; X" T$ F3 I1 ]% T
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 ?( }. b/ D+ T7 N( X7 H

1 s' V( J1 k, e7 PJust another thought on lonliness:- @5 L- r1 Q4 `+ Z0 G- i4 _8 Q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 F" t' u4 |! z) S% wBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! A( ~. g, f5 O我會有一種十分空虛的感覺  F9 f  [" l: A- H% w) P
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
# W4 S1 @6 b: ]; b或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 C7 y$ _; R3 l& L
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( d- L- [1 ^( }: e$ t! z3 M4 d
很少會超過一天～
& s. |! m4 r) |) z要期待更好的明天呀！