熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 o& ~- I8 ]- o2 v7 X$ r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 |6 a* Z2 h- z& G, ~, k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# y# z4 ~9 v0 u8 u, C9 Q+ q9 a
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 U  d! i: {, M' Q& W覺得好空虛5 ^: E  u# i$ O4 e/ S7 k' T7 h8 y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& a. N# z- k( Q7 i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 u) b. o" Y% }- `& ~; ]% R, E# p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) X; i! q* o# D& l- }5 i# l4 H

% g' f  e# x1 f  F* e* d[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( h5 ~  }7 E* c- w9 @8 \8 i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
- {$ p& h# g  ?2 n  V3 O% H6 @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( v6 c! A) ]8 c" b$ H5 ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' y% j/ X6 h3 C9 X
日日有車站,5 o  S3 E# ?; O1 d: K: O) K, {
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 A+ j4 c: N7 A, m
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. E8 y; v! z0 P. A" d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 L" c. J8 W; ~2 N: J/ N
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 g) Y5 j: M: Q, b# t8 k, j5 e玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# \! B2 z6 a* @% i" x- O4 E總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, ~1 Z4 M( b: C, \
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 m2 e6 z' V2 E1 b* k5 _* K+ T8 ~所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 D& K) Q9 E+ U" Y2 _: s% j5 A
日日有車站,
7 K8 r* V6 e6 L8 J" p有目標!

' B$ i% w& q+ B( \$ Q7 ?: W1 |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* {! J5 P! ^: b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' r# }. \; ^# P! y3 W2 ?" B好唔鍾意呢種感覺" U2 x% h( k4 M
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' B6 v: Q. S- v/ T5 a8 e% K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# O, }: Z* m. b9 k3 f$ @0 k# T5 n3 E
覺得好空虛) v  F5 t! w2 n6 u. L+ n. ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 n9 x% W, x6 g" b8 A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& S- m; G1 t0 K* @$ P' t. P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 y/ v9 `. D1 C: R

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8 f% O1 Z& f0 Y, I0 F! H7 E4 y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 q% I, R4 r- H9 L0 x% l
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* D) O  g- i5 p6 w( Y1 {
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ _' Q$ ^1 r/ l( C

2 m' B9 r. J7 v# o& R+ APeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  W9 N6 G; F) S; h( c$ A) ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 N$ D3 e0 S- z2 }# h  B
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
% m3 H  i2 L" D# b5 R8 V' lc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 X& S1 s3 w; f) t7 f0 vJust another thought on lonliness:
' k3 ]8 N* W( Z$ [Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
- }  O1 ^0 r6 uBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
# c+ _$ F1 R3 {$ l* b0 p; U我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% `  }$ R/ s- t7 ?. f
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 C- Z* U! @1 A( E! h3 T或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 |1 F+ V4 g# P: d1 f$ x
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 u, x& @' W% z; A
很少會超過一天～( [( ~# ~) E8 {/ q8 Q
要期待更好的明天呀！