熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 I3 K( G. ^% ^" m8 L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" K( S6 I$ y$ c: m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& J; G* J; p& e" T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: \' J$ K9 y: m1 X2 n
覺得好空虛. H0 o& [- P, M+ T
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 F: H. U) x- x% e$ S卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; C2 ]$ o8 W2 W6 X, C9 a; i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 g7 V% c6 k8 G  k" Z
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 X6 I1 H/ U9 m: W+ n1 |
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- \. P7 A; B; S/ S6 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# t# X# Q& k9 Q" ]9 E4 o+ O
日日有車站,
+ a3 m4 n$ W% @, L- Z$ U3 v: A有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 t  k1 X! O. H- t* C7 e( T* s
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  K& C, v' f; J0 x9 d4 f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  g* n8 ^' J" Y5 [% B  V4 Z: n
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 H1 i+ M& a( j5 R
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心., Q+ s" r9 Y1 T9 [% A
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 D1 h1 p4 d$ a8 e; L3 _5 L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 q' ]# P2 S- S  L  L) l- o
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 f, ~/ n+ w. a) [- }! s
日日有車站,
2 K( U  y5 B$ c. P7 k0 z有目標!

6 p" C! s: ?9 f( I' {what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ E) M( |' B7 k- e+ X0 E, J# P: ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  j' v0 c0 b2 M; p2 {5 k- P7 w好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# R; K- L) [* ^( j% e8 `( x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ V6 Y& B7 f9 t# k, j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. x! D' G& g& `4 f; n% I覺得好空虛
; r! u4 M( I, L* z( B  h其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 }; ^3 ?- u- n) }/ v4 w# {$ ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ Q8 |2 d: R/ A1 k* n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; V; o2 k, n/ \

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& K$ o- |+ f( g; x  v
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 x- H! i) P. B9 t4 R& A有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" A: {9 P" {. l  aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 m' a8 T" z8 \4 K: B: M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; h. A4 I$ \$ x
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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4 I6 a$ X" d7 nJust another thought on lonliness:
) Z) [  a  D+ B" x' ]! C+ kLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ W/ h2 @: n% w! L% w1 l, w# f
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
; S& i9 X) ^3 u7 u; z我會有一種十分空虛的感覺! j) ~9 P; ?- [' d2 e
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. C. F3 H8 E, ?; |; g或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～4 l; ^9 f6 H: t
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉! h. U# Y! _; t  F' D/ \
很少會超過一天～8 {& b% {# X; D: A7 ^; j; [
要期待更好的明天呀！