熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 h+ q  I6 y6 N, Z2 y6 S好唔鍾意呢種感覺) t' d- E% `/ d6 ?) |  @
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 Y% A+ R' ]" N8 ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 t9 ]! ^4 ]  N# q  C) h4 y
覺得好空虛# W+ t+ X$ }( [; S0 M( i
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- U" U) s0 ]9 j/ l3 r卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 y" {! [+ @0 \! x6 Q" z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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4 M- `8 z0 `$ S0 w7 g2 i, r9 z" z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 a) \$ l2 C. U/ E8 x3 ^. Z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: b; y  ^5 n- q0 f) c7 _+ R# s熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 x$ c. }* j! J5 H, l# {! s: q, t# S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 c  v+ m1 |# Y, A8 K7 c9 t6 B
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  Y1 w. Z1 L6 ]9 @- W; Q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( B9 P6 W# M5 G" W$ e
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 Q) {, _& \5 X' ^; \4 V" C
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..3 o' ~* a0 p7 f# g
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
9 m6 W% @: D. C  g, J# p, m. {總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 ^7 x" `( ~* w0 Q* t
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% c" d9 b( j/ l' O6 Q; e0 Q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 n. k- y6 u0 L% G9 A1 {日日有車站,. ]6 A  b& t( F+ l3 h
有目標!

6 }+ d, T/ o0 g% Z% E) owhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# N/ m' _7 v2 z! O
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ r: e$ m3 X9 T& I& F" U/ u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) p% P) Z3 ]8 r1 F$ T( J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( w. L! V! S8 q( @個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 U9 {5 q& [9 ~: Q4 U
覺得好空虛. t* q; {, R$ H
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# b# O* S& M5 n* |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% e. A- t( N* W( `' P% y3 X/ X1 {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! k* T; X3 u& B" a# Q3 b

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" C" M! y) i. q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ V4 l$ j7 _7 s- l4 y- I唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.- |; `; ?0 l8 j1 ]7 |8 q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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6 e8 {$ a  Y- `# ~$ @* FPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 g1 j' a! _, w' ~) l6 f0 Pa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long& K8 h% Y1 _4 V
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 }$ D8 F, y& }) _  `6 R$ t. `/ Dc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:7 T( v8 \0 N# U( |; Z- [
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
; o# W* Y/ I+ g" X/ ]( ]But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  o+ h1 @+ j4 y1 Y4 I
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺! {% G' Q# I0 W  M3 B5 g9 c
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ A3 k* ]! r% @  R9 r或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
! K, p) F4 q1 d3 N  G- }2 L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 z7 q1 ^: E' _" _! t2 t
很少會超過一天～
' E5 b  v$ L! h4 U3 K要期待更好的明天呀！