|
 
- 帖子
- 1232
- 精華
- 2
- 威望
- 69
- 魅力
- 22
- 讚好
- 0
- 性別
- 男
|
1#
發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
| 顯示全部帖子
in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way, ^* Z f' F+ g! C/ o- U L
consider in the following (not in order):
) B7 `# b* h" ^: F5 p* R0 h& D1 J( n: l8 s: r
1st, how close the relationship we are?( b, l' Z! V/ q' Q& c
2nd, how serious he/she has done?: O" O* ^; Q0 L( J( Z8 T9 C% ]% V$ X
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?! I) t1 X$ Q# k8 ~
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
3 h& `6 R' \& i8 X }* l# w) p9 w9 m# J+ p
for me:
, z6 L1 {. Y% c" mi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
; a% \9 z: c7 n! Qbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)) e, Y+ y- E7 `" d+ p) b# a
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
?; n7 g5 B6 U& |
. J! I% s, E* g; bbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
|