熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; |1 B# A, l6 C( R0 M3 u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 b! j( {6 O, R% o- i
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 [' I6 Q  B, E) y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 h4 h+ f) H, y5 f# [0 a3 D# L1 N
覺得好空虛
/ r6 O8 A  A# N8 a5 C其實早幾次都有試過係咁- x4 S4 y5 N% X, l6 q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! ], ]& `% W& q- w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 |2 j  J6 _5 {* c
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 |- W% R; g; w% Z* B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 I& J: b; Y5 X
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ R) v% A+ W5 C9 h7 b+ Y: I9 M所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ B5 v9 \+ l5 M0 l; m& F
日日有車站,- u! M  J8 N0 \0 O
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  i1 S* g) \6 q( w5 e
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" l  {+ N% `" J+ q8 [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& L6 v0 u2 n) P: ]8 D6 z! G我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 q" K8 d. _; R  g/ ^感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 g* P" P( Q2 [玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' g; w( F$ W& |( C/ @
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; f! s7 s* |: L; n其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; k8 U' L4 }7 }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 W1 r* N+ E- y0 t6 `8 Q1 @日日有車站,8 _, E# F; _5 b9 V5 |) r
有目標!

/ p4 l- ]* m) x) R2 [1 Hwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! M! F8 p, c. i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& q& B; E: J5 d; V
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 Y2 V8 M8 n1 Y3 Y! I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ M, T1 l' f- `3 A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 N! f  r1 D& F5 ~* l; L覺得好空虛: D; y, A! I" z$ f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 d" T& a" g! H4 p+ i) J7 s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 W1 o5 i: o+ N) I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 c' x8 }8 d, v7 p/ |9 ]* l# M這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.2 }. u+ ~& f6 p6 M/ i
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 W# y  j, X3 I' {' {
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; }) e3 W) ~5 b

. u1 G3 f8 D2 ^* j# `- y9 |( ]* [People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 u; P; R8 c$ a" A
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 z1 D# F( V* n. J: E+ `
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) e7 q" k# k% J8 n. T9 ^9 _- h
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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9 }- ~8 D% }+ |$ Z. k& c, N5 u* rJust another thought on lonliness:
3 Y6 s- {3 ]9 u. O% r6 ~) PLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' h2 b5 _) |. D0 rBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) M. }* ]; q+ `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺7 M% [+ Q1 j. y
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影: Y7 |8 a2 {; r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 l% d& E  f" w0 a1 G
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! y4 w( C9 m9 Q8 E) _0 b很少會超過一天～9 r5 s% v, r/ _( r5 x, t
要期待更好的明天呀！