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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way  o+ S! N% _8 }2 j' u0 l; M8 b
consider in the following (not in order):
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! g2 {6 t, g6 {' g5 l: G1st, how close the relationship we are?' {6 `8 B% X/ i3 p. y+ M! ?
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
, o4 r1 x& a) p3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?: E5 @! C) v! b* H  `
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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6 E6 W* c9 E( Lfor me:
7 h0 Z# U4 p, x* k: ?i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
7 p  B$ R" j( \$ U, R3 qbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
; n' m' V8 F* n' F; X0 L0 Ubut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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# D! K. F1 i" @1 R2 i# m/ h" Sbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
+ j. @# c9 m8 K; q+ M! a5 G第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
9 E9 Q4 W4 q8 a. R人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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