熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 s4 I; v! G) H5 w1 c
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! w  |& Z3 W5 }- {# b& J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, j; x, y+ Z: V6 p. C1 x" D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 N3 v" `) t' Z3 ?) C. k
覺得好空虛2 b5 A- l( i: }& y$ r4 y7 W: }% X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( i& m6 H; ?& ~$ r# _) a8 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 Z5 M4 F# Y' P* e5 w: U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' p. u7 z  U7 d! d; ^" S* `: S
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 B3 M8 K" n) ?: y2 S熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 W- Z8 e9 A/ z8 d- L所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& `( ^4 N/ Q7 g) p
日日有車站,( ~1 G& z- d1 s6 P. V# c& T+ S/ A3 g
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 D" Y0 b, l" D+ [( c. [8 T* Q7 h
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" ]/ v3 X8 p1 G+ M7 h4 I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
0 F! D- z8 L) j' Y( M( c6 E4 p) R感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; g2 K  L& T( F; a8 |1 O
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& ^7 {; [. B8 _( j3 Y0 Q% r$ ?8 q0 a
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: h: \; q: y, ?5 u7 `% ]; I其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ X, x0 a- Q2 [, Q2 T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ F9 [0 R9 g0 X  C% o5 j  ]
日日有車站,
7 a% _9 F* D  F' V1 r7 u$ _% r有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 d+ N. z5 L0 d. S8 N, N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ f) [2 J; \! N8 g% [好唔鍾意呢種感覺* H1 p* Z4 R' V4 m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 M$ ^7 n5 W3 Z3 N" O" Q% c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( T# n- D8 x" G  |! D
覺得好空虛' |* G9 t( m& Z) H5 S2 ^# V
其實早幾次都有試過係咁- C* f& P' y+ L/ w$ I
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 x: S  D& ?& G
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 j# z) z5 Q, K

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! i, W$ N: H% u+ \唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 ^* x; F3 L0 X; R# |# C3 v) `有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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- i# O; K: ~$ I9 m- g  K/ @- n4 SPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! r1 j6 w/ A+ d9 \) o. f4 ua) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  ~8 L0 l) U6 {1 _* {4 Bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 a5 U% F" i( i; i  B. }
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
6 T1 ]! K7 I& H$ R; DLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. d3 n8 E5 B8 kBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
. r$ v& L, U- p0 M3 R我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- i- D$ |$ h/ Z( i
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  k+ E3 K0 N- T( i8 r5 C% j或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 f( }3 O; x/ a5 }7 o
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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+ K" A+ @7 W  R要期待更好的明天呀！