熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 R* D% o$ ]. T+ n( `+ M+ Q; G好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" g% K6 }5 e0 ^, x+ _1 L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# J# P9 u3 h+ ?$ X/ Y7 C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 d4 u2 v* n" [5 h/ z覺得好空虛
( z, s, P/ L% y) o- _其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. [  Z; q: l" A% d! O7 z# |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. u/ x$ R* _$ {9 d+ X) H* u" r$ r& D$ x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  ~6 o2 ]8 K3 o# |2 o
- B2 r% O' H$ u
[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 K% y* g) Q2 M# I1 x但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 U3 M$ u' ?) y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% H& v' A7 }5 h% \- k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 z6 ^  @3 C) F日日有車站,- B3 L8 R: K/ n9 b" H0 |
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 }1 _6 G4 V8 u" U- s
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 v/ k/ _& w. u4 S3 x如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- x5 {+ C" S  b" G8 {5 C
我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" t2 e+ ?* Z3 o& ^5 I5 M感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 _1 f( U$ G# @' E
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." ], B( W0 G% I$ Z; r
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! H; _2 b( ~/ w9 {$ x  C8 }4 I
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 m( S$ n" v* n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- j. \# `: ]5 B7 [! {1 j日日有車站,2 C1 U/ _  n+ P5 P+ [8 s
有目標!

; t2 c3 R4 U- s. {) y0 qwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  I; t. c2 Q, e  x' i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 X0 a" [$ Q1 ^. J# g/ F4 X0 G
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" c; {1 `9 l. F1 I+ J) a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  N  ^6 g, [1 R: m7 d1 l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ Q2 S, O5 b! t, g& S
覺得好空虛
: F# r: ]6 B6 q  m- I/ B, }其實早幾次都有試過係咁& l9 H! \- M5 P- b1 ]/ d/ g$ L. {
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 s2 o: b% o- j2 ~3 A1 H
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
& q0 M% K5 @; J$ I

" i( V" e# w/ B2 X  T" H9 m. n
9 Y, a0 \& Z4 ^0 ?8 N# w& }$ T/ C; i
這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% a" ?8 \5 g" @% d
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 s+ {& o* g: X8 |, ?有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.9 u  i" Q9 [4 L  e  H

5 L+ |4 \" u% m( _1 J* xPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) ~8 k) C9 s3 i- F3 oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 c; M( ?! f. M5 }2 n7 `8 J6 E2 T
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# R) N% p' ?3 J3 Z1 R. K3 r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.: Y9 g( ?- a$ E- I

& P; @- {/ L6 B2 B% t0 CJust another thought on lonliness:
" z1 m! ]  X7 c4 }$ t2 @3 C0 V$ CLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  U  p: W2 V1 |  Z, `0 H
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
9 Q/ f+ E. \9 }6 B: h: D0 `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; R& ?/ F! h; |. Q/ M就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 z  R& u* v2 Y4 ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 B, O+ h( K8 y4 n' F+ Z% Y/ o空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  j9 S5 F9 O, ?; t' Q4 V" S
很少會超過一天～& v1 O* }+ C$ R, @
要期待更好的明天呀！