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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 k0 }% q. X! E7 Q4 V
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 [! s6 p+ G5 b: H3 b u
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 v X7 x+ Y$ ^3 V i' }
覺得好空虛

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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 f5 b5 _5 X9 |6 M' G+ l
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

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日日有車站,

有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 O. _$ @' p/ I9 W- D) e: |& Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" b. m/ i0 j( P# h: X$ S+ }1 C
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.1 z. \2 j0 f! v1 ~- w( F0 t
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 K$ e% l5 J( r2 d* _4 L7 n
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 g6 Z3 ?& p3 H) A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 D2 q+ a6 D5 g& u# H% V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( q9 i. l: E" p7 z
日日有車站,% c: g% R6 A* V( |! l
有目標!

what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ |0 w* p% F5 I* K  t3 B! u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: z' K  U2 ]! g' S/ \: y6 e6 b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ N/ Y3 z2 l2 l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ F/ A  F" R! [1 b: ?2 W5 G2 Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 i6 x1 o1 l" |6 ?- V# l2 G覺得好空虛
8 u9 _$ @1 {5 Q6 v3 l) B; f" z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
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用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 c& \4 q2 b/ y& s

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ M1 ?& ^- i7 ~( C" l
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 T( ~* }* @4 V! A6 D
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long" _7 z D7 R2 f( ~
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.' C6 ~' u% o* e' n( d# ~3 Z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 H0 P/ Q) O6 y; ]% c$ A

Just another thought on lonliness:
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time.....* q: R1 a( E" z% t4 D: U
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: L/ Y$ ?$ }$ Q% \+ W. B# m. ^
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ r% S p/ v8 _# x) E& I
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
很少會超過一天～
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:" W# c- D% p% {+ m6 l4 o* |; _
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

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其實我有諗過一個問題
如果我唔覺得空虛
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心

正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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" D/ v+ s8 C/ J2 v f* C" ]這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...

可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢2 g" m5 l* P$ d3 O$ H! V u
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年8 S3 |1 B/ S$ g, i7 [: c1 _5 s" n1 o
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎1 P( p) u+ J. H8 l3 Y
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突7 I) O1 s- ]3 v" p% x: V( V, b
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒* W* z- {$ r/ k2 b
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

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同埋可能你都講中左d, N$ `; X. m: D8 P( o
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到9 g! p0 \1 Z7 W: r
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:+ R$ o Y! M2 y* t" N
Solitude is part of life....we long...

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that's the reality...
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
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maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

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but i hv some questions..3 f/ h7 W' k# G& @
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
呢度有冇星座高手?

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