熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 K, _6 z4 d- t7 ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ K2 |) Z: D' |- D4 A8 k, ~+ e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 w; x9 m8 I" u' @- t: D$ b' ~) q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ \9 W* Q8 @3 C) Q
覺得好空虛/ Q9 R: `5 H: f6 M8 B2 @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. T, G/ I, ~& ]7 u; K4 H& b0 f卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, E5 j  B6 s0 I: c' @( F用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, `0 I3 v' B2 H+ @

7 h! e% O. Y  s6 {! u[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 S! H# g) A# c' z- v: F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 g- f& l% P& F% R$ l) ^熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% _& w, b* u* A4 A- o0 j3 {. M& i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  w8 J1 P$ J+ }4 |: \/ ?- o7 ~4 t
日日有車站,( V  [. O; ]$ T; @" w% T
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 N# \: s9 H/ X3 G0 [
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ ]6 N( f, o0 |7 n! d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 r1 z) M( H3 \2 ^/ C
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! G/ J( m, M5 B! o3 X2 ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% [, H2 r* d* W7 h( [/ O總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- n( }* V' G4 R0 K* j$ V
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  M1 `! A6 |5 A8 C; h8 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ {9 K  q# r( i日日有車站,7 R+ ~( k4 _( Z8 }5 y0 P  f
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' @1 C" i' g# C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 ?3 u" R) _+ J- W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 q: G0 W$ c& N; l: z, _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 x! A! q9 X3 t
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 L  O0 q! t  Z) M6 M1 V/ {覺得好空虛6 j& d# D; n- c7 L: V. K- \4 Y, O; P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ R1 D5 {/ v2 e9 l4 l1 }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) c1 A, `5 T3 L" B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 O5 ?( G. V& _7 \" ~
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
, H- j$ Y& M2 o( A  r' r有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. P9 |- ], X. b

' @" ?! R: q7 V9 M/ M) Q3 G; F9 CPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:* I, o9 f3 w2 D: X6 \% k; t: p
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 c5 G$ x: \$ O! S) t# _b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# h) j6 [( H& s, `2 N1 n, B, A* O' Fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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, I6 ?$ z! ^! nJust another thought on lonliness:
' B. Q$ [8 H$ V$ a4 e! OLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' Z6 B2 m% t+ u' X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( t# h7 R: \6 I4 ^# {6 A
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
2 q$ v3 Z/ P; P7 ^" P. K就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
# U: v' k9 O3 ]* {; i/ O0 q或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 q: i; b3 c- X$ _1 Y8 m3 v空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 g# j7 P! q; I1 N4 D2 i很少會超過一天～
. u5 Y7 Y* O, c7 o$ L, H要期待更好的明天呀！