熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 k' o6 ?$ K. K  K. q: r/ s好唔鍾意呢種感覺; [; B* e2 `) f
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; x  k  p- ^! o& M& o
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# H3 h! Y2 g5 h; x# Q
覺得好空虛
* l4 D' H6 O/ F3 q4 Z- C7 R其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* K' R' f9 Q6 C$ i* c) f; ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# t3 {- @1 A' A# ~$ n4 c( @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( r" m/ [) O* C% ?8 A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, `& C% |8 x! O3 K. C
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: N5 `8 u  y  @! O/ t
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! ]5 l  W1 ^7 T9 c日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! d3 h! Z# x/ V9 v& E
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* \0 q* P+ L8 U+ j如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 F( v6 T: _8 G我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& p7 u( F3 H9 j% n4 s8 \3 I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; i$ f: n; g  m9 Q7 Z  T6 k玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
. R9 `) @5 a5 E$ r1 d  V) Y4 G總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. \% D; ?+ H. g6 m+ @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 a1 B. p% K: n$ |1 h% i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. c# A7 Y" d: ?% C1 N日日有車站,5 P5 ?; ~: Y+ u8 @& r$ c
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) l8 e/ h- `4 A
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; A7 p0 t4 h0 }' D* K/ Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; i/ S9 l: y6 z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) g" b6 ]0 p  U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ }0 N/ J7 @6 _5 O$ {
覺得好空虛, l9 V+ S# _2 y! o1 `* @+ a! P6 K
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 q+ e# q& L& W0 L- N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( |& ^3 M* `7 A' U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) N  n4 l3 t# Z! C7 ?# V  f4 K唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 s( i( o6 ?  v( A2 P; h& |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ d# A, b- N( ?' J" x. @

- |: ~7 {: j, z5 m9 |" ?3 RPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  F0 c$ z) q+ I! f8 r' i5 ka) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 n0 \% K4 c' p% }8 ^) T3 Y/ y4 nb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 V/ r& q, Y3 V6 X3 [. `" D  C6 zc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., G, W- |1 ~1 X# D% W2 v
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Just another thought on lonliness:$ ^/ w7 n/ S; n. y0 g$ Y& g  b
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! j' l, m3 j+ {; y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- [* m( e& a% T- s; j# \4 h' T4 `
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; w% \6 a1 S( n
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
6 E5 F+ B3 `  b  |或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ Y! d( H4 w: k7 `1 ^& x- r) W+ ^# A
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( ]" @/ Y' C, `% r$ l很少會超過一天～
( l7 |  Q2 d) i, `6 _! {. N1 f, ~) {要期待更好的明天呀！