熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 Q! c7 M, Y- Z- }5 `" U" f
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- _& m3 w6 C% c- e$ j, d* r% u, X
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  R1 |  i, x( V' E7 V6 [2 s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) p# ^/ H7 T+ Q, H1 w4 {4 u
覺得好空虛) m: p. ^; X  n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! W9 @; t. o3 r1 `, [5 v$ e" V卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ |. U0 |/ @+ b0 X4 _- ]
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! |/ ^' l6 J5 c: T. G

+ V" R7 u7 ?5 P0 k  O/ N2 o; S[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 X% ^9 @7 h9 Y3 u2 W& V, _) ]% O
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
; y6 ~( s* ^; a熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: Q  Z' z4 f& F9 `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 i, o2 y8 a- ]. J日日有車站,3 Y1 r, T( V9 \; P3 u& C7 s# I
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:% U+ y4 T* }1 ^. R7 w
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
2 H* [4 G+ L) @9 E# U7 W+ U) o2 }感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 D* s3 E+ i4 C. ?0 J/ i% D1 f; I玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! Q" k9 {  H& J
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; S; y7 q+ l5 d  l$ P( t5 w: p; U6 h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: N/ g- s( L3 G: [6 l" ~, ]2 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 h4 p, G* z/ O9 L% }" g
日日有車站,8 W5 Z9 M% I1 M8 Q7 y: W# o+ [
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 @6 C+ w/ m, d% X3 r2 }) H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 _8 Q5 x' L$ C* e( y: j好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 d3 E9 e# ]- M/ d: \  o$ X9 L  J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, F7 A+ G, R- V, [& G* b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 T/ f6 W5 \( N( w5 i8 _- S
覺得好空虛
9 @4 f6 W0 M8 L: E0 b8 _其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' |4 w3 y; ~$ }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' k% m" K+ R% M7 \7 o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" ]' l8 K; T% n# F

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& H$ }3 N9 e3 p" j+ e. M( d' c
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 ~# ^8 o2 d- w. x, r有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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. C6 ~8 J. o, {, _& h4 FPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 w5 g* I, r% f6 I) b/ L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  N2 x6 O1 A& p4 Nb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: h; a2 i, Y' c6 f+ K/ C4 b# {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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8 j/ r/ M0 q; H: k9 U" w4 o' k, _" tJust another thought on lonliness:
% l1 f, F- T: \7 `( E8 JLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～
7 j) Y3 i+ f! p1 [7 y* d+ K% N我會有一種十分空虛的感覺7 j+ i0 W7 d$ ]/ A# e" i
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影) E- N+ ?5 ]) e9 f. t9 @7 ]/ w
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～! G  z/ x' D4 b, Q; u2 F
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" l( Z1 M: J# w# ~2 G; Q
很少會超過一天～4 m! U/ \7 i  a0 h
要期待更好的明天呀！