熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 ]0 \- q. F3 ], F3 n) W( J5 b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' `4 r4 ]7 Z( M8 L% G
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, w4 \5 }7 p# t5 m  D3 \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' F. e  |6 ~5 w( O$ f% S: w) k; v# O
覺得好空虛
8 q# O& n) \+ e6 f/ B+ l4 a& w其實早幾次都有試過係咁- T- K% d+ G9 D5 o( K
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; b, b+ r9 k+ q  n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  T7 r5 Q  a3 ]. `4 S[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& d% ~3 z' }9 }0 C但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ m# v2 l+ J- R8 p( r
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# |9 P$ I! M$ S1 D6 n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 M, ?: x8 O% v- q' J: h" j日日有車站,
7 X5 I* X1 L  e' u, S有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
$ _) y: C% O+ X: P4 [6 G, N你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, @2 v8 _- q- L8 `- ?如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 X; X# w# x9 F# H感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." ~7 B9 _( G) `; b% K7 I
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
9 m/ W5 |, [# T, K" p5 _( K, k總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  P- N( L/ V& D7 i# ~其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 p6 [$ {6 P1 j- O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. D9 V1 V) }  i7 i5 o! o3 o4 ~# J
日日有車站,( E8 A  ^5 H* O( N0 o1 u& k
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 }2 e' r- x: j/ i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* W: o! X0 H, J# w- G1 T
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" h+ \$ ~# p( ]0 Y& B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 P( z& y( P& G# c5 F# D. E+ h) y2 M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; R( i* C3 t9 i* [覺得好空虛. J- ]1 O: t/ Q! P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. h/ @3 W* B2 R. _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 ~0 \; E; a+ t! M- d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 Y# C  g% g) j: P0 \1 j

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% Q9 G5 G) o' R1 n
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 u3 |' t& w( D! S2 x: U  E) m有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' e6 m; j- f- C

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7 d6 A( ~- v# U8 k: ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 I5 p" k  J; q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 q0 H, c: F0 R( Ac) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
$ d0 r; u. w" F# bLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～
7 I% ^  D0 o5 V6 \6 {- u我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) t2 Q; |3 V) y3 d
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# x7 B- U' B& m$ }0 ^# H+ |8 ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 X' P1 D7 ]5 w6 B6 \7 \
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！