熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 w% Y  b1 ^: d  ?9 r7 ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- W5 {3 B5 I- P. L9 m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; g5 Y2 s9 Z/ y7 [1 p" f1 Q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, R, q. D! k6 A  r+ ]# C
覺得好空虛$ z/ m+ L( k: ~8 O  _, c7 k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 c0 y7 `. m1 x卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 X+ Y9 x" f4 K$ r0 n6 n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) t6 Y- V, B1 D1 z4 {

0 D1 _8 Z- f0 Z8 E9 y1 X6 x( T6 M[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% u3 {1 K; F7 ^+ n" {# z( e0 L: |
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 G6 S6 U- \$ G, E5 F5 H
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% R4 X8 c" U4 q" s3 B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' R! H2 u  L# p: N; b- S; V
日日有車站,
1 L" p( @/ H' t4 s4 ~4 L有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' v7 d$ l1 i: Z' s% k
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; v2 M' {/ A2 \: L$ A0 Z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

, Y0 Z" g6 u. B0 W- ]我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! o& [( T* p/ D" n
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) y& _6 Q8 p$ M, m: V8 |玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." c! P: o  c+ \# j* f4 B
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 w8 T/ K) Y: d4 b9 B9 ~& X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) H+ j' v5 N. T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- ~& ?8 `6 p' t: S$ C8 z& D% _- l日日有車站,, G. k1 C% T' R7 F, ?4 c" R4 e' o
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( H* @5 Z" j4 c9 m" w  z% l5 I3 D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) k% d- |' w( v* N1 L' e3 ^1 J" l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, l8 W& w. A$ L0 j& E
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ R6 M. ?0 J9 R1 w7 m# F8 X% r, N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# z6 z: Z- U: O  w& n; X4 E覺得好空虛) m4 g. \# d. Y7 o/ z: U
其實早幾次都有試過係咁" D* H4 G. s& m/ c
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ ^5 v$ i) w. [% Y# Y% @$ X$ U$ u( ~用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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% ]* L  C$ ?0 U5 q- h4 j9 D  b9 P這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* t  A- |7 p* b- f  a% Q8 N
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) R0 A6 F9 X1 B有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.0 ?; @/ u( v- q4 `$ W) M6 O' ~
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" [+ n5 V2 O/ ~% W' ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ q; g. i' U4 W# n7 I1 s
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& `* h) G4 ]* ~! W3 ?8 I
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 U# E* U1 h* G

. q& v6 g  [# m! n2 Q0 uJust another thought on lonliness:
( Z! Q7 U! p" K& nLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 ]8 N$ r$ f, a* H( @3 O4 b
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 r3 t' Q* K8 }- J我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 ]/ Y: S% Y1 F* N0 _
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 \( @) _. ^6 [5 `% K- O0 r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 H2 T& u( X- D4 s/ y* N7 G8 r空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 q5 `- f9 n2 N; Y. f# l* A5 u
很少會超過一天～  Y1 M& j' c$ b( I; S
要期待更好的明天呀！