熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; \0 w$ }% V- N2 h0 C好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 }6 m" n6 h% B' l3 ?; c" f& s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 |1 q/ m9 i; P
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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2 ^; l8 q4 s+ a  z/ K7 E其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' w. W  T, T, i- g1 ?9 o+ M* d卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 W8 Y7 G0 u  Q2 `3 J8 s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 ?2 D4 o+ Q2 V* N4 C& v5 `
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 \1 N. t: \3 L1 v; w  D
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 b: S; p% r8 t6 v: q. P熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  _& g" u% u' k6 q" t( s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 T5 j* R0 d2 l$ \! A- t0 ^: E
日日有車站,% r* S! n6 D6 g- q( t2 w8 @
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 f( V1 i( x+ S, ]  {你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& k' Z( ]1 X* {! X+ ~* @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.* H9 ^  a  |; P5 R
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) i& \* `4 Q/ d$ G8 d
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 N0 o# l+ C0 ]6 o
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( G2 A! T5 J- t, j  m9 w0 X+ X' n$ H
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! @( [/ Q+ M; N, E9 N/ @1 q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 U8 Q$ ]6 n( x% Q& Q# a! x. h
日日有車站,
, i$ g* [; z& W* h: ~; K$ A+ O) v有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" b4 h: u) s4 T$ l$ Y, ^
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ X8 F+ O' {% t) E& [好唔鍾意呢種感覺( i- C% [4 Q  b9 G" k) C
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 r& q  Y# o4 l4 B7 b
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 k" V. c) z0 t( s
覺得好空虛- E+ W' ^5 @; F# S' E) I
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) z: F; r3 N+ t4 m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) G8 Q0 {2 C/ g) n: Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% }$ L& v! k3 n0 y1 t3 q0 N  ~6 M

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1 y% h( \; O* I4 Z4 I這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* {8 T" E6 i6 m) N5 |) F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- ]# p& B' t$ Y- R有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  S) q  t* u- x( V, ~- e6 a; APeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, }/ L* u, A9 i9 N2 `" N0 Ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' h1 u  C. A2 ]1 p) g' v3 f2 d
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( Y8 l; |+ k' ^" s' A# v7 z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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0 o% `4 }7 v4 u" @/ _! rJust another thought on lonliness:4 T( q! n/ R, W# ~9 K
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 D' s6 e6 i6 ?! n8 NBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' L( T5 L! j, _* _' Y9 ^
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 w% l6 o' I! ?  H
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; {6 T' _0 _3 `2 {! c或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 U1 C. P4 U8 E3 p# P1 F0 p9 l$ k+ M
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！