熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. \/ q  P; W% h8 L; R9 i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 }, P* h# N. c9 G& ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 v% t0 \2 {9 u1 H9 I, [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  z4 K* l, d6 C- ?4 u9 S% L覺得好空虛$ j0 J: ?* f. G
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 s1 Z8 D1 q  D& u& W' U& V$ a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  p: ]. u* V9 M8 ]3 l! D, b6 U1 k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 m* }/ f* T( \9 N但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& [) ^+ O, J! f$ {8 B0 g7 Q' _
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% f5 i1 _/ j4 N) M1 e
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 n  M1 k; q0 x4 b8 I1 E1 P3 ]
日日有車站,
# N+ i9 b/ o: W9 r* ^有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 h+ t$ {3 T  K2 m
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ P% C' ^. t6 J如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& K' O, t. S2 S# ^5 Z4 G4 Q8 S我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! ?0 `) q' z. B/ [
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( H& W; ]7 K" \玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ v2 ?" [4 @5 u! e0 }
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# ?) |( W2 h0 p所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  w0 _. O6 J+ g" k( \5 L* w日日有車站,
8 M& o7 s4 l1 I* `( q% y: \有目標!

8 @' F- u2 B  _+ X) L6 e- _5 nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ `6 R( @/ Q5 J
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* X9 l) m; Y1 k/ _5 \好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ p9 Q$ y0 v: o% Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 T3 L9 ~& w9 Y$ U" W個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% ?9 O8 q2 r/ X8 b; c覺得好空虛
! e% U7 U4 J9 ^其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 h5 h, v3 y; C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 B% P! h0 ]# u7 O
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ I9 @" J4 Q1 H( X& o+ e唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 o* i# b. }/ t9 l有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% p7 N( k1 r5 v0 h2 I6 d
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- C+ f  G: h7 s& I6 i3 ^b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 H! i) p5 u# s/ X6 J2 a6 d
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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( r- D8 Y2 e) f! C6 n* v3 T9 CJust another thought on lonliness:# c3 G( D) w; m9 ?
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." i6 j/ F2 Q* [' h5 v: [
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* B, r% H' q9 E+ r% ?
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 @9 v/ R( i; b* o  a7 B! K
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- Y% }* V/ `$ |2 B, k或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 X, a2 j$ v6 ]( m" I6 x空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉% G0 p  `/ d9 \1 Y
很少會超過一天～9 A! W# ?+ H- ?
要期待更好的明天呀！