有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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5 G2 k9 j, @+ w) D) o- F感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...6 q* t# A9 m( |: G5 s. K7 P( W; a. \
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..1 @) x: @- M" f/ M% [
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
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john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
' |4 \+ n' R5 p/ ^- D# t哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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0 \, u5 K$ F: a) W, [; c+ Sgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me& |* v, v/ `4 F  f
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唔係好想講experience...$ V- r. r% Z8 h- l0 L& X

4 W4 }4 F- U' @) ^& @不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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; `" S" E  f/ r4 I* j我唔係想做獨行俠,
+ l1 L5 n* M/ w! H3 S7 O# s) Q只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:" N% J9 h* R$ j# ~: I" E  `/ e
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9 ?4 m  K5 l  M( \! w# b& n我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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