熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 w1 ?. h, A! y( W1 u7 v8 s
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. L6 d- s4 v+ ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 v5 n% r1 C5 d個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" [% U' u: T1 z/ y
覺得好空虛+ P& p, n, I- R* q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: @6 f1 y$ d9 u( w2 t6 i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, e* R- H* C# K+ G% g& f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 l* j6 R3 l( b但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: ^( \5 o  \- e* q熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* ^2 _# Z* E( U  z' V所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 `; n0 L" u. D) V5 G日日有車站,
  A+ C, Y) D% P  K. i- r有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: Z9 H/ `; G* N6 ?7 N+ y* M
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: g" w( G- b8 a, J& p
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ k8 e' }( i$ V- n- }
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 ^7 `1 S5 M/ n5 p  ~: W/ b玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 @% M+ P' r4 f3 ]$ ^總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! |4 V6 q" b4 m( a* j( g
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 J, A1 y) l: K2 Z- q# M& n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 @0 Q0 m: [" k
日日有車站,  T" ]$ P( @4 |1 X/ o9 O% F
有目標!

) {. Q; q, O5 ~8 W) Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 V$ j  v$ @2 n* Z( Y. S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 I" B7 a" u4 e& g) V- t9 @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% D# w9 a2 t! d, g0 L" m! X
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) d3 _3 C+ G  p個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; Q" a1 x1 m5 E# H" y1 d
覺得好空虛) k, k. r! a5 t# c+ _+ q+ g# [
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- L/ Y0 U) {* g) a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. A3 k* G- [% ^; C5 W( Z# G, `用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 ^: {+ Q5 m( S. i

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 O4 Z, W  e. r/ K唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.' f# U! Y% I0 q# Q: h4 X: {) U( p. k
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% s9 ~" u7 S- Y6 E, {' |6 E
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:/ B! Y4 x0 c0 i8 m
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' S$ Z, w5 ^' w6 V0 E* ?* d0 S
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  C# S! S- u; i( g% rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:2 w  _9 C5 R; I
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: H5 v# Q( A7 |# L2 I7 g7 ?But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
* [' U# Q, r' X7 V. u0 G* h我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 p0 Q+ R; y/ j" Z( i
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
' B1 l: v/ y, i6 m" w( e% j3 |6 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 {: W6 N8 ?9 H1 c2 S. ]
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( A; n9 K4 d9 Z3 n0 n
很少會超過一天～  l; @7 [+ Q2 z3 _  f
要期待更好的明天呀！