Gretzky

放手吧啦, 施主！！ (just joking!)

It seems to me the gal is 'enjoying' her current status with you, and who wouldn't? You've shown your interest by gifts and effort. Your bottom line is clear. Meanwhile she's got options now. She could 'enjoy' the comfort of your love and presence without making the commitments. While there's nothing intrinsically wrong with that attitude, she does have the option to cut you off when the situation get cloudy.

All that '6 tutoring jobs' and 'haven't got over the last guy' reasons may seem logical and jusified, but they are just landmines on the surface. Maybe you want to find out the real reason of her non-commitment behind the surface. That is more important to the overall and long term picture.

Whatever decisions you make...you gonna be ready to pay the price....and don't come back and mourn what you could've done in the future. The choice is yours, and you will take responsibility for the gamble (or calculated risk...but still a risk).

Good luck.