熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 Q& z! v1 Q  m; o  @$ u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; F" }3 A1 T& g7 C1 c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 r) C7 y* f3 k+ S% P/ _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 j0 E% A! A0 ~6 j. L覺得好空虛
' G+ I  @. t) l/ U其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 n1 k/ x5 P5 Z5 X8 j; r/ s% t卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; E% t& N# [  R/ g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ F( ?( J5 N9 G1 ]4 N
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺; V# z; H) S& w$ h# ~
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% N; j5 y2 y' f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 [7 e5 M" p/ j" S日日有車站,
& _9 \8 Y4 R: O6 C; D有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* d2 q0 x0 B+ x$ r- E你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& [0 ?; i* {& n1 S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

. R* G' e5 Q) e5 t: t: u" j我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; D( [' w" k$ I3 I) k1 R. j: t7 @感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 Y& d) L' D2 w. m$ Y& n& S! ]3 N
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ R9 }: R$ v* U( b& Z% e總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
' a# L1 y; T/ C9 e4 x9 ^$ W0 d其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# c6 a! D) [3 w7 m. h( f: n# G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 c* B- s5 U- B1 ^* C$ Z8 p日日有車站,
* j1 J- y; A  g8 y2 F有目標!

' g$ B. {2 n5 h5 b+ C+ ]what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, n6 p+ W" g" u( s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, s6 X# g8 k6 T% B/ t& N# G
好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ l4 y5 S! e& m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 p& W6 {2 `5 A3 h" U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% ]3 ~4 M" {/ A; q4 r2 r6 E* \8 D' }覺得好空虛* m/ S1 X( m1 r; G% p0 h- f4 N$ l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# K) c0 ^+ Q. j0 t8 b- F
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: p: [$ V: E  V' B- I6 c
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
4 f# S9 T( a* Y$ I5 {8 u& |& l

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" c5 E8 `9 i( K$ N* s+ L+ D: ]這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- Z$ G8 }* j8 q( J8 Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 {3 C; ~! S9 W$ u! }4 a9 `  |
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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% b9 H8 Q) e- B$ uPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 p3 o# b( t) X- p( oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 S! V* k  d0 H$ Fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: o" {1 s; M- d" X3 ?- y3 D$ g$ f
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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8 z1 m( e9 f+ s: C$ e, bJust another thought on lonliness:
5 M3 E( \& C" K7 p, fLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 @/ J. K1 o' f4 u; U' J) `But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 t. Y: \' m8 `% M8 e3 m5 C2 u2 {& W我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
/ S3 P' t( o* b- @  w8 }就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& [7 [  R. R1 n+ m# H
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 _2 e* l6 }5 T  G: \- w
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉6 X+ Z# _+ t! O( g
很少會超過一天～
1 ^# ], X* E3 [2 U9 [6 ?' A3 t$ a. S要期待更好的明天呀！