熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 T# C2 z. c3 V* g好唔鍾意呢種感覺# i. U/ R4 y' r' y* b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% o# B( p4 C1 }. i2 `. L8 N4 C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* a: w6 z7 y( n& B9 |7 \
覺得好空虛/ b) Q7 J& m* W- ?$ N! t
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* A, }( Q% w( P% M  y7 R0 G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 W. }5 h5 y& g8 }! v- g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( _. P- L3 E! L% y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: E6 Q" }2 a; X8 E7 k+ G9 c, j熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) k- I$ f& E  t# \$ T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 d! @6 ?0 s9 {6 g  ^
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙% }4 b1 Q5 o* \4 x9 ^$ T! B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) q6 Y6 e/ ?' O" r5 `3 I! @6 C# a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' b, w9 z1 z/ c0 b* \$ c8 I6 t我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 l: O1 I4 C1 L# m7 V7 b& u* u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 J, d3 k: ?, [; X5 b6 f7 H* g玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ e, e3 o$ y1 ?8 m0 D總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( F: w7 M3 l* C- E7 x9 E& x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 S4 \/ f$ J# ?! [
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 b; ]) y3 j2 p
日日有車站,& i% Z# j3 ]6 F$ b, x
有目標!

+ }) E/ H4 E- j+ B2 J5 z3 Xwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& b5 |; W( X" T5 R. |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" V9 k) S7 N( U, v' [/ [; G) k+ t好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 O9 h& P2 _3 d琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) D! `5 T5 u' l9 y- c, ^
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& j) Y+ Q, ~0 |$ i
覺得好空虛% Q9 p( r5 @0 d& A4 H! j9 e* E
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 k' p4 H* z  ^, s& ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ J3 T2 r0 J5 S0 C
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 V2 }4 h5 O" r0 O7 t

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' `7 e  Z$ j, \0 j1 [. Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 X  H8 r9 u/ ?! [# b: q! ]
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  v2 [/ p2 r; }* f, _1 Z* R/ g有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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% J6 Y: t! z0 @" w+ S+ iPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 h- i+ S5 l9 N  L7 X
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long* q" I4 E  X* G$ O
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
( L5 E$ x6 k+ R! \- z, c1 h, Pc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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7 B. O: K: t9 p2 E& [  ?Just another thought on lonliness:
% C4 r5 ]/ g9 t) {! c5 ~Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 F# X8 S+ O9 @9 j! T' PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 r- U1 t  g( m7 g6 w
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺" \! C0 g; p6 `
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 Z5 A' ?7 d% e5 J% [* g
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& u* g7 X, c- D/ p( L8 F& R* O7 M
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 {  V+ p7 X% K很少會超過一天～/ K2 l  T7 S  s
要期待更好的明天呀！