
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:, y$ P8 M7 [5 W% b
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題. T, x2 s8 `5 m
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!9 O, v- z8 h" C+ r
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:& X0 `/ f4 @* }- B/ Z+ V
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Quoted from Playbr2
[ Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:. Q' D: P( w$ S. Q- \( n! S8 n
我成日都有呢種感覺:6 H& x7 I$ o' M: W
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.9 T g3 A% {# n7 u! A$ `% M
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:3 w2 g. s/ z" s) }
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友- \5 D1 {. Y/ J: ?) w
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:- j9 F2 m" N- F- m
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友# A7 D# w" |. Y- x$ }6 E5 w/ U! X: l
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,! J! B) X) q5 G8 } D+ }& E
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:+ T" A4 j2 A# @) T
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:' y' d) L: j8 H& T0 I( r* n
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??2 X0 U* s0 d1 ?/ z0 ^
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:" {- \( C5 H t( Q
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。# C3 h6 S! [- q# L6 _
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法/ e w u) U/ X3 c0 j" y& ?
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方! o" P4 @/ F# U; j
因為26FUN內 d 網友 $ V7 y& Y, f' p- k9 q
雙對黎講,% f5 ^0 L5 z% f
比較成熟,
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:" q# S( x _! x
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:. R+ {, `: @) r& T5 p. _0 E
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:' ?8 }' ]/ f7 {. ^. R, ]1 Y' P! C$ ?6 F
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!9 p- P( [( v$ F! h/ \& F' f7 t
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?/ r; q, }+ p* P. F# a! }0 M
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:) f0 O; H) } b" R! T
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟+ O. @( A6 m- d5 @
又少講野="=, k/ g; j6 b8 m2 z7 g- |8 E/ \
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:: @8 a' t: _# _( U
(小弟的愚見): ]4 e. f2 V9 J. Q H5 X% a
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:4 R6 O+ P3 D( u+ d% V H
講真句!友情?唔會有!; m4 |. L4 E$ F, V% m! V4 c. b
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!2 w% x, F* h- H3 q
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!0 K+ ~" s) a2 ]7 \ \. n
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!2 g3 W( W# v/ H; e
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!5 j, c1 f/ H5 a7 p# K4 _/ f) n Z
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:$ X" w$ @- z: Z; a( H
以經濟學黎計算:$ u6 V4 t# J: `$ Y% j
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:' _# y( I5 U7 _$ W3 x
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?- n/ l e( h' j, P0 q0 u$ X8 W
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:- ?0 l$ M6 j+ Y t, z# ^1 B
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:" w! P: ^ k& Y/ i% C N2 p
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。8 y4 g8 q3 |: W3 h& x
[ Last edited by vv1668vv on 2006-10-21 at 01:13 AM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:# r* p+ R6 q- z; i3 h
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下m% U# |9 v7 ]# n9 c
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:; |- b' ~- d- y" r. E8 `2 z
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~7 X5 j/ Z) L o% D4 j
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!7 R; i) V. C- V4 z
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:% t9 z5 Z( k7 ]* B% O1 W2 P3 q
TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:! x$ D$ N w0 ~7 a
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:) h5 E4 C4 F4 Y% }
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~: [" s0 K2 b1 m) ?
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
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好同意。。+ {/ O Q; t! Y6 v
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 0 K( y- P( d o+ E: @9 c
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:5 N# J$ ?) e3 ]- x8 h$ [# J
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼9 {! ?1 ~3 J- Z' R6 j. I
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜. Y$ [ x/ C. n. q# U
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:. T! F& }3 f! O
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。& V" o$ G* d- ~" @
合久必分,分久必合。
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,2 B2 ~ |& n6 u5 ?5 g: r
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
) c% U6 r) q+ {0 y( K* gOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮& x4 C/ l% k; I; X; O% W* c2 |3 r
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋' U& _: c& w& R1 V: G W
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:2 }8 ^5 Z6 L) L6 E' f
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很認同
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