熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 R  F& Z  r* p  l( Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺( b9 D7 p% `# Q+ U& c: w0 _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) Y9 s* A+ T: w5 G$ k* O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: G% u" `% b: Q9 S; e覺得好空虛
9 w4 G6 V' E, c% i5 b! k! M; D其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 [) B" M' B' f5 K3 q  ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ i  n9 H8 M) |' _# K( b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
/ Y- m/ Y! ]. b4 M/ t- D+ ?8 D1 e但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 w$ C- @2 e' Z7 F1 z9 }熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# {: o: v% @3 G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% |3 {  K9 ~% L/ ]+ _) n* C
日日有車站,
8 v9 I$ v3 D/ ^, S7 o$ D有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 m2 b: g9 Q+ o4 y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 O& l+ W- R' e/ q  _- N! H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' r* B' Q% q2 v8 L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( n8 ^% U  m2 C- V4 V: N
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 \6 I( I* Q  v$ H& }4 i& `
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心., p/ f* u* S- m* C
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 @8 [" @( N9 Q' B4 \6 k. c其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, H2 V& E  u$ X1 S- h5 g8 B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% v" R! o1 Y# w7 ?4 W
日日有車站,/ B# o' {4 V0 \, f
有目標!

: |) O; K# ?8 f& U2 q0 d/ nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ V! }1 ]6 z+ _# L$ b) u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ l8 g# v; h8 T% }& t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 i5 @0 C* i- N: {7 q) j  K
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: s* a; n. W5 v+ o9 v
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' ~1 Q( y5 L9 \" C6 X7 p4 ]6 y: n7 G覺得好空虛
. V9 [  h: c. o) V! G3 H8 V0 W其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ i; G9 o9 K& z; _1 a) T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% w1 x- h! g0 o' M. k8 u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' F8 S  C2 I" X+ b- l唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 ]3 e5 W* D, d4 ~0 i
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! b: q; [8 _" c& `2 N$ I+ Y. i) u

9 }2 s, |4 C( ~: l# fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# A3 J; |* {8 o. U: ]# H
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  p/ O0 z& l% p: x/ db) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- ?- q$ T4 ~* S* z3 [* Uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
0 [! [# E* r1 m" y7 t) nLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....0 D4 i3 \1 C! m/ o2 a# U1 T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( C$ p# Z9 |- O/ \1 N% T0 R* P
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; i' q, |. q. |2 \, o就好似睇完一套好睇的電影5 Q7 R4 p1 m  ?* ^; d, t6 Z; B$ k4 [
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. Z7 u; F, D* _空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! w) t+ @/ A4 J0 ~很少會超過一天～
0 c+ |3 i7 J% p3 \要期待更好的明天呀！