熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 r; X( k& Z' I; ?3 A6 \2 i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 q  b, ~6 Q  D9 P0 Z( j2 M琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- O, C( h' X7 H) f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ S' F, D* p7 g+ }6 g6 U8 }覺得好空虛
" j) Y9 n& m: h( c( f其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# ^0 P9 v. o! o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ z: d; F% m% U( G' |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 J0 \* H& S1 ]( h
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! c8 f9 x- X9 F6 @但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* P+ z) ^8 Q/ H熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 o. j9 p5 _( d5 a  x! ~! V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  L& g9 Q0 ^1 a, _6 I0 P& E日日有車站,
+ ~4 @" `! X: W% B( Y8 D0 p6 I4 x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 q) J- n7 b( W% N6 j- Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  q5 {& t; k6 V7 m- W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: }5 H) l; a* [3 Q8 ?2 o% j7 O7 x
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 a6 K$ L+ f2 I7 E* v
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# s3 S& |7 s* Z8 q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 w2 K6 i1 c" T' C% v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 z( S8 T+ h, z7 b9 ?' R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. @: p/ l/ k1 u# u
日日有車站,
0 J5 `, Q7 @4 r有目標!

0 U: B) @6 L# a' N. U8 nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( w) R& R1 H( L7 C, Z4 H. o
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* P  ]: F5 M+ n( ~. i+ s8 u- C# r5 U/ N
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* ]" ?+ J" }- f# H" A% Y* D: w- D琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# S3 D& q1 [% e; ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) P4 Z0 j' W& T/ d" G) v: c覺得好空虛' y1 d2 F3 |" R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 s1 O5 V& j. x& b7 v" b+ |8 r+ p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 A$ }# y  {' P* v" b3 w
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* |: a1 l4 a2 m& e9 c$ P

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 Z7 Q* m4 Q7 t2 z
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ M4 s# B0 @5 {! }
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& j* G) D7 C/ a, E( V! z
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 Q& H2 c+ W5 x: I) o
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- S! X2 S6 j! I' Q4 mb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 @9 v6 i' H( f* l! t0 F; W$ cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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- ^( C$ \9 M+ z  Z0 q7 TJust another thought on lonliness:7 N# m+ ?- e( B, }$ p3 |/ D4 T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. a7 i$ W+ s0 N2 E9 c5 A7 r/ Y5 Z1 IBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影: t# |: H6 S9 a" `& m$ A- k
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 ?* o& I% h- }/ Z4 t: S4 O4 K2 i( W7 P空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
1 r+ X& G/ B4 v" `9 Y( J很少會超過一天～
# V7 @6 a3 Z8 X1 u! h! d" U要期待更好的明天呀！