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作者: ian2910 時間: 2007-2-22 11:45 PM 標題: 既然無意,何以佢會咁樣望我呢??

琴日係放完假之後第一日返工,本來都一切正常,我亦都唔打算再諗其他野.......

但係見到小師妹一知道有d乜野,係同我上司有關ge,就好熱心咁去做!本來我覺得佢可能係拒絕左我上司之後,唔想太過hurt我上司,所以先唔會咁快改變態度,而且既然我決定同師妹做好朋友,我亦都係無再多心去諗,於是我就都無理會到佢地之間如何如何............

之但係放lunch個陣,我地去左酒樓食開年飯,我就坐一個位,我上司同我小師妹就一齊坐左係我對面,食食下野個陣,我掛住同隔離位個同事吹水,無意間見到小師妹用一種好奇怪ge眼神注視緊我,當我同佢四目交投個陣,佢就即刻望返去第二度!而我亦都好識趣咁扮無留意到繼續食野...........

但係我心裡面好奇怪,唔知點解佢會咁樣望我ge呢?個種眼神就好似係度觀察緊我表情咁樣,好似好想係我身上睇出d乜野咁,我真係唔知點解會咁......

希望有人解答到我.....

重有呢幾日我心情都好低落,有時d野都做錯晒,須然我同小師妹講係我自己屋企有事先會咁,但係我都唔知道係咪因為咁令到佢有所懷疑呢?

真係唔知佢點諗............

作者: kalos 時間: 2007-2-23 12:03 AM

Aiya.... how come you'll like this ga... you're telling us that you're not give up yet wor~ Ok, I know it's hard ga la. Take your time la~

As I think, in this case, I think that she treat you as her best best fd already la, if she's really use the caring sight to look at you at that time, I think she's worrying about that you'll misunderstood that she has feeling or has something with your Head lor~ She doesn't want you to misunderstand her ar~ ( this is only if they didn't have anything happened in the holiday)
Otherwise... you know ga la~

Try to take time to talk with her n get some detail n info la, but remember be clam ar~ Otherwise, if you're too caring, she'll know that you like her ga, than she may hide from you, than that will comes to worst ga la~

Looking forward to your update la~

Take care~

作者: specificness 時間: 2007-2-23 12:08 AM

still remember once i said 「你既無心我便休」? (sorry in this computer i can't type chinese)

i know it is very very difficult, but if you really have make your decision already, you should force yourself stop thinking about anything about it, until something is crystal clear (either she clearly states that she does have feeling on you, or when you finally get cured). this is because any of your "response" to these will drag you back to the original painful situation, which go nowhere, as you already clearly identified. i know and fully understand that it hurts, and it is difficult to do so, but doing that is doing your own good. concentrate on your work, try to find some other objectives --> e.g. achieve a high target sales, which will occupy all your time.

this is the way to do, in principle -- i have to say. i hope you can do it and don't fall back to my awful situation in the past.

i can't clearly expressing myself using english perhaps. one 眼神 could mean a lot, but at the same time it could mean nothing (i know i am cruel to say that)! it could mean that there is something / some hopes going on, but again it could be our illusion due to our sub-conscious wish to have something happen.... ask yourself (i also keep asking myself): can i be sure? should i jump back to the vicious cycle because just this uncertain observation?

best wishes.

作者: specificness 時間: 2007-2-23 01:02 AM

Originally posted by kalos at 2007-2-23 12:03 AM:
As I think, in this case, I think that she treat you as her best best fd already la, if she's really use the caring sight to look at you at that time, I think she's worrying about that you'll misunderstood that she has feeling or has something with your Head lor~ She doesn't want you to misunderstand her ar~ ( this is only if they didn't have anything happened in the holiday)
Otherwise... you know ga la~

Yes. try to think in more "normal" way; it is also possible that the caring sight you received is due to the fact that you told her having some family issues.

Try to take time to talk with her n get some detail n info la, but remember be clam ar~ Otherwise, if you're too caring, she'll know that you like her ga, than she may hide from you, than that will comes to worst ga la~[/quote]

agree. talk to her but try not to expect anything. casual talk.... hopefully it will get better as time goes by.

作者: buengland 時間: 2007-2-23 02:54 PM

我估

睇下你會吾會"客"醋, 但佢對你既感情又未至於同佢男友分手而同你一齊果隻

不過啲女仔都時不時會係咁

因為你係同佢close 既人, 你知啦, 男女既野, 邊有咁多101% 純友情

佢都想睇下佢係你心目中重吾重要

不過吾好太在意呢啲小動作啦....... 女仔既野, 可能呢一刻佢對你有小小感覺, 下一刻唸唸下又吾係咁唸都未定

你知道你係佢心中都係重要咪得law, 當係一個bonus啦, keep 住close pal 既關係

將來既野, 真係話吾定

作者: lywv5 時間: 2007-2-24 12:14 AM

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