熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 e6 Q0 g# m5 a1 L; W( P) l好唔鍾意呢種感覺, R: i8 Y9 l9 Q# u
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 y$ n; f- \% g; J4 {5 x" d  [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 k) y+ ]! |6 h" j, a) @4 {  i; e9 k
覺得好空虛
1 l9 k) v' ~2 u: J% y7 |& _* E( V其實早幾次都有試過係咁* v2 s. O' v( _/ m7 }" ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- C) g; a7 a$ U, ^6 O* }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ {+ N+ w! G, p/ M8 N% `* Z

1 y% M8 ^4 k; {[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 ]7 j% `+ p6 C! X) Q* ?
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. o# d; J. S1 l3 \
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) X/ o$ c( _* \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ m. }5 i1 e/ }2 @5 s+ S日日有車站,
) j2 q4 d4 N  Y有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. u$ J; Q. V7 f' Z  O& t你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 {6 _9 r4 K6 F, A  H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; v2 @/ ?7 [! P感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 k6 @; J1 B! }* X$ F/ T' t# x  w玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% j; n6 N* z* ]9 w, Y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# R8 J: C- D  j" a# r$ M
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 V! M$ G0 F) z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 D( _7 ]8 \) h' u! M; B% v
日日有車站,3 V, t5 h; O0 G$ H1 _% U0 u; R
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 z6 V6 g  @6 M: C+ F# E# k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! |+ T* Q6 f5 _! f% V好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  A" @* v' e: n4 F7 m, \, w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  P* N1 N8 q! r. A% e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* _7 a8 c2 Z' ^' n
覺得好空虛
; O5 z- w3 j$ {3 a8 R9 W# V其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 ^& A( R9 n4 m" O  p! N; W* }, \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# S: _$ m% [6 u+ N; p. ]; f4 ?7 O
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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+ ~* g& |5 }6 X* t9 @  d5 k/ d1 e這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.5 D. r; b3 \: I+ h7 g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 W! z( o! K2 @5 R2 ?1 L
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ A$ g) S$ E- g
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- {* O+ |. `) N1 t
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 O  R5 F. n4 w# @1 }( ?
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 h, p) F6 _2 \. [0 }: B* \+ ic) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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3 _- p, Y; Z6 l" o+ o" GJust another thought on lonliness:
1 q. |! y2 ?+ S+ HLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* o3 j# O( m; c9 MBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  @( e6 m7 j* T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺8 p. J! z; M, G' R
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影. Q4 ?* I  r& k! y% e( a5 e
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ M: R3 Q7 i- }( l( @2 J空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 \" ]& c  O! b5 R
很少會超過一天～
0 D) `  ]' f' j. S2 U7 T) ]+ j要期待更好的明天呀！