熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 U6 u! q, b. W% T& |! z3 N好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 k3 O$ E( B+ C7 r琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 U2 f$ B: U2 c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ w3 c' u/ V, l6 H1 Z) x1 U覺得好空虛7 ~1 A0 D# c/ @3 q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  K& w7 }3 z% ^卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% O$ r; a- R0 s- x& g* g6 _2 |  {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 B: o/ h# V" `7 ]# j但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& D! q; p8 U6 V7 d) o
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& U9 u+ u% y4 W0 ^' l& j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 I4 T) |- Q% u- P+ v
日日有車站,
9 e# W& Y  @/ x: O/ z有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
5 c! \; g  U+ m- m你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 {/ f6 o1 G6 A/ k, Y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.6 p/ R9 X- ]5 i1 L& i
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 ?) f  S( q9 u5 J+ e4 \& i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
. k6 S3 r8 _% W- m0 K7 n! v總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* s1 ?4 ]" D0 k7 n0 c+ v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 H9 s6 r; n* q* T  t& w所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ y$ \5 u5 S' Q" k% `$ Z& w6 E% B3 }
日日有車站,
# e$ X/ s* v3 O有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 ]& r4 X1 _, r
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 w5 j2 P* ^; C' K+ ^3 k7 \5 r& T; M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 E8 C. I" J7 |. A8 I琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, Q* t" c! M& m: O! b. m+ n6 }+ j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 R) F* k: R8 P- n% M) M覺得好空虛
. p  @6 x! c! D$ w其實早幾次都有試過係咁% G1 a+ v: T4 Y: A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 {8 e( e1 M3 V5 E& N. |1 m
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
' u9 k+ Q4 \% \; v# l/ F( i* [

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( ~/ g: Z7 l* F( `
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 A- k7 g! y) r有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  g1 O, R2 x, w$ R3 B" a3 S; p0 M$ l& v8 ja) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
/ @$ o  P& N( k+ ]  lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
$ ?( T9 R1 H4 Q9 m6 Ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) f' F2 F4 d1 @  r

; K* t5 x+ P- j) s' Z! VJust another thought on lonliness:
7 O0 J8 G1 y) A- L3 W6 B+ F' VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ K* @. g0 [6 f% \% p3 Z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) q/ y- |$ Q3 B$ B3 }4 I
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ G1 c8 s7 J1 v* c' D$ R就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( t1 Q5 b# w# [
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" L# }2 @5 e8 e! w3 D" r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
4 A9 D# ^2 A% Q很少會超過一天～
& J6 Y' L2 Z3 B7 h要期待更好的明天呀！