熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 {& y8 X% l: m6 ~; _7 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 ~" N9 e# y. e# ?" Y% R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, I* q+ U1 k/ K) C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( b- o) ^& g' o% y) q- Y; l覺得好空虛6 z! u4 c/ T$ M" P8 y  F! {9 D
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! q) X) Q9 @: `( N3 c$ S& G( @卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* D# n9 ^' a7 R2 G7 M9 m, _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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! x9 L) v4 m4 N: ?+ n5 E1 v[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ n  h4 P+ |# V" i6 k) o) P但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  y* S- g- \" S& }2 n熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 j) M6 q/ ]: g1 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. R! N0 k( W+ D
日日有車站,& @2 B5 n0 D# u; y/ Z. y) b" I
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙; w& s+ M: i! V$ m, T) E# c
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 H) v* T& C$ A. r- b$ S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! v  ^" h; \& Y3 k
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.., M: E2 h0 r5 y& Z
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ [8 F) ^. T0 X# y! b
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 Y5 {  t# o) S. S
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 h! Q# G2 r% m1 ]/ `1 `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 `6 t2 O. K7 B6 Q' _* J5 O' d0 y
日日有車站,# T7 n; I; h$ S: F
有目標!

. F+ A. w5 T: q. @4 W& Hwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 K; c! f6 ]1 i! Y/ o+ R
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( l" d% @% Z7 p; D好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 F+ G5 l4 L* c' ^( C7 x" t; ~
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 u' A- R" r4 d* R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( j& E3 N7 F$ L0 T2 {' D覺得好空虛4 _& F+ K+ r& E8 P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 J; c  u2 k" y& S  H- p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 L2 K% C, s: c( \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; }0 {& ?+ S# X: k. X

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 m! j2 ]. {- j唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.4 E8 v8 J; p0 f8 c4 e+ n
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: k6 X# m/ O: T, E$ x5 [a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 @2 M# X0 o8 K! ]2 z3 ~
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. \3 @4 w* c% _4 j2 f2 v
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ r. g0 d) a- b3 o- O- X3 G: ?4 P

, b, Q  C6 r1 pJust another thought on lonliness:
! v+ \- R% }, m2 lLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
+ j: b0 ~6 F; l# _* V. G" JBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 c9 _: Q) O( P, E6 d2 T
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
; R  d( b0 I3 I' w& _空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 v; V% D' W% A- L' i
很少會超過一天～
% V* V" A5 O3 S8 Q9 N要期待更好的明天呀！