熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: u7 P& r; n' `* b/ k8 C7 @. |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ x2 d# h' E% e. e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 ?% Z5 V; G7 ?. h5 Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 K  ~4 ~3 P# D
覺得好空虛
  |$ N7 N0 l7 E其實早幾次都有試過係咁. b* S/ J7 f9 t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! v- A0 _8 _! N) v. T+ y2 a& b& R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 {! ]' o) v* o5 ^3 N3 Q  P# T
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺" B6 k$ \! d. p9 L
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  X# V9 E+ B) W所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- e6 L* y- {. C, }1 V2 v日日有車站,
& J5 Y  W& `+ `有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 y  e) S1 K; T4 M# U/ t
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# j( Y0 }( c' a9 Z5 D) \) M; E0 t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 a" t* c5 i1 {, Z我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- P8 D7 P6 k& }# r- E感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( ]  t% G3 G& E. i! w" H* S& }
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 r: x* v) M  [% b( a6 c總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:8 Z2 l* C# w' X. f
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ _& N/ S1 |0 {# b
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. C- D# B- G$ V$ q) A! n
日日有車站,3 r9 u  N. ^- D2 N; e6 h
有目標!

) a9 d, U6 }$ Z8 b5 qwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 q. L9 [- z3 x# J3 c3 D+ K2 n
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. w: @6 ~( f  K3 h好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) v1 a# B& u& V+ z! [& ?- L. s" f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 |* q; D+ ^" l* ^/ P% |( U: p% s* S' O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 I! b/ r$ j2 k& n; K覺得好空虛0 e1 k1 J3 ^9 c+ S# `- P5 ]
其實早幾次都有試過係咁" K+ L( ?5 L; Z( h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% V( j5 |( p9 t, W3 @) H* C
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 `/ S( V! S! M& @) A1 ]

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ ^. Z: v' K. [% b
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 E( o; z% F0 w$ {0 l有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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5 N0 y! ?( }, P. e: g3 hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
( f. `% O2 H$ n* ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 A/ u/ d* F, y& |# x; `( I& b
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ N, A( `% A+ c" T
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 o, p2 C8 O# S2 ~
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Just another thought on lonliness:& z6 i( B. Y' _3 R7 V4 r
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 m5 U% [3 M- L- {, |2 SBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& D+ Z; E, z; _- u; b4 ~
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 I( D1 {2 Q) Q* a
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 z' c. Z9 l5 R7 h  m. }或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( Q6 K' n3 S5 G) U$ Z" l( p
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ W# q! h* @. p
很少會超過一天～" M7 S/ t* N/ n
要期待更好的明天呀！