熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; s/ c' g& K0 B' V5 A) @7 }好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 G9 b) O8 d( g, J- b% p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. K/ w' g  o) j8 [# a
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 o1 R7 v- \8 s9 Q3 G覺得好空虛5 R3 h  v" {& y5 W2 O% q( ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 s3 C- w5 U* `3 W8 s: B3 q# e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% x0 b$ r& p- Y' Q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ Y) r5 p5 M) h
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- O3 U3 U  F/ P6 j, E
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 e9 L/ @) a- A2 ~3 I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 T# A# o% E; g: Q
日日有車站,
$ `" a9 g: u2 ^: L" Z有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  U) Y$ H! I# p; `
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. k% v4 V7 O+ O2 l- [5 C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.0 d4 D7 Z6 e+ Y( o" T  ~. D7 A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' V1 p2 y2 ~, q) @' c9 q5 d
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
) B$ B0 Q- z. T; F總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ m3 f% D1 x, }3 [) K1 L# _8 b5 q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' j. c9 v% b( }2 O9 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( c8 p; y- ?- ?% Y' u日日有車站,' ~( K; R: ]) L/ H+ A4 e
有目標!

) T. d, k2 Q3 ^what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* n2 t( k) O8 i" P1 Z" O7 y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! @+ d( }* W. G5 c  ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- g, o' b3 Y; i& B% l/ f' H/ x$ m8 `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, A+ S, X5 U7 @. \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, h" l; ~+ n+ P  E
覺得好空虛
' O" Q9 K7 O8 t" H& X其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 P8 n0 v2 ~4 X! X' ]4 [卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* l$ A( l: g7 G' K: _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
3 b5 [  u+ p, [唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.! M& g1 N' y5 K; w3 h
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., L9 t# _, ^; e6 u4 ^' G

+ l) E7 B$ H! P4 K3 t, @! |( rPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ h: Y8 v: s  b0 f2 na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 A- Z* V" z. ]" C# }8 c; r& w/ l3 pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; L- b2 G8 ~: B1 B: d
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ {" u# r  H& w0 A& d8 L4 u

! X3 X+ b, @$ {  [Just another thought on lonliness:
5 v' u2 @* U4 h- b; I) X" q) GLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 o8 P; y" I- p) }% E/ s* `
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 I4 b$ [/ U! C& E" i6 t
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% b' K+ g; o5 X/ ?& d( w$ k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 O) d/ T5 g( j  O- T很少會超過一天～
: O  H$ C* P" [4 V. c要期待更好的明天呀！