熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* \/ p* R9 b4 D* I
好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ W  V" l, v+ a% _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! @9 x: ]3 Z+ W) U' q$ B+ u6 U7 D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 {: P+ i! n0 L  m覺得好空虛
6 |' Y0 w+ O. V9 ]  }其實早幾次都有試過係咁& T# f1 P% _) B! s- ]$ Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' y& U0 `- k6 Q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; A0 ^+ `8 A( M) E' ~

$ K8 t* {0 t) k4 M- y[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,& R1 r) ]8 P( j3 F4 _! z' ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 v0 M' F; p7 c' k( [熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ Q! M7 w# _  M所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# I' m/ v$ u) Q) K/ |
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& c+ s  C0 z; D) k: v- v
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 Q- j! W/ a* y- Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( W3 q; j& l4 J4 X
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
6 ?( p. F! J  l& P& b5 r玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ z4 W+ f) ]+ F+ o. J/ l1 K總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:) n% X- n6 E2 w  w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) `: r. U4 _- U
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' y/ U; `( n' @
日日有車站,
+ O: E" i1 R! i. n有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* _( J# j- }/ s# c! {% Y7 M2 J
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# v& S; C) D1 |9 c- k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 h% Q5 H& o! ^* Z. [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ v6 |6 v0 c4 h/ k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# ?0 Z, P" A% `* g$ {$ E覺得好空虛
/ @; d, E0 K; _- ^; E其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 T6 S, @& A1 i7 {2 d2 E9 p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 g; Y/ \$ e0 ]) C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( A5 V3 D! J4 M
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 ^: ~) a; [4 L0 s
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 A% P4 u0 A6 r) x
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:5 Y( v  O+ @% @
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long& M! _% H4 j) F& p# F8 R
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ U' t3 g* ?8 U2 ^$ f1 T! z9 i
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 `+ u* h: T9 A  a+ A/ q

/ U; x, B. c5 t6 K' U9 ?; }Just another thought on lonliness:' R5 l/ j! |. `0 N4 G+ @  q: w
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....% a9 Y# O5 f$ |' z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～, U1 _$ U# \. W. I: \" u6 }+ h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( I2 o* g7 S  ]# s  C8 w
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* s% c. H1 ~9 z" ~! y2 k8 z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& A4 N3 U: D* G8 c4 `9 ~( |; X
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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+ q6 P; [0 |/ Y8 S1 ^! Z; l要期待更好的明天呀！