熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ G/ g6 h& Y1 ]& E9 S% a& B好唔鍾意呢種感覺& e& w6 J# j3 s2 D; R! }7 m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ G9 A' X) K" Q; j1 ^- T- q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! r6 n: w9 d. g+ o
覺得好空虛
! U) N1 T' a/ ]: F; \3 @其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: r: x1 g: j  j  J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 T8 R  |8 K. b& k, u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 C. q7 u$ Y& v2 u但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 @: a: k: o* G熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, j* J% }( j! O5 T! k, t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," y/ ]' I- o4 J
日日有車站,
+ G2 G# R. z& n9 t( o9 L: v# L. x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 f- v/ Z2 g* B# L6 k! F) B3 x0 c; m你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' e" w" q1 D* C, Y3 b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: A/ ]) C9 q! R' T, t0 q6 M我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., c: J, v% }( I) C" f4 M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( i0 N9 a# t2 p& A4 I玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* N. Y& r: V, ]
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 |8 H3 C0 u) |2 X$ V4 ^( K
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 u1 j' f' |4 p$ j2 @/ e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ f' u" L7 C; T2 }+ u2 u
日日有車站,
& W& w  J" C# p" u4 k: @+ b4 L- Q有目標!

# E, o% T1 W- A3 B8 }. g4 l4 P. Wwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- f$ b" R- r" }% V- ~2 p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% O9 m! M; c  B% S好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# W: K' G- }! U7 p9 X琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 j/ W# [. a# N. B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 H: B, M- `0 \% W. n' Z5 q
覺得好空虛- w) W- m" k. W' J) r/ R( S& a1 f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, v% T9 O1 K" l/ Z) G& \+ j. n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! c7 K' x; }+ N6 |  `5 [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" S1 u- C# b; @4 z* m9 D" X* m

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( L, R- J0 J# X. ^# j7 u3 R; R1 w唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 k$ W$ T8 `0 F3 m9 O% b3 l有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! }2 J1 b+ M" j" A# h  CPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
6 ^6 f* X# E3 H/ X6 Z& E9 s0 xa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  D+ x) ]+ n* Y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 V2 ]0 R5 M% I; x) J
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:2 T/ x: _5 @2 a2 W5 U9 R" \6 Q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 m/ f  R8 Z/ F' w" e! R. PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 ^/ f. I  F( c( ]. @& G1 P- C
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
' M3 q; P1 B3 `! j! m+ h. V( k就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. Y! m+ r3 t5 M; M$ R5 I( \4 c或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
! q; r/ q$ h# k* V+ n& c3 _" E( V空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉. s8 h+ e% c* J: u+ @4 b7 C
很少會超過一天～
) x9 J. u4 z2 n, s要期待更好的明天呀！