熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 e" O4 v( E  x  e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 z+ O4 t8 ?# y. i/ w6 G  Y% N1 \琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. G9 }# y+ G' r9 s- P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' T5 `9 o" L1 P0 a' v, E; d
覺得好空虛
- `: q! x/ T6 Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 G% c& j5 p9 L6 T5 D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 O2 L/ Q" a1 Q1 w9 T+ x- s6 J
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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$ h! M# N+ X" x3 T* ^1 L[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,, _9 a7 k* o3 r8 A7 I5 W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: r5 x5 X! N# L$ |3 n
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; |/ Q! k5 w0 v
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 w3 b; y/ s% r: b+ ~日日有車站,! o# l/ A* @$ j+ X  t
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ I& G7 R- v9 `
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 q1 [4 k- ]$ y: l' ]) `  S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

* J% @4 Z# b: s+ q; V' y: Z我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.6 b( [) m" h: y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 b' z  M" ~% }  r8 V, C. _& ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, J1 h) b0 R1 Q, |) A總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
+ @) g3 _# N8 Z, z( u) \/ h' ~! T/ g# w其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" {0 I5 {- j& J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 T' [+ U: s" f
日日有車站,
& R$ b4 X" ?2 e# w有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; y0 t8 A( G5 y4 ^
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! U+ @& e6 o# z" w6 @2 F, b好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ c$ h6 X1 c$ x) F$ q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 P0 R0 ^# b4 q5 u7 q  r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# C9 @' Q# N4 v7 I0 r- t; F覺得好空虛+ f- F  l5 c3 {+ Z1 d% n' C2 u# S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 ]9 P1 I* L1 N! j+ j( x" i) f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# j* h6 w# g+ B" k) c用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 v5 L+ t7 A$ T! T9 l% R3 W4 z! f

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' s8 q. _+ }+ c& P. ~$ U唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 S7 W: T( v" Q( ~; p1 z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) y" M/ i# H1 }" c9 P" p* W+ V, ~. a
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: g- ~$ R6 Q/ x# w( b! f) B& ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ N/ h8 `$ f5 k5 n# D1 kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
& `2 |* R6 i* ?* l! Fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:  E2 R8 \, T' i' I4 e: S
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 f. X4 O" Q7 m
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
3 P* g0 }. J2 ~& }6 `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) s3 I- e3 q+ v: Q; a( G" W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
' S" Q) T  M$ K$ l8 {7 l很少會超過一天～
1 w0 H$ D4 m8 c$ ?6 q7 Z要期待更好的明天呀！