希望大家對老人家多d體諒......大家後生仔,行得走得身體好,你地可以明白老人家被體弱所纏、被家人忽略的心情嗎? 大家身體唔舒服時心情都唔好啦......8 Y \9 B+ @: K0 Z- _1 \
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佢地點解下下要同你地爭,你地有冇諗過係點解??# M b b' w5 H3 s$ @; j
' W4 q% [( [2 ?' O香港人對老人家實在麻麻地,唔多容忍,唔多包容......係個咁現實既社會,佢地唔爭,有人替他們著想嗎? , \1 X9 I7 @1 x+ _ 4 a9 j, l. J& M. K不過,補充一句,有d老人家真係好麻煩下,橫蠻無道理。呢d係本性問題,唔係在乎佢係咪老人家既身份。所以我希望大家唔好因為呢d唔好既老人家,就連其他老人家都覺得係麻煩。$ G0 v6 N9 j5 F; e
2 n9 W7 R2 w9 ~" B d) b- Y. z[ Last edited by gundamman678 on 2005-7-9 at 11:46 PM ]作者: RahXephon 時間: 2005-7-10 12:41 PM
細個時住公共屋邨曾遇到個,隨地抛垃圾同吐痰,衰到貼地。 & g) a. b/ N. J" {0 u有一次仲離譜,吐痰吐左喺我身上(嗰陣時我較細粒), 7 z+ X) ]$ f# P y對唔住都冇句就走左,等我留下童年陰影....5 [8 n( J# ^9 w6 |$ B
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其次是而家每日都會遇到,我喺九龍塘返工,每日都會搭地鉄,! H# W" O$ ^0 Q8 i
嗰啲阿公阿婆,推住架大的手推車仔,喺月台上大堂時又唔肯搭lift,- H2 q1 e' U" y3 q
又唔理前面有幾多人,夾硬推上自動電梯。 冇錯你係長者, 4 W/ k5 L3 U8 Z1 D0 t( V% }人地應該尊重你,但係唔代表你地可以唔守規矩,5 e. T, |; y W$ ^4 D
推手推車上自動電梯係好危險ga,跌落嚟會整親人ga! 作者: gaye 時間: 2005-7-10 10:12 PM
有次搭火車 , 有一個阿媽帶住一個小朋友上車,: _7 }# d0 Z' R
大約 3 歲到, 一上車, 2 個人就搵個位坐啦, " G% j# i: v. n個小朋友座係一個阿婆隔離,個阿媽就座最左埋邊,3 S8 \+ D# m5 i, s! \
即係依次序 : 阿媽 , 小朋友 , 阿婆 , 路人甲 ; h) N/ ?1 m. \個小朋友又係百厭少少 , 好似身痕咁, 成日郁來郁去, 1 A# U2 Y! X% n9 I咁佢一下唔覺意就 "hi" 到個阿婆少少, 個阿婆就勁罵佢, & E+ d/ w& [9 D: b0 q/ x5 ~個阿媽就係當然係咁 say sorry 道歉, 又罵佢個仔, 6 K3 \+ F2 P: m但個阿婆好似幾燥, 係咁罵個小朋友唔停 , 又話冇家教, 百厭, 整污遭佢件衫等等...." ]: y. U) B. A% G
最後個阿媽就的起個小朋友, 唔坐, 企起身去左第二卡 7 x+ h* E& v5 Q8 i, O, x I心想 : 其實只係整污遭左個阿婆件衫少少者, 小朋友當然係百厭少少啦,/ A- Z @7 A* |- J, ~3 T) x
係人細個個時都係咁, 何必發咁大脾氣呢, ; d- X( p+ E9 [4 m6 ^8 B況且人地阿媽都同你道哂歉...作者: car021345 時間: 2005-7-11 02:25 PM
Sorry if I don't understand the question properly but I used a translator to translate the question from chinese to English....hehe* f* U8 u5 Q+ w7 M
* F& y: g0 Y8 M/ a' s zI don't think our 'politeness' and 'sincerity' to elders should only be voluntary. Life is that we should treat people the way we want to be treated ourselves. ; h5 I7 X9 s4 c3 C8 W. a2 h 7 o8 Y5 y+ N, u. R F3 DI agree that some elder abuse their 'privleges' but I think for the most part they are very nice and deserve the respect. We all will grow old soon or later and I'm sure we would want that 'favour' return by our young generation. ! D2 Y% j& G0 d8 e2 B ! ~$ ?6 e" U0 C& U! ]+ Q/ \If I encoutered a situation where an elder is not being polite to me.... I would just brush it off and move on. No pointing aruging with someone that will probably not changed., F* \8 a# r. c1 Z+ O
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Ninka作者: stone86 時間: 2005-7-12 11:22 AM