熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 k# V" h# E6 h
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- o% b- C# Q0 i5 I* T0 u
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" @! Q1 s) G$ c個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ U( O- f9 q& _% x6 L  e
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 U' G+ X0 \& Q3 I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" P' U1 N: ]7 q- M. Q
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,0 ]- k2 q1 u+ e3 G* ]
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺! r" k/ ]+ C8 K* V" j, x5 B
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ g. L0 s  j9 n, s0 ?/ v# m9 ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 f- `! w2 m% K1 y8 |! G- v! [日日有車站,
7 x5 r3 g: }8 A0 s! k$ k有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, \& L/ B0 d- Z. ~你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ c. g. h) f  C& ^- o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." `* u, r) E* X9 B( ?4 S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' s1 `' C. p8 L# \* f
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 `2 a* L* _  S# S* J
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
( X4 |0 v2 r7 Y2 X* Z$ r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ T8 D* W, r) T! A所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, n  Z7 m8 |( Q日日有車站,+ ~$ t1 O. U7 h6 G& \
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ v" y; q  |: S3 H: W, ~4 g0 ]- C
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 y* ]8 M% s7 A+ X3 {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& i  H; Q7 y% N3 Z) s" }& C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* Y- i5 b+ P; a1 Q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 [9 Y* F, ]$ G* M) E/ I  T1 F
覺得好空虛
  @, G2 Y' g1 [  R) D其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" m* Q3 K8 a4 q2 A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 ]2 ?9 Y9 K% G+ Y4 X8 b! J4 @" \! H用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
; I! K/ v1 l  J* C% C9 K+ T唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 ~, |% ]* A3 J9 S7 ]5 m* S! p
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long1 w9 c5 X, o& S5 |& l. G9 B
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% q4 {) R+ H* s! T! T5 |+ S# T
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) U- v- D; O7 ?, C

% w/ s: k# J9 t5 X6 LJust another thought on lonliness:
' s% O3 _- R6 K0 K7 B0 qLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～$ }8 s# o0 g) {* h6 P
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 U! ?4 x5 R$ d, v8 E7 D空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! }) Y+ r, D4 p" W很少會超過一天～
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