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作者: ThomasKoon 時間: 2005-12-29 12:36 AM 標題: 極度無奈........

今日我女朋友去咗公司sogo分店幫手﹐咁佢晏晝話我知﹐佢今日因為放工要喺公司執場﹐所以要夜啲收工(佢之前已經試過係咁﹐嗰次就1點幾至收工)﹐咁佢之後就講﹐想我去接佢收工﹐我就諗聽日要返早﹐所以就拒絕咗﹐而且我覺得佢唔係好幫我諗囉﹐都唔知佢幾點至走﹐咁我聽朝要6點半起身﹐萬一佢真係好夜﹐咁我咪冇得瞓......佢啱啱收工打俾我﹐問我喺邊﹐我答佢喺屋企﹐佢就好惡咁鬧我﹐話我都唔緊張佢﹐唔擔心佢﹐我覺得好無奈囉.......

問下大家﹐如果你哋係我﹐你會點？咁多位女士﹐你哋喺呢個情況下﹐又會唔會咁惡鬧個男朋友？

作者: 迷途小羔羊 時間: 2005-12-29 12:38 AM

兄弟你真係唔好彩，有個咁既女朋友
為你而悲哀
為自己而好彩

作者: ThomasKoon 時間: 2005-12-29 12:40 AM

Originally posted by 迷途小羔羊 at 2005-12-29 12:38 AM:
兄弟你真係唔好彩，有個咁既女朋友
為你而悲哀
為自己而好彩

成件事我唯一覺得自己有錯o既﹐就係喺佢話想我接佢o既時候﹐講咗句︰我都唔知等到你幾點

作者: wmwm 時間: 2005-12-29 12:45 AM

你0個句, "我都唔知等到你幾點" 又真係唔岩，但都無你女朋友咁自私，唔諗下你要返工同咁ｌａｔｅ你一個人係咁等佢。

作者: 迷途小羔羊 時間: 2005-12-29 12:53 AM

Originally posted by ThomasKoon at 2005-12-29 12:40 AM:

成件事我唯一覺得自己有錯o既﹐就係喺佢話想我接佢o既時候﹐講咗句︰我都唔知等到你幾點

傻啦，大家都係男人，心底裡點會唔知你真係無無辜辜得罪佢丫
你問佢：我都唔知等到你幾點，其實係好正常（不過唔知你語氣）
不過你哄翻佢果陣，認下自己有不足都好正常既

作者: ThomasKoon 時間: 2005-12-29 12:59 AM

Originally posted by 迷途小羔羊 at 2005-12-29 12:53 AM:

傻啦，大家都係男人，心底裡點會唔...

我都唔知點哄佢﹐我平時激嬲佢﹐佢都係唔聽我電話﹐我係咁打俾佢﹐佢就話我好煩﹐我唔打俾佢﹐佢就話我唔哄佢﹐真係打又死唔打又死.........

作者: 迷途小羔羊 時間: 2005-12-29 01:01 AM

Originally posted by ThomasKoon at 2005-12-29 12:59 AM:

我都唔知點哄佢﹐我平時激嬲佢﹐佢都係唔聽我電話﹐我係咁打俾佢﹐佢就話我好煩﹐我唔打俾佢﹐佢就話我唔哄佢﹐真係打又死唔打又死.........

我口衰少少講句，你女朋友都幾極品
咁你留電話錄音俾佢得唔得？
佢平日會唔會嬲完識搵翻你？

作者: ThomasKoon 時間: 2005-12-29 01:04 AM

Originally posted by 迷途小羔羊 at 2005-12-29 01:01 AM:

我口衰少少講句，你女朋友都幾極品
咁你留電話錄音俾佢得唔得？
佢平日會唔會嬲完識搵翻你？

佢好少聽留言架
基本上都係我打俾佢

作者: 迷途小羔羊 時間: 2005-12-29 01:15 AM

Originally posted by ThomasKoon at 2005-12-29 01:04 AM:

