熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% O8 ~" \% v, ^: B4 B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, B/ k0 S- d# E8 X4 H* R, }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: X' x" A! I, M7 x- I  U+ u
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) F$ t9 C4 L. I% b5 u
覺得好空虛. [, `7 ]& m1 `( o& B! B
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ {% s: D7 e) G9 L+ n' V3 z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' Z% X/ {! {4 o( Y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% e4 j% a4 G- |# [
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺# Z2 n  a+ T$ \+ c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& ]. j, J7 y& x% S* Z! D
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 w* R6 E3 m" W. E日日有車站,5 h9 Y0 a+ o4 S+ t5 H# i! A
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 o7 d* K2 Y- x: W  A" R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- _: {7 ^+ Y6 j% q3 I! H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 E# B9 G0 J* m  G  K  x我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 U6 I; a3 G. g5 s感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ A( g" b/ ^! U# w  S0 \, u玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 D+ P. j1 |2 q* H2 ^& E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) s4 {5 Z, \4 q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 B! ?& n; ~! z$ s4 s( l4 h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ w) V$ I3 i' O- H3 o' Y! y- t
日日有車站,
5 k9 j! t! D* s9 \  ^* y有目標!

' y+ b) V. f+ J& Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# s# u  J" \  J如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 u( R6 o* o- J! E$ `2 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. D% Y1 c1 r" E* p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 g7 R" |! B! u% |+ d個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( }. R6 r, }% Z9 S3 y覺得好空虛
: v2 n1 x- C5 }/ Z& M/ q  U其實早幾次都有試過係咁; Y  V4 I7 v2 T% k8 f1 W
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. P0 i. s6 ]: f, _3 d$ _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 @( o  n  Y  l4 W這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.. }. Y/ v  p1 }9 X$ t4 P& s4 S
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: [, U* b$ ?  R2 D) N5 s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.  o- n' U/ x( e

; L9 i: t5 B# r; W+ C4 hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 G; S( [/ P, f! R" }$ n. I( Na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- e1 n8 o: N- D/ J1 \& Vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! b0 m' P3 b7 H
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) Q0 ]0 M" u6 s  D/ b( R3 C

( {" E: a$ W, t5 m: rJust another thought on lonliness:
. L, h( X+ a! V( i% }' C/ oLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ ^! b7 F2 k; i0 gBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
' Y/ \% {% e. v3 f8 C我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ z0 l9 n1 B! e  N9 c0 W  P就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 N  e3 ?, j+ J或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
( ]# }7 ]; F; P9 \- Z* G1 Z- e; I$ _空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 v& u. Z' H% V$ c" O) @8 J很少會超過一天～+ @4 ^" B0 _. w0 ^: F+ V3 Q
要期待更好的明天呀！