Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:4 o, E/ p, _) t; |
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:+ a8 _4 p6 y. |. `" j, K7 X! R
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.( |) a* I# G# c5 h3 }" W; j3 E* ?
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.& @# K3 i. p0 h
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:& A( X5 T/ b/ S W6 x7 F* l, R
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:9 k4 L+ \: b6 p8 u" o
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.1 C! j4 [' ]: v; J( M9 R4 o \
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.; w- b* `# _; x# x
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友2 Z Y7 C" g& r. Z+ ?2 ?, k! J
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明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:9 W2 j" o+ c! [8 C4 _
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友1 n7 I, N9 I" @4 y& M
我要講既只有咁多
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:8 G3 z5 E2 l" m8 n
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,5 c( `7 L7 ~; T% b. O
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:1 f( z% E- i$ @ {3 U
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........$ m. U- M2 E4 F; ?% j7 D2 i
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方! m: g5 o7 H( L; K& n) o! E
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:3 A3 m! M% ~* V* x7 D6 }3 @- w
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,' R: \! h9 K8 x: Z- E
以前有幾個網友, N8 Y S6 ^' [/ u+ |6 b
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一個傻左,! a8 m" }; x! g$ o4 R
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:1 b: U/ I! U3 R( M, S/ | B
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:6 } C8 r4 Y& \; [; O
trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!" a, A: e* ~$ b+ r
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^+ D' ^- M7 T( V, u5 c7 w
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:3 H6 R+ b6 @; p9 E5 d6 l3 a
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:' j q( w/ e/ ^! [' w6 H! H: x
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!# v9 @, b3 k8 q! Y
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
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以經濟學黎計算:% a3 _4 V1 a" `, l
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。 w- _. o8 m! E# H
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。* S0 G# d+ t. j, R3 d- l1 W8 `
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:0 Z2 p$ N% g/ x1 s6 e
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:5 A5 _6 o( l: F/ c! F
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:: p' m4 g0 o4 d
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。0 W2 j; l- X6 A. Y
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
今晚有時間入黎齋吹下9 b+ ]; t' U! r" q
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:& Y" I+ C2 i) O4 X5 L
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:+ G H; G; a, Z7 h F* @
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:9 \+ C. w1 L; r
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:% b8 K( o1 S' H* K5 {
我喺ef都唔算好耐~3 T" J& z# i* f5 H7 A0 M
發言唔算好多~* z7 I8 I6 f5 q+ B5 t
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:- n: I- F: s1 {3 G* `& d6 ?% p
我喺ef都唔算好耐~! A. u9 ] [' r" P: [/ J- @9 N: B
發言唔算好多~! b8 S# a' ^4 X" W. D
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:( G& J( P2 u5 M0 n: m4 p* S$ E7 q
好同意。。 r: H3 S/ {( v; g3 F. L
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:' ~; E; V/ ~8 C3 J1 h
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自己醒d未得 law
Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼' M3 q" m7 l+ c
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這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。8 l D- B9 f- O( _* e5 ^0 t
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,, j. f& R$ G7 {& D% \! Y" ^! z* w
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:7 u2 d) _$ h1 N$ n" y
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,9 O# z ]4 O w2 ?
合久必分 我就有一大籮6 v% u4 g2 g1 o- v
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,) s# [2 t( p) h. n+ d
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:1 P& W3 T5 t9 P7 | f# W% i
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:: u* ~% t, c7 q/ H
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很認同
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