熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 Q  ~, l3 `9 `7 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 y. A8 Q1 d3 J' [* e, n& \  f' }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 J/ R: O7 ?. x4 E7 {: f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ M* N$ h- Z3 S* ?8 ~' a: k
覺得好空虛0 g0 N( Z  ~+ c8 u; }7 q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% E8 F' {7 o  s8 s8 z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ n' Z# m9 g  h* h$ f用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ V8 E0 V) {" g
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) {' w* r. J- f* I; G但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 ?2 y( e" s9 ]! x# {9 q% e熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," ]+ L7 o* Q) Y$ v% k" J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( }) L: n3 S$ L
日日有車站,. p1 R7 Q8 M3 A. i
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
5 X0 l8 T+ T% H: C; [你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 N+ X- x  R1 q; r/ p9 }% ^$ ~6 i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% F3 ^2 [/ p. V/ ~* H5 A, Q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
! ^5 M6 q+ u8 K( O! U. K: _感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
9 p: G: x3 f0 v- A7 b1 \5 T玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 }5 j& T5 I3 |$ s" d總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
' m2 i* A7 }( C其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 O+ M" H: W0 |# }1 S) ^4 m
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 x( Z0 }/ X! K9 s6 h
日日有車站,0 P* D$ `% s; u% k, l1 Z
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  ~/ c, C: i! [" }  M' U
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 t+ I( X% v/ v4 }" o+ N3 J5 `
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  v# t% \2 Q! i. C4 P$ p/ y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' X  P( w5 K8 q2 v+ }
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* X  E) h+ f5 h* J, }8 G. Z覺得好空虛) G- h4 D7 x) v0 S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  ^, X* }& r0 B# q5 x! U1 P卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 h' w# }9 t0 z( w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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2 Y/ P( K/ j1 ]) f' u這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! N4 `3 e4 H8 M* c: P8 n0 P, I唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足." X; B& g! ^8 h; Z5 i' \8 z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' O0 W) r$ Y* T& d+ _% Y: @
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 I# E1 R5 O2 [' aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ ]" R- f8 D  m* l' ?8 X. ^# ^b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& R5 W0 N- Z- Q, M: F1 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% ^& _! ]0 r: {- [3 Q
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Just another thought on lonliness:1 S7 x3 V# \) ^* E. T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- t/ c( w" S7 g, j1 u. @; H% W
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 M: }) E" `- o1 \+ t0 }1 u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 j$ Z  |) ~. T, u% }' f8 {
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 e  X( l1 {( {: F! t
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～: ?0 h9 ?- J3 X  u- m. M& ^! _3 B
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- B6 h4 R  x' `8 L! I* Z; S很少會超過一天～2 {* I5 a8 U# ?  z9 e' W5 v/ f
要期待更好的明天呀！