熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 b7 e8 v/ A7 [- K好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- T. E4 ]  P# X8 h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 r2 |: ?+ U  U) H' G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 _% ?8 q  b9 w# R% W0 q) s8 F, [覺得好空虛. K3 l6 A% h3 ?4 W9 y9 N
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 p3 P3 Q* O% J. N0 M卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ P$ R2 B9 y4 G# e; o8 ^& o. z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ E! w/ T  \; S1 U7 P7 t, i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* G" U  Y) F% x4 d1 v
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 Q7 _) q4 `! P* ?5 \& j- l
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( O. n; F+ [% ?
日日有車站,  D" H0 ~; U, e, n+ L# A5 Y
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 a0 R: w; Q4 f你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 }( Y: G, V( Y3 N3 O- C) C
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; U( C3 X2 ^, B9 C/ J+ w+ T我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) ]: W1 S* R. X& J1 E感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ C* ?6 E7 `+ R+ f. [* e
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 \: s$ c, c3 B9 `9 Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  [! Y: o  ^2 e其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( ~2 y2 ?$ }0 h9 O' @
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; p  F+ [$ ^# `3 U3 P4 b4 E
日日有車站,& P& ?3 s5 t! W2 d8 p% e; Q  d) G
有目標!

3 k) W/ ?8 j. P' pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ w! k# H1 f# t8 Q! i# V9 I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ ?! u7 t$ n" s& t6 ~* S+ {7 C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 e- R# v1 ]# [6 Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 l* U3 v$ B( V. _% e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" C6 Q' [0 t1 v" [覺得好空虛* A8 ~* t, C1 x& v. }
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, a1 G, L3 N7 x. s( w卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 x6 ~% u: `  i% J4 N+ ~, j  p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 `7 [" c+ ?9 S+ B( K

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
" |0 p# ^4 o& \; a4 @唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) }5 [0 @8 A& p$ v; c有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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2 A" z" W5 l1 z3 W6 w4 Q' kPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 j6 y9 K$ g/ q3 N: m( Ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% r% H0 N- i* T- C: B& l, N2 e: D
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) `+ U7 [7 s- C; g. Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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9 G; e. w  v8 Q: T* d" A" YJust another thought on lonliness:
, o! F1 A9 E* O/ j/ ^5 `; VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
- |' y8 p( ^% xBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
9 a5 p9 r; G2 m' E我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
/ p! \1 @- S$ k0 _; j( ~; m5 e就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
: _0 b; P8 e4 \& M- b或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～4 H; C+ e2 Z5 o% A* [: H
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- U3 H6 c, s8 w. k* a) d4 O
很少會超過一天～
2 p0 d' L: Y1 q& u: J+ h要期待更好的明天呀！