熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 J6 F4 Q4 [: V: Q; @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: j5 F  R  j- Z7 T0 O( ^2 M+ a: t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! C" q+ \% m* E* @) O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ D( S' H/ Y8 _3 f覺得好空虛- ?1 ~5 u1 P6 |6 ?. p$ F& a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) M& H; z" i- ?; q3 ~$ n' m3 t; o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# v- a9 D7 T6 A9 P2 v. ]5 T$ D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 A2 X; L0 x3 z

, d3 J# v3 x" S[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 k. D5 H1 X* p7 `0 u. o% X0 ?
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* `8 f9 |2 H7 w5 A: r7 l8 L$ r4 [熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 r) q0 s; \, H8 i; S" S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  U' E/ E) p* u日日有車站,7 ?! r' T1 d3 j' g2 c) k' I
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  N, g0 k/ P$ ^1 m4 d! k( I
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 \( D( N8 H7 d/ M/ ^
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# l' O6 M# R  K% W2 p! ~1 b感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ X4 D" m; E- d+ ~, L, q( B! M' C玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& t2 j- W/ @' M' B+ O" ~5 y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 q& K. ~* |% Q) ~4 q* D- r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& q8 h' o! l5 J0 {" M3 S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  m* n+ [% F6 z7 L
日日有車站,
% s, P2 Y* j0 M3 {7 C有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# j& u1 S7 J4 @8 X4 E0 Q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 X7 |, y9 j: d0 \( N9 o& U好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! p% Q" p" y, C. t9 ]2 B- J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# a- Y! m% r  L' ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 L8 `6 t9 f( X3 a# g5 h覺得好空虛
% r  ~3 Q1 R0 {/ G& ^: S+ ]9 T/ |其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; C2 p7 x. d7 _( j6 o9 |' i% t+ d卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ s8 G+ G) @! Z8 H( P; x1 d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  n$ g4 L! w( p0 p4 w( E

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: c/ I# t: J2 {0 S: k# y  D這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ v3 {8 c2 v' v' P3 u. h( N: d唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.4 ^+ S9 \, F& I$ r& d
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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6 o7 C0 e- X- x' H6 p' @. v% wPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:8 d9 \$ G4 r+ ]4 I
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' `. @! {2 w: }0 v! v
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.3 U# a# s9 q0 f/ V+ w2 \
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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7 j0 R% K' K' o* n# C( x) d8 bJust another thought on lonliness:
1 K- V# F/ J" D* |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 c/ H% F* G2 J  I7 H1 [# D) T' U
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 V1 v' x$ V7 x
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; @* }( Z% l, Z1 V就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* N6 `* I& y) u  z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ d/ d! |4 [' M' C: t7 }
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: `/ x" r8 a0 q- c3 o5 I: U  N
很少會超過一天～' y4 X; Q* ?5 G/ s, {/ o
要期待更好的明天呀！