熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 v% k9 T. i3 W9 h/ O: a& g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ E+ E& \- g  z& m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! Q. G: T+ M  N  ~( w0 r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' W, \; H$ U7 f/ \) o1 G
覺得好空虛5 s1 ]' K1 K) I; \6 k' n# ?- G
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% ?' ~3 E  @# L& S
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! M2 B3 k$ N* O' B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% o6 E' h8 g, ]

/ ^; X  f  c* s, a6 E9 p[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! t. J; ^0 x2 ?6 c" }+ }0 c% b  l2 [但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* u( I6 m7 j+ c4 H# e熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 V( k3 v0 l& @
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 ~5 t% ]. R& A( r& |
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. c# O" L, a3 S$ m& Y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ q/ z" a' s3 F0 G, v2 Z& ^
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..7 K. J; ~( ]% Z# H+ x
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 g, j' Y& J% L* z7 z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 w9 ?: S7 J3 u5 e$ Y% `" @( g
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& R# ~) n& `+ L$ g5 G. q) t
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 c6 P7 N: J$ Z
日日有車站,0 q  k0 u7 D! z) Y0 p6 C: v1 C
有目標!

& y* v+ @5 d' s! S$ G+ B' n/ Zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  k" d- }- S8 k+ d2 `8 I" ~
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 t% u) {9 h6 e$ a9 M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 H' b" w- E* k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 B1 H7 ~, M, a5 ]# b" A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  q7 q$ g8 E+ ]+ J4 ^0 `8 k& B4 ~覺得好空虛( [7 J- Q; \+ ?' R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 @- a5 \. r& k1 t1 X; A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. k" Z2 f) I' O  p; @6 x1 f8 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* z' |4 f4 c" c9 b

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 x7 c2 z3 k) [- {, J
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' E; B. U- I; R8 ^% I) @+ [有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: I% m$ U) L9 }& e1 f
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: h$ j; A6 ?4 T3 K9 l: r+ e
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long0 U( Y5 @3 h7 l; l$ i
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- I' l6 U  t% O! mc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" X6 H# M: w! I  h2 jJust another thought on lonliness:
4 D, n$ ?$ a2 z1 `( `7 {1 cLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
7 ^! z* {) F$ E! M/ S' U0 f! p* ?, sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
2 D; _* c+ a1 F( Y  U: M) f8 O我會有一種十分空虛的感覺! w" @7 I1 I& P+ Z/ U8 H
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 u, |7 p; o. T7 `或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 q/ j% H6 s" e- P3 y空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 e$ p' m4 \3 B7 h. {9 m很少會超過一天～
5 z5 D; e9 y# j' t- u  }7 T要期待更好的明天呀！