熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 {8 _! e" e+ O7 y# Z& D( i# |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 i' c/ {) J1 j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 G3 t) w; x8 _; t! e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 ?$ a; B) `. l: D+ U  W7 ]
覺得好空虛
8 O& {6 t: w/ A其實早幾次都有試過係咁& z+ ^+ c' i0 E1 H  ^2 J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, w5 T4 W' Y" o! E+ ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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4 D3 ^/ j/ a- w5 X! K; K8 p) t[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 y  K0 |2 n8 T! e1 s8 e
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ q  p+ t+ m- M& S$ p/ p熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 h! {' i% |5 m7 D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 g) Q/ t) W$ F日日有車站," K' L; p+ q0 g, [/ ?+ g6 ?/ m
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 G( {. K. `2 ]; D( N( U
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( I) T1 M" [6 l7 c# ?  |
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 e4 [: i8 H3 z, P4 C+ F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 h' d7 |; p5 _5 g7 E玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.6 ]4 Y# f. B6 }: C8 A# i/ t
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:$ Q! F% l# [) b5 K2 h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# N: m' y2 R* ^所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  t1 O8 [, Z( ?  A& F
日日有車站,
7 v2 y* Z0 k4 M* E* T2 i3 G+ ~有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; v& q2 X: N- H3 K7 e! b1 z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 b/ Y. ~+ u; m: P# E8 I
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( F. g6 f2 x( w" Y( c7 B: z9 E/ L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 I+ a1 ?, T/ K$ p, U8 ]! o
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 G# a; v2 z4 p- d5 Q覺得好空虛) V# C/ N0 `$ K3 W1 G/ C5 x
其實早幾次都有試過係咁; y6 e* F# s; v2 J: D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 _+ Z1 e* ~, ~+ I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( \) @2 b) G: C& P

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7 H: ]6 o7 r- N: L( Y( l這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.9 X0 ~5 P! b3 F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 D/ c0 Y" d/ m$ s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.2 \' m8 A: K. y; O3 ~2 B6 T
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 c1 U9 ?' d5 ?7 Q9 O6 L7 Ja) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 F- Y6 h* S5 `/ r$ R! z$ q/ m0 j& pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 T. C5 h+ R6 W  l0 A/ L9 g# n% |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 O7 J( I: D! G, c4 v* P0 u0 |Just another thought on lonliness:4 l) y* r: }% F7 }+ D
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* W. E, z7 z8 R3 h0 }" ?, P( TBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( A! U' t; f' S; U
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
1 C5 k( L' ^' }+ L就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
' |% P! {$ m( u8 R* g0 }2 q或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 U: _1 z) e6 {* F) E7 P空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 \& d* `) R( ^# P; \; R# R
很少會超過一天～
( o7 d' G5 Q& s3 p- W7 ]8 c2 E要期待更好的明天呀！