熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 G. {0 c0 D* y1 A% c7 {; C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 h' l8 ?# l7 W8 H琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ T5 I0 W% F' T5 q4 O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; ^5 s: U+ e) |0 M3 J; k* O5 }( G覺得好空虛
! x4 s! W- U: L5 W) _% B2 l; C& x其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 H' l9 D3 @; x4 A) k% ~) m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 a- q  @  N, i' g( J: \
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% A& A, Z) H! p$ g/ Y+ W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ m) |$ ]; G/ Y8 E, z
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; ^, h" [/ y/ |3 o% p. @所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 X* [* t; s/ F9 |; X; J0 X
日日有車站,
* S, w; c6 n; X有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 x2 A7 h3 m2 g" z
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  E0 w  k1 i# S: V' u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ c# }( d/ A' f$ E* H( B( p我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
  u" q9 A5 n1 \! W( ~+ \感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% f8 j3 k# ~, P$ l
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
! v$ j: Z, M* V* c- l1 B- s, q總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:3 k# k# e" L. C3 W4 H8 K+ Z1 F
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* j: j  c( e7 o/ \/ T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! y; ]) d" x# L5 D- r% {! I3 s日日有車站,0 T; i1 F" y- {  U8 k6 G
有目標!

+ I1 [5 ?+ J1 t7 Y# e! b' Nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" f8 V5 u6 a9 G  [; p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 u) h7 t7 {7 |8 T4 a
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% X& P/ Q! I$ g4 B. B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 n2 X0 {  m4 ]) b
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ Y( a  ]  p) a. m: y" }5 S
覺得好空虛
0 M5 a. I1 x! {; _其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 t1 {( z7 J2 ^7 ~3 P! n
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! Z0 S0 E$ Q7 l8 g$ W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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! N# e: ~% A4 p' T/ X- a這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.  H* @$ S0 Q. Y3 G( A: C0 \* U2 B
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.7 B6 \% x0 g; }* Q3 S- w2 b
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 A: C. m8 L9 h% F) h: k9 Z4 g

5 l* K( A% R  w  R/ b" RPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 `/ Z. {0 ~4 R* G! N% v
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
: d" Z# A& n* t" D; v: Xb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# ?: j/ \% H1 v# o5 h
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
, k- V: E7 f. W5 e. NLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 }& Q7 ^1 {' m2 R
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
& s/ Q) M/ f# f3 V9 R我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 @' ]; |4 y2 ]% D就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 S- y' a( Z2 w+ |: K6 t
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 x, @, e% P$ C# D, `" c. u
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉8 r3 j2 e5 m  ^  v/ ?
很少會超過一天～
/ Y. _  K$ q. q1 {5 b( g9 k& f' j要期待更好的明天呀！