佢好少聽留言架
基本上都係我打俾佢

嘩，其實唔太知你地既溝通方法，不過都可以講下既，唔知你用唔用得著喇。
咁你可以試下明知佢唔會聽都照打過去，佢表面話煩一定架喇，但佢心中其實都想你關心佢打俾佢既，佢見你都有誠意點都會心軟，佢唔接你電話或話你煩就當係罰下你；
另外你都可以試下主動去佢放工度接佢啦，就算佢最後唔同你一齊走，都可以做下傻仔既，俾佢知其實你果晚係有原因先接唔到佢，當你有時間時其實都願意接佢既。
當然，可以送d野俾佢表示悔意既。
不過我諗你又唔係第一次整嬲佢，你總有辦法搞翻掂佢既！祝成功啦^^

作者: ThomasKoon 時間: 2005-12-29 01:21 AM

Originally posted by 迷途小羔羊 at 2005-12-29 01:15 AM:

嘩，其實唔太知你地既溝通方法，不...

首先好多謝你提供o既意見﹗
我平時激嬲佢﹐都一定有多次咁打俾佢架﹐至於你話接佢收工﹐其實佢提出嗰陣﹐我多數都會去﹐只係佢間中返sogo﹐實在太遠喇﹐車錢又貴﹐而家o既我實在係窮到爆﹐我唔想再用一啲好無謂o既錢﹐所以我至唔會去。

作者: launcher 時間: 2005-12-29 02:17 AM

Originally posted by ThomasKoon at 2005-12-29 01:21 AM:

首先好多謝你提供o既意見﹗
...

我冇經驗, 但係都知呢D咁GEI情況冇$$$$真係好大獲...........
如果真係緊張呢段情, 點都要做返D野,
同埋唸下點樣先可以避免再有D咁GEI情況發生^^"

作者: edwinycl 時間: 2005-12-29 09:35 AM

我又覺得如果真係有心既....訓少幾粒鐘都冇乜所謂啦

作者: cwleung1988 時間: 2005-12-29 09:41 AM

女仔係甘嫁啦....加上如果佢太晚一個人返屋企..
你都唔係甘放心啦...基本上...你依家多d打比佢...
去接下佢放工...做返d可以令佢覺得你對佢仲係好關心既野...

作者: hung414 時間: 2005-12-29 09:55 AM

next time...if the same situation..
I suggest U sleep first till approx..12:00 (at least u hv slept a few hours sin)
then U drive the car to pick her up law...(win-win situation)

作者: Hkwan 時間: 2005-12-29 12:33 PM

i think if u use her point of view to overview the whole situation
she must think u wanna sleep instead of picking her up
she want to see u after the stressful job
one girl 1 am go back home alone is kinda lonely and bad ge gum

i have had experienced your situation similarly b4
i talked to my gf afterwards
then she told me
wht she want
is just a bit of love showing

i think there's no a right or wrong ans in this situation
it's always hard ga
i think if things keep on happening
u should talk to her about it more
find a method to compromise

i can give u some advice
if you want to have a better relationship wif her
talk to her more
but u first few times u must needa show that u came and which cause u sleep less
but dont tell her directly that u feel bad
let her feel it and she should give u some break
tell her wht u want and ask wht she want
if she know u feel tired b/c to pick her up but she doesnt do anything
she's reli too bad

hope this may help u

作者: tomken 時間: 2005-12-29 08:44 PM

我個人經驗~~
呢d咁既女仔你越就佢就越離譜..你唔理佢就得架啦~

作者: 極樂 時間: 2005-12-29 09:52 PM

我覺得下次你講野果陣可以"以退為進"囉~~
我唔了解你女朋友啦~~
不過有時女仔唔係真係要男仔有"動作"~~只係想聽下甜言蜜語....
如果下次又有類似既情況, 你可以講:
雖然今日真係累死, 但係為左你....我都會等你既...你太概幾點收丫?!

如果個女仔唔係咁狠心既話, 應該會唔使你等, 叫你快d返屋企休息 :p
如果佢真係要你等....咁你唯有等啦....哈哈!

不過女仔真係唔可以太縱既! 我係女仔都係咁話 ^^
我都俾我男朋友緃壞左~~ccccccccccccc

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