熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# C. V$ M+ [( E1 ?. O7 ~8 _
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. m4 q9 l4 G7 a/ \' q0 G+ ]
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) W& T: s  v* J; v( ^' _2 L" i1 d個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 N8 ^$ h5 c2 Q" a) r9 B覺得好空虛1 c' ~1 j$ t7 \4 z3 @% S% I
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! q* [; _$ T- a# C% C. R2 |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! b6 P6 S3 S& v5 I+ w  i2 k5 P, P: b1 W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 I( I* Y$ p$ l9 P; |1 h: v* D0 B7 F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: u  X" ]& D. n4 f) g
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 y% `! Y/ P4 c, P- s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( Z0 }" a0 d, f7 K. x0 R+ p3 o+ X4 h" N日日有車站,
. I5 f' c6 b4 j" ~& A有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. V! G% z8 R& o" ~  a1 {! F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: F. o; \1 \# U5 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 D& v0 O. O8 e8 n: u1 t  O0 \我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ H) r- U# G+ q8 F2 x
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& b9 a; e/ k4 W6 v. H# Z& r
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* R- S& J4 _' x" `4 z+ N
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: Z0 I- z. D+ p& e其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ G- J, E: R/ _5 g% a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( l9 ~) }% E, o% u日日有車站,
9 @" C( N: E( r, b; R有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 u" J: ~5 S4 }. K' K: S3 I如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' W# L" K/ P. z% K1 Y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 B8 O& [# i2 _2 q. B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 E+ C9 w! J; M5 t- T/ h9 C; Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: o4 h$ R6 f7 B$ x, |, {覺得好空虛
2 W8 S8 [* m# S" `0 ~- [6 `9 u其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 T0 H8 A+ Z. `2 a7 a! s卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; j6 [; Y* o: M; c/ s: u" a用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; x! f8 Y/ b6 _! B4 h' @- x這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( k2 B; O  ~# P0 ?: l& \* S5 D+ `唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.1 W6 s% w) p* M( x) f( H- r
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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8 M( u8 t, \/ |; s3 DPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& q% u8 K2 c0 \' ]a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  ~" p- U7 }1 `. z- k# U1 \
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 n& v2 e, j. K! c( _& t
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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- v$ F; e/ I2 @) M/ d: ~5 h8 MJust another thought on lonliness:2 w$ h4 }8 @; E; q0 l7 g" {4 v6 n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 {* u2 S3 ]3 G6 eBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 |, d8 o- E2 ^. R( A0 {2 m
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# M$ H  h4 p. W, Y1 `% {( [
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影. a6 C; M$ t$ \( t9 D  K
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 M& A: }* X, a2 F2 g5 N: @  r" ?
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- I0 J# r. E# G. V, g9 T! _9 j/ v很少會超過一天～3 V# ?3 |) q' G! a. b( z2 `; E# R& O5 K
要期待更好的明天呀！