
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:8 }8 s, T6 u/ M; k& m$ y
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:( k$ `6 @( D7 c2 @8 o
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.1 _# ^( ~* D% [) Y/ g
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:& {4 e% X3 h) G1 `* U. A; h9 u
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!) Z) V5 x* @* n1 `' {! [
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:' w6 _& J' a- a; t
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:/ N' h8 g7 k& @4 I. Y
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.! f& {( Q; {8 e( O1 }9 `+ u
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:3 [7 d( M, m% m: w$ B9 J
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友 f0 z. e0 A; [. P* r* Y2 C
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明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:# k6 b4 ?( x9 y0 ~2 a
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,2 |& k9 }- U+ h& E1 g, _4 S6 m
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:# J3 X9 H8 O! ^# M% j' h
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:" q4 t2 I7 w6 b+ A
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??9 |0 O) ^* d0 ?3 Y% K5 q* {; \" {
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:% @7 r, v2 I. \5 X+ B
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:2 P! n" |7 j3 C
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方3 Q4 i6 ]9 e0 b# I- ~3 a
因為26FUN內 d 網友 8 ]& _* [' T8 D! o: ]* S, Q
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
交流比較深入/ h4 L g4 p) S
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:! s" v+ s% V+ w: w# H
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:7 A- X$ p+ M) B
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,7 H0 y0 U# p$ W
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!+ c. Q5 L* h/ s
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加分!個個都加分! k( n6 }" \% Q) O! y" d% T
唔理版主定會員都加分!1 o: u' E: O. E& k% r2 l
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:2 t" x" U* P4 W5 I
講真啦6 l& }$ C! K" e( U
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^. I4 J8 t) g, [/ _/ ?* J
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)/ T4 v' B) e2 W4 q8 }* Q
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!! Z3 b6 u8 L% [0 w# _* F0 f& E
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!9 L5 N1 r# x. p5 ?2 S- U7 ~
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:1 v; {/ ?: l/ A
講真句!友情?唔會有! b _- F8 ]! y& n% o1 s
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!9 Z+ e/ Z7 ^2 i$ Y+ n0 N5 u
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算:: I! i- l8 ~6 ^) }; s! i, v
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:8 d5 I1 V ]* J& Z5 U' P7 R3 r/ s
認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。 Y6 N0 ?6 @% V
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。 v; V: d! P2 n& S. n& o" ?
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:9 l5 [4 T7 Q1 w
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?1 p% e1 w2 h y$ t
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:, \$ b" b' E5 Y2 d7 u h
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:! ]. y, G' Q, g" j) A
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~. B0 r* X' \; C/ z" Y
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~" ~$ [* }* }9 }* e1 W! B, W
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:- a5 I2 m e( \) V# A9 }
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!& Q& c6 A7 @+ F5 f. ^
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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9 l5 M9 p. j6 W: X& lOriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:4 L9 f2 U, L, A$ I
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM: k! }& G% r: x1 L
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:% s8 Z0 i; W, F/ y0 ^/ c
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:' A( N- Q: l+ K: V! L
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~) V5 d6 b4 r( a$ ~6 A) `. X
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:: M. d2 |' ?1 g/ f
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:% x( F6 y- m& o# K- d$ G V
好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。; Q& h0 z4 h& h; }' Y
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:; N8 v5 D! N, f& c& O6 ]
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜! Q+ Z. A1 c' {1 k
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:' R- _$ b: Y- f9 G
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。/ Q; z- z: ~; I! ~ C
合久必分,分久必合。4 M" X, Z+ d( l, A
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。. E# w5 s$ b9 g& G4 B* w
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:9 A. b1 M2 F- f
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,1 O+ l; y) a8 B+ w7 ~' y- D6 k; L: K! n' l
不過...

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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你就比我Lucky啦," o1 b2 K# C" p. I/ p- w7 u
合久必分 我就有一大籮/ z$ z' X3 J6 J5 y* p
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:8 W, k- O. q+ \
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:6 G7 |! n+ p& e! b$ r' y
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:) V% i# t& c; C0 D
很認同
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