熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 Y9 X/ ~/ z5 u. C好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 g: u3 |7 O. Q  f) @琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& _9 }; ^$ n* d1 D. j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( w: p! v2 ^: X- v
覺得好空虛
; v) }# v2 M1 v6 L) x) _5 a其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 \3 d+ Z  e4 V, }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 m* J# X: G6 s; P! @$ f用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 h2 l" Y* n' O& b4 h# F
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
& x! W* s8 X- `- u* A6 [熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, ^3 y% ^2 l& C4 E+ A. S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ B6 A0 l# ]5 N6 B! f/ X日日有車站,: ?: w! t' ^0 }2 c& \
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ Y) ?% w( R0 }/ @( J' I4 r4 [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( l4 P# L5 \# d' |1 o" f% s  r我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ i+ |3 q6 j; J& U8 ]( `$ [
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 `  [- {% l0 a) j4 {: ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! [* `1 B0 v% H! b7 z$ T1 A
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  g' t7 }" L1 |1 s4 X$ x! T
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, ^& ]( s- I5 y$ K$ F9 b7 i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ p% u! \: Q: j1 B9 |- {日日有車站,
% \3 l% }, V  x! l有目標!

( S. V6 ?6 L7 ]9 Z- awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& F* l3 K6 N9 x+ ]
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( Q3 B3 x) z; Z3 j9 M. {# V0 r好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 F. }  c9 ?( \0 I4 I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; l( F) u( U8 O& Y' ^: d, w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& ]/ g* Y" v% V覺得好空虛: G  a4 i6 Q) ], n5 Z$ L
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 e  J, W. g8 s6 C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ y* Q* p2 o# u3 v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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& J9 p/ i4 }& k這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 q* s! `, @" z/ [1 G) C1 T; k; z
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& X/ d: l) m: V
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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+ Y  [' s/ |' c/ J0 k, v# fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! Y  A( k  s, A/ u" la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# K7 F& f, U# q. w. mb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ }4 D7 h) U+ o2 A! R
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 O$ v2 j1 v& t- \% j9 w  B' g
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....8 M0 b7 `+ D3 \" s- X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 A% C6 G) n; p
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# l6 v2 W5 r7 g  M: Q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影- X% m# {- y$ |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～) T7 S2 a2 \4 l$ P7 K- T
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 B6 I# L+ \6 |6 {9 [3 I
很少會超過一天～4 ~. `$ G' h3 @8 T+ c2 l1 f+ i3 v
要期待更好的明天呀！