
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.0 H7 p9 u: y) N! @3 H- j0 q2 E- o! c
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!7 n, m# {( ^) N1 t
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:1 y$ T8 B! S h+ |7 ?
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:7 W% m9 b( K# e$ M! @3 g
我成日都有呢種感覺:: W6 K* l" j- E5 \7 @3 Y
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:7 L" @0 P* a% ^
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.# ^- E: R* ~5 U* K+ I( X A3 C( w
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:. T! [/ n' K# E) }6 c- e. B4 t
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友; d) f( `$ h3 ?3 W6 @5 b
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:0 l. N: z" q& j2 d( {' r" e
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,! e1 S9 S4 {' k1 X
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:; c9 J, I3 F. m1 `) r& W4 ^
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??( C0 m3 E. U' n. G; @5 r
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........8 k; @4 X9 E( P" O- f2 W- e
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:( Z. f; E. M2 [' X7 Q5 q) {
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:( f2 \2 A. Y) X5 R+ V% z- u
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。+ c* b+ M( o3 d' i+ u1 e
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:) n. v+ D3 Y0 X8 e
呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法" U8 V5 n4 X. J1 T0 V
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,: Z# i/ |9 u p/ A$ F+ A' Z
比較成熟,5 _5 s* e' _' c6 r
交流比較深入5 Z) \! R4 t6 y
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:. H6 W9 C& a ~; n" U
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦, u% I, n" l$ X+ {
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!7 S' s, m% e0 o; a" P
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!' Z2 @7 n8 V( }6 `* |+ G9 j9 z
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!6 Q1 ^9 \5 N; h; b( |
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?# `: i( ~! I1 f: x
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:3 ~4 Y, p) o1 m( c1 Y M$ [
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟! |4 V p# E) v {. I
又少講野="=2 R7 x" X& G6 |# o5 f% R) V; a
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:9 `5 f5 y2 h+ n' i/ ~' y1 H
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以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:$ m8 {9 ]% J/ z! k
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!8 u) H/ K- Y9 v: T; c+ a; j
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:& V0 C' l8 X0 s8 A( k
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!) v6 ^( y; V# M/ z% G( L
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!5 g8 ] n* g1 L4 o: X {* t% u
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
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以經濟學黎計算:0 M o/ s! n. O/ J+ L
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
認識朋友的意義各有不同。' U% r# F9 S3 a& l. Z
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。7 t# Y8 c {" L" w+ O! ^
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。+ q2 A& s n- Y
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?/ I9 Z. k1 V E9 C6 l i/ w" ?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM: l: ~' V+ W& \. t2 Q
駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:7 |7 N8 r( t) c, |' |
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~+ _# k4 n" E, H; E# G+ p1 {
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~$ a# z E, V: @6 Y6 D3 ]) d
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!6 u$ Z2 \' E5 }# W( }
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:+ J6 g! Z7 i; H( J3 i, J/ H- j
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:) T" D. o+ \% k' o# i, R1 O
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~8 ^: [% w( U) c: q# r
發言唔算好多~* r: V, Z. f/ w! F
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~6 E( Z. O ^ }2 C$ U; L
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:5 f- y* b8 ^' X% Z8 o
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好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。# w7 N! b+ g% y9 _1 _8 \. M
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” & d4 [2 x3 Q9 s7 r0 B8 K6 {
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:/ R6 y( r5 `, J
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自己醒d未得 law


# F' j0 i5 K5 X9 oOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:2 X {' `1 y5 M+ v7 ]# k
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜% }. O7 Q7 a4 ?+ h
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:4 }0 F4 _! q% f
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。/ |6 N* f: L1 k2 ~
合久必分,分久必合。9 q1 A: i, N. D8 L
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。9 B; o2 L" @3 D" f& {9 L* g
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:) v% D1 t# O7 P/ P
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
+ v( a: M; j( L# X! _Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,0 J/ J9 L/ ?" S) z. V
合久必分 我就有一大籮4 A9 Z( W, v- ^' f/ [# [
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:* B/ t* [1 k1 r8 T$ `5 d& @
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
很認同
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