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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* i5 k1 J' z6 ~1 M: c1 r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
覺得好空虛

其實早幾次都有試過係咁
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 r+ |& N1 O* o+ a
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 I/ W- m7 v: r! A5 t" V
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

日日有車站,

有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 U$ L; y. r$ Q3 B1 Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 L5 G, x2 i& K, ^/ M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- |+ I* m" c( j# c4 f2 X. J: E; Y; p
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% K j! ~! m4 M1 @! x, }
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) n) S8 Z3 S/ V7 D; y! _
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! {6 J+ W+ Y4 u$ R' E& N* q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
{$ W* F, u5 h L% g) t+ C所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* ?( _. G; B& R% G, @. X+ |& y
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* C% e8 l8 ]) b1 ]/ C( [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& k) d8 m& C) s- }0 h% p好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 ]# T! ?. k+ ?/ I1 a2 y% B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 k- b) L. q# a6 q: I7 `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 n/ U- Q! j# F/ j8 v- _9 Y覺得好空虛
7 j' i7 D4 h. T/ G$ C# z其實早幾次都有試過係咁! \7 @5 D& G4 z" u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 c4 B% E3 n% a: F: L8 H用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( ?: m6 b" D4 \) w+ C) u. i7 C

這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.- Q: R6 P- _5 M6 x

People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. g& L% M* q3 k% Z$ E: E0 n
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 n3 L& [9 ?7 f E" j6 P, C
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 b# [9 I+ e% \0 h: H7 S- n% N
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Just another thought on lonliness:9 Y% c1 o0 Q% [" E# v/ A& `
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time.....
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～/ h/ q2 ~ V9 v3 \
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 i# |; O1 \/ I# h0 J) j) \
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影$ g' q% y% `6 v0 |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～9 L5 W5 a( C2 u
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 l- i! W8 p9 ]+ H4 x1 x) J6 j7 u
很少會超過一天～
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:) H1 _& N7 I3 `! P8 |3 a$ |( \8 B V

. ?9 @% }* m9 h) I9 y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

其實我有諗過一個問題
如果我唔覺得空虛# i/ }! X1 C6 u# `' ?
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心2 _ h1 b0 H! i$ f; a3 y
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正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:3 }$ c1 [' v! {9 h5 V/ I6 f( O/ E
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! J c- b; v# h Z* D這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...

可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢* d. T2 H8 ~8 P2 p9 m4 ` w
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係3 E5 J& G7 Y Q
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

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同埋可能你都講中左d/ v, d% G, J4 F) Z) [5 c
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧1 m0 p! F, r4 O
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到4 K- J- a: s2 u! ~
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:3 l1 x4 D) U" H
Solitude is part of life....we long...

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that's the reality...
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:' O) d5 y. d; n& v
Actually........u feel lonely is it...

i know..i know my fds won't leave me
but i juz can't control my feeling
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

but i hv some questions..
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢" X% v T* }- m' S
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲5 a0 e- g: D- C8 P* e
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野$ S8 l" X' [# ~) t" N; p
呢度有冇星座高手?

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