熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 N2 `: o; X' F( M: G
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" B' g9 ~, L9 g( A- v+ @! H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% r# `- {6 c  _% q6 {$ j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 P6 l5 A( K0 N! I2 b* E覺得好空虛3 n9 P+ k: _0 j6 q+ Q/ R5 P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 b: F4 X( c0 @1 Q% R; p6 \( U
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! T- d( P( v& B2 V! Z- t) i- A. v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; E; c* e% z) W2 _( F

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,, f" N. R$ r0 P: y
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺0 r9 @) v4 V; _* w. Y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  d+ S) p$ W8 @6 u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 Z) k1 S& t' U, J! Y' J7 l. P4 N
日日有車站,
) ^! U0 K" D- ?) t有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) R1 x& m8 `/ j/ w8 d0 p你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 y- A9 u% i+ [8 k# n
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 a- [. C+ u, x" q0 F+ v/ U我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, E+ L. {; q0 m2 k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 u. B9 |  l# U8 d7 {) _, s玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心./ h) r9 K2 d4 D6 T1 L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 B/ a, B6 c7 w" g
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( ~' U7 Y. I8 d所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 b  v3 W" z6 ^5 ?3 U- m; J
日日有車站,8 {% d' L% \4 Z( q( ]
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ g2 x0 V! J+ w6 e; ?3 l8 R: z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* W# `* k! K. {+ r/ `, w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) y& Z, c0 D! @8 i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ D7 `& C! l9 a+ I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# e% b+ j9 b6 ?8 `' e, g覺得好空虛0 ^$ p: U/ I" R, s3 {5 d. K6 p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( }8 q( ]4 p7 `8 y/ u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, L8 ]7 s: B* X: G; K+ I' J
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 o, l  U' l- C1 I  u唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.) p8 j; b, ?! o0 G) K
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' w7 I1 I  n* ^8 Z6 q& i

7 k$ p, T3 V) n3 v1 [People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- n, B" k8 i! Z+ f. \' D' d" E% G8 Ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long" G1 {& g, t9 e6 e% {
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.8 F( V2 [, |- R! ?. y
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., @) t. K6 b4 ^4 z+ E
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Just another thought on lonliness:! |( ^  u1 o# e; y
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! E! M; }; ]* _0 _' ~+ ~; c7 x
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 r5 Z" X. h! m" _; S) _" B我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! P% k2 i9 U' x5 ?0 O6 G8 c! E& i就好似睇完一套好睇的電影: ?7 W* b: {6 ~+ q* d2 S
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 [8 F0 G# v; g7 _  y1 j" O6 @
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# `4 m1 R! p9 T  [
很少會超過一天～
( |* T* k" u" T2 b要期待更好的明天呀！