熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; v1 g4 F- K) z8 e7 @) y" E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 C/ i) ~5 Y* s  w, o! x8 r1 h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: _) J2 f8 O: |" @# J3 M個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 Y9 m  I+ t2 Y+ ~1 |# m* Y覺得好空虛
- @7 t$ W% N0 J& l3 B其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, F4 M5 Y3 X1 ^' r6 P卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" |* h4 |. g4 ]
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 M; h1 z8 A9 _% R! R( E$ n

3 C; B4 N; j- D6 q% n" }[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
; d3 f4 ^8 l/ X- \, l  j. q但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 `2 g4 c1 z4 y( r$ e5 @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 E2 z. P8 A7 T' c* q2 |3 B
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 {5 r- M9 j. r+ M2 v
日日有車站,
0 ~0 W2 T1 {5 k8 W- Z) G有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ S$ N, E5 L- t4 f% J$ {你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' s, L% M+ ?) t; D1 |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 @7 H: ]2 {/ x/ ]: S. j% ^
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 ]' W# U# X4 B9 H% i
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# o3 o: `4 J0 o9 l8 S
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* S6 c+ m( R! I8 z! h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 E! G& P1 B, a- U; p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  m; U0 K, @! @5 F5 E
日日有車站,
: H# }+ O! V# J8 k+ v: `有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 U) _8 U' N! A( `2 [  Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# {: _, a; ~$ c; L4 x
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, u7 S: w/ w1 V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# J6 l6 z& {& y2 ^6 [1 L% a# a個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) R2 W7 O8 z* |! e) B' x( p1 l覺得好空虛, n* I. ^: q# c8 L, m7 C
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. R5 t: F- j4 h$ [. `) ~1 M0 ]$ E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 f1 A7 ~$ b3 @! B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# y5 f; |) [. d8 E8 c( R( I3 [9 k( d唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 C+ r" e# [5 `) P- ^* K) P9 o
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ m( s3 V: T' M( W* e% |

6 f* o