熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ M$ [: K8 L' O7 i' c3 K4 \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' s% x. x  G, {1 Y2 B! w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ ]/ d" L8 g/ q1 v個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ j: D3 b+ q4 o+ ?5 V4 Z, y/ n9 n
覺得好空虛. _; C- @1 P4 O9 j4 W8 a- y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 B& K7 |; R+ h( ?. V9 L
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ i/ y  {% ~) K0 p4 Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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% W4 p1 C0 D: g: f* K  W, i7 T[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
; {7 K& K" i* W9 S/ D( w; c  k但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) Q$ M. N' f8 o2 O熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 ~: h% @  b4 }9 q5 r# z6 p+ S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
$ a. \2 P, q2 |你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ b1 A3 N5 d# @; E% m
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 p/ W- m* @( C1 c, f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" \' W' E/ O4 d5 j感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) n; W( k# O) D4 M3 y5 D/ Y) F  C% J/ a
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( J6 q( @. T+ Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ i0 c+ S3 B" r* i
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 V3 a  f5 m* t3 n: {- [所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, f( T$ B# c9 |' d& n2 x日日有車站,
( z$ t* c. \8 V) P/ o, s有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ }% w" q, ?  _' P6 {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- H  \  m% Y$ G5 s4 q7 i2 E% d好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 |- g7 Y' S7 L) t8 @3 y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 A4 e+ L+ a" M7 z+ ?7 X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ c. f" O- v# G) b; T2 ^覺得好空虛# Y2 V% |; D* H# D
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- }( ^' P( M/ C2 Q5 B) Z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! i9 @. ^. F; v; e( @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 Q' g9 [' d' F' S- [唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 s, M, w& R& ^. d0 a6 p" D( L有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  @5 E0 s5 ], d) Ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 C: G9 m( {2 y! W4 t& b% b2 h
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 h* p2 \1 ?$ ]  {( u( D
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
$ o$ Z, ]$ P- S, u6 B1 L; x5 l& sLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～8 p# U. ]! c6 [6 R! D
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# P. I% e0 _* }9 f就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 ?' C6 n: @: e或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 W$ [5 S1 H8 Y3 ~/ ?6 e. k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 l8 I2 [- A* A, w) Z, q很少會超過一天～
9 S' m9 Z/ H9 v, V) q( i( m要期待更好的明天呀！