熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% |5 E/ q0 E9 g  W7 C4 \# z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) Q$ D% X7 G2 y5 |' t0 Y  t; X4 _! Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 c* [  `9 n, H6 v
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 S+ O6 R$ @- ~覺得好空虛
: X; q* S. c1 W" K0 N) ?$ Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! w" i' I# s( d- u: f7 D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# q# Y. g$ _( [3 c
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 V( r' J) |( y8 T9 |  F9 \

3 a5 H' S2 V! Q- k! ?+ ^[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ c  s: P# p; ]* a0 ^% l1 H& w) C
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 S% S6 @# g# Q1 R2 P4 E
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 M# u$ Z' U+ t, ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 D/ l- w5 e6 W1 W. c% S' C% l& I日日有車站,2 C! b1 V  r, q' a: i7 J: u
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
# Z3 Y9 i- s( I2 b- w你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ ^' y6 a0 m$ J0 n+ ^8 ]& k" N. t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

+ z1 C; v; m5 |+ |+ O. Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& G4 g* p/ y  Z, q$ x  {6 g
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 }, v6 B- v) Z' S* Z* z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; `+ u/ b5 w0 k. F4 p+ H1 T: q% O
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 [( c. Y7 P$ v, q0 D+ N4 ?
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 |- i; }% f* P* L. P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 g; ]  {, c' c: d5 C
日日有車站,( z  |5 x6 O- }1 c3 s* \
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( E: i% _7 H" o( h
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, o0 S0 k! E# w) u) k# l" ]% v
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- F) N0 W* D0 ]/ j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- j+ i! w; N# s$ e" [" U) f2 u% x* P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- z6 F3 w  F* Y1 Y
覺得好空虛* ^( D2 o0 c9 f. m2 _/ _9 j
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! \5 |# Q; \( H) L6 v6 m, Q; G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, ~, e% ~: z' a$ o8 p
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 A6 g# p, f& b) t& A+ [' t* c1 c! S

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ y5 N. `3 d! a8 i9 F! e
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ a- c+ l3 N' p2 W7 K. g$ s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 M3 C9 D) t" g+ u0 [& Oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long; A/ K  y/ e8 P/ p- M! @
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 ]. R# S6 H5 j, P* t9 u1 Uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.( |: S9 i3 E4 U0 Z: Y) R

* }4 E% B3 B. q/ SJust another thought on lonliness:
! U0 ?6 ?2 j4 T( }. [' hLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) u. o4 N: m5 n# F( o
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) e+ P. r# N9 w  l, S我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
7 z9 t3 v  k. j3 f) z就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 ^% p* D+ W6 b
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 T) x5 |4 i% e) z: P3 [$ Y5 I
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉; T. i$ y: V- S# W' _% _
很少會超過一天～
0 ?4 b; S/ C" |. X$ J8 O要期待更好的明天呀！