熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 b& p5 G: _  k" t2 c" z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. l( B. O( v1 n* D0 L5 Z6 D5 F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% R% h( d; Y! Q; i) D6 q: ^7 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) o% b- ^! T8 S0 U
覺得好空虛
: M( @  M" m( P6 a其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 o' F! [, s& s( U, ^. J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# E/ l% ~  a% F用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. R! l# p/ t7 y
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ u& R( K: f' z) f. E但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ R( n( y4 m4 d3 }
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 m# }' j- t! e# b8 J3 o  k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ T& ~  ?9 f6 r4 c日日有車站,, s+ N1 o$ w* o% n3 g/ i+ B
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 |2 r7 a- h5 r9 X: v+ x' }
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* x( o9 Q% u7 q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- f6 U7 Y: n  y' f- s6 g" u) y感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..7 h+ [5 [% \) m! m+ i5 E; s
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  ]  |* v) d% [1 t5 ?( H1 i
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 {5 T0 n( D* @$ S! s
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 a0 H: K$ k+ Z. c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) X% R7 k1 }4 Q) r$ z8 p5 v& u
日日有車站,4 q  k; D+ f7 b! I8 u( T
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  O5 K: @1 Q7 J8 R2 o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 s: E* B" Z; W" p8 ]1 k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' W+ ]9 [- E8 [: H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 H1 J0 f$ z/ T! g! V. B4 |0 L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 V8 k( i( h, N  y$ S9 S- _
覺得好空虛
* `2 D. s" G% v# J7 `% F其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 p0 C% v7 }# n( ~$ n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 R& t" v( J2 r$ t+ T7 O* u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 Y9 I/ @* m6 F. Z/ D

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, @' C) w6 Z* c' u" a2 m這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; Z$ [) {; d: D$ V
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  w' X- {* z4 |# w0 c5 T  c
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* b% H3 I9 j. H+ A5 s4 ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
1 P9 L7 n: y, _+ U6 [1 Tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( T# R7 m2 J' M7 M' N' }6 U1 s  p
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." ]% t, U5 t1 J! _# r, |8 A0 d

; P! M6 R( o6 }/ K" oJust another thought on lonliness:2 J- x0 |2 R! N3 K0 x1 V
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 ?3 ?/ T1 d# @; X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～: a6 Z1 I2 D# {3 ~; y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
  g& _+ u6 F) l就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ M$ c* I& q, ]. ]0 B或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: W9 p4 N* `& o# J0 Z! c/ E0 Y空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' w# |: a' f. K: U2 X9 {, r
很少會超過一天～4 |* c0 F& Z1 B0 u; C
要期待更好的明天呀！