熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% m4 Q* a: @1 R' T6 X1 F好唔鍾意呢種感覺* [1 v+ M2 E; ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ M3 V: y4 g. }. g. u0 H7 n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 H" n0 |: \! f
覺得好空虛5 l. ^. M) I. X" ~0 x- ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 T/ y. X8 V& W4 b
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; P+ i0 v' T7 w! b4 @7 A8 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  R: ^( l/ _9 g* ]$ E
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- v: w6 A5 ]. Y- F5 a/ i: Z# o( R/ O但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( ^1 p0 w7 c  W* c" a1 y% m熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 |) x2 d2 Z4 R/ K, ?8 F/ W. d所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: L" H" B& O# z
日日有車站,7 {7 w8 ]# w' |- r2 ?# `- I) t8 w: l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( C. a4 N; E: E1 f( P
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% ?) m- c  e& b. b+ Q9 l如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ ?! F/ {" b" }+ j% V$ l3 c2 \我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 C. N; L3 T% @5 S7 z感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, R$ N) N$ i* R! e/ ~" r! s6 P玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. _+ I; v) W! S. a/ K% G0 E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 @7 F" x$ V! W# U
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 G# x8 P3 B% `/ c' v
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, q6 z* ?9 s) Q0 A' k9 c. Y
日日有車站,% |7 [8 l: U5 w' y
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  c9 G0 |+ n0 e4 H8 w, s" ~( X% B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  K: n1 x" C6 o- N* ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 s! t9 o5 [  L! W: y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: ]4 y# {6 W) Z4 `* J& [( p8 S
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* f9 p1 s. e7 s
覺得好空虛# |6 ?+ X' {- A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, Q/ F" e4 T2 D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* \; ~4 _! Y; r' w9 V. V+ S& V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
: K( [' r5 [* j' u; P0 a

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( n  \& L- X" u  G, w& }% Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
7 H  `/ n; H% l& W. T6 ?; g; W8 G' d3 B唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 e# O" s; E2 q6 |$ M  r9 f
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. S* i  D7 K% {% o2 I6 e+ ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 p+ `6 U; x; _# L% H# s. ~
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ Y; }% U: L, f9 O7 G. E) dc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% V$ n/ ]' w1 N+ C( g3 A9 m

8 z5 o0 V/ N! V: J" |Just another thought on lonliness:
+ D4 @  G4 n1 X8 J9 A, n* ILonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# B- U6 G9 m' P3 PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 E& R9 F1 y. G2 W
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- D$ W0 ~6 {; Z就好似睇完一套好睇的電影0 k% O& c8 O0 W; i; A+ P/ A% o+ n2 m
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 f% n: P9 {" S' i5 r6 ^
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' }9 S2 _- o2 m4 T) z7 x, d
很少會超過一天～
  ^( a- Y% J2 Q  i/ l要期待更好的明天呀！