熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, B( h( p# \! l5 D3 p" ?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 f5 ~5 }/ s6 x  L# Z% g琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# b4 _2 [- |6 n4 c1 L) Y7 x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, r/ z0 ?  d. Y8 A8 D+ J* P: F
覺得好空虛/ J7 b; K$ p0 z; B3 X1 l% W1 W" v
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' i9 _5 t. x' s4 a- H3 p; o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 {/ d: k. A6 ^) o7 e& n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% _$ p5 c: I7 v. Q( X' V

( K- p7 z4 c: ~6 A[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: o  d' f2 A+ `# F& u# S
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 w' U* _$ B/ d熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, l) F1 r* P0 r& g3 W& y: F9 H1 K
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 Y0 H1 \) t0 r0 \3 s" F- _
日日有車站,
: o. g9 D5 k1 ^. h( }& Q0 T3 k有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 b- M" M1 x' y% a; H9 P) H4 |
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 V1 B: S" s& r+ z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 k7 U8 V2 B/ M7 A4 j
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 z- v0 t3 C2 ~, U; r7 x% A& l# O4 K
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
* y& k2 s7 s% M% w; c& g總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, W% c0 S5 `/ L# `! u5 {0 V其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 P, O6 }* d" S4 o$ _1 K- q8 d, _$ ?所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 h& f  m: g( y* U; C
日日有車站,4 W) @6 B: F8 ^/ }$ Q& R
有目標!

6 ?: e" n  ^, f+ O% `/ r- d' V5 _what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ s3 t* f4 J0 R6 {* u8 M+ `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 C2 t' s# |9 j; f% M" U2 f好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: W" j! C+ P% }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* f: b) b9 |, w7 @
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ d4 E5 n. Z" q% A3 B- ^4 U覺得好空虛+ K' \3 S; C- |1 k( p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 W$ V- G. _/ j" Q. F& r  M- H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# _/ Z9 x3 J5 C" }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# D. u# w  I+ m3 |6 k

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% Q' I2 F' P, l; D; g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 x* S# _. l) Z( M& U# l+ r* P% ^有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.  s0 a) u* ~1 r; V7 J% p

! e* t! @; U' C6 y+ l* [; RPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 \( Q$ L; p8 Z( ^6 Y& L6 E; E$ ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 [4 d$ U7 _0 V, b$ Z3 L' Qb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; j: _, |" b8 p9 dc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ I9 |( h/ G4 U

$ K: N" A8 X! L) ^$ ?Just another thought on lonliness:% `- P9 c* a) G5 d; R7 r" t3 l
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 x$ a2 }; {+ D6 i. q3 `! g: n' J
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 N$ u2 a" ^. g* F5 t- R+ E我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 l" z6 V! r, c5 b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ d4 E, L' ?2 o/ r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
; @9 v6 s) R+ `( T7 O. w7 v+ G空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 E# E/ W8 ~9 O# h& V
很少會超過一天～0 B  p- G+ {$ f2 T5 L% [9 ~
要期待更好的明天呀！