熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 }, w, S# n8 ^3 ^  I2 [6 b2 z好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 @7 T! M: j& C) u4 v1 ~
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 I7 f, v$ q% s* |! ^+ c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 G( z$ I. w3 r- c
覺得好空虛4 b0 b  l' G  n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# d) `" l+ N6 ?, t. j9 o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 {4 B% g/ e0 |/ a  `: S2 E* f; _; R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 K1 o' E) h8 H8 T) D8 F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 i, S/ j) ~& I' r% g- M熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 s2 ?% M, m- L  N  v4 `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 w5 b0 J6 U) S) r, [( B2 n4 _- k
日日有車站,8 F( Q6 o4 A* L5 n. Q$ P
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# M, O$ r7 c- B% H
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# `. w) B. H& S; F. u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

9 O! m7 h* _1 @# V, l我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& z. }2 O, ~7 I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 I. W8 |  m% M* @4 Y! ]2 `
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ w. H  {) O3 I總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! ?$ M) k: z6 o其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# x/ W( G, D% d" G% J, j
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ F. o5 j5 n, }" k$ A' S
日日有車站,
( z# H) z' i( G  q. H8 A' U有目標!

' y) w) C0 A5 x* h# U- O& vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 ?0 E: J; W9 H$ f: I如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" t5 V& Y3 z/ |8 Y$ N" b好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ q8 c  k% ~7 S9 u( d" y: h. }
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# [- i7 d1 O/ Z% i% i6 s個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 G+ F# t  t! K; W9 r* K# F3 V
覺得好空虛, w% ~3 u" u  Y0 L2 @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 I7 R* v$ z+ F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 C" B( M$ J* R. z4 ]: y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* d  _5 C8 |2 \

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" B: o- g! E7 i6 H. y7 _: ^這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ N3 t- w. c: T/ w3 o
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
! a! ~8 L& H& S8 S, ^# m$ U7 h有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 C  b0 R( _/ e( x8 ^- C8 ]  G
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  u' I$ k' _6 {4 k' N+ Q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 l2 [1 C6 E- c. R" Q) r# Bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" n: R- m$ Q4 l, M: m4 rJust another thought on lonliness:
8 }2 I. l' m! T' l) iLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( O( a" o0 h: ]
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! \: N9 Z) q+ b
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 e. j: V, }/ O8 a- t  n就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ b8 W7 V* E: l0 H! V( n$ }或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) H+ }- A# M1 s9 {空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 W: c5 s5 d+ t( h4 Y- i* U
很少會超過一天～
9 s8 U4 E5 |8 r2 c要期待更好的明天呀！