熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( ?9 D2 y! f  N: A8 n+ D, p9 ?2 I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  |5 ]6 R! z, G$ k6 o. F6 W琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 ?5 l- p0 }& y$ c* m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  _" x) x' k" S& R  `3 f- b覺得好空虛
8 g  N$ u; z3 w& P+ K8 s& z" e. a其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& q+ U& q, A- F+ D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ m. g( s  @" w0 w
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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" X' I7 U/ ^( f4 B[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- ~7 x# p4 h) M. Z  P9 }$ y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺  Q8 D' l8 @/ W
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' r* P; T1 C3 e# Z, E
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 I3 {1 ~  m3 C+ M. h7 z( c日日有車站,
/ L; z. u9 t- G有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" t* R( {2 f- \9 }. T( s8 S2 K
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" @) `6 N1 _2 `" D2 y) n; w# h' ~
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 n6 B, L9 P: O感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% X; i% v" z* c# P+ Y0 D. U; X
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 Z2 H9 p8 C# {& W/ t
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* N9 b& v1 K& j6 Y2 L# Q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* V0 e+ R( w) A9 s. k8 F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  Y5 }# @) M8 B+ l" d8 ^% z日日有車站,
& v  }. f4 y/ g! ]# q% T/ I8 t有目標!

/ _8 W7 s" B7 g3 ~" j/ Swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 |9 D1 m* {0 u/ Z' B9 ]0 i6 q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 R/ {8 v7 o/ u& F6 ~! p( m/ s好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ R' a2 D" v' E4 L. Z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 D& t/ H6 h) f& m/ N+ P& w  {個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- o6 G0 }" S$ B2 o
覺得好空虛
( ~/ O3 ]4 B7 i* F1 |其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% x# Q& v- M3 b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  n( h% M6 H& q2 s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! i$ }' N, p, c2 I

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& s2 V/ C+ ~( N& U7 g1 q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 J. j, \; v4 U: @5 X
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% }) ?. A0 C" Y  b+ `- _8 W
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, w0 @) w9 F1 M6 F% s$ a! _( A
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.1 x/ O# g& N7 q+ ~8 d- M
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:9 W3 g( Y% f  u1 F3 L
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- u  e6 X; m; R! a  G+ c9 K! v& x
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- V( Y3 A% M8 o- ?2 \2 w
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# F* {3 g; j3 I4 N& Q# w空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' Z" y/ o6 U9 S9 H9 d
很少會超過一天～
4 D/ O3 n) O  e要期待更好的明天呀！