熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! }* ~- Q$ }& A: O1 L+ _
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 G' k6 [" g  i0 k; i, ~2 O, l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 Q9 u+ f6 c6 r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' n/ v- G9 h# m$ n: p4 o
覺得好空虛
& n+ J; b2 S4 O其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 n$ ?1 l  w) [7 `
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ p7 _; v2 @3 p. n) o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 B1 h. Y% I1 O2 j[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& ?: Y( G- N0 Y& C# K所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 ~1 u" M5 U1 }日日有車站,
( d: `6 Z  g# y- W+ K有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( y" C* X4 g0 a0 g. J你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- j- i% i+ A1 u1 Q# h! y; P! J! @' g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 k# N; x' d' S' A/ g' F1 Z我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
+ b; r# j/ Y1 L- |, a0 B( ]" ~/ [感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) N4 y. i* M: m  A! S. l9 C
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 x( `% E( D/ Y# S5 C. p
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; d1 G' `/ I- {( X& v+ ?% A其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. `0 a9 d7 k& @: Y* r所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' s' @6 o$ D: q- @; p# L1 q2 k6 S
日日有車站,, t# Q( W" i$ B5 V; b) `
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 J3 F) H! p/ b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# c& s$ @% @$ o$ |0 n: p& y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* d) e/ I+ p; e/ G8 g2 t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 ~1 z( t- A5 S% s6 K3 m' B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* W1 z' C7 \1 S覺得好空虛; {; m3 J. r# D6 V+ q, L
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: X5 ~4 u6 P7 }, K, K3 }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 J: ^3 Y; U8 a: }! B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. \# L7 W" c* j( k0 B  a

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
: [# k6 i/ c7 u% x' _唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 Z7 u3 G* H* S3 h有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) m* _: j2 @: @

" O8 A+ Y% C0 w3 Z2 pPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:/ h. t  A3 F- E* l* M
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ A* N# v! n% u! _# }+ I! J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  o  f6 M6 _4 z0 O! a. Vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ _7 i8 t9 T8 Q8 r% Q# X
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Just another thought on lonliness:
) N8 w# E0 X! ~+ [4 y+ \& W  `. mLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....9 m9 a1 {5 g* [6 |  Y% n) _
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 a: y/ x5 d0 i! c' t+ b0 l  A
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# L+ G- A4 y; F1 w7 W就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% T4 |6 W' l: A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 g5 q5 W; [" k4 Q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 u; |) x8 p* R1 A, ^; y
很少會超過一天～
  z$ s4 N+ d( r. G8 \, A要期待更好的明天呀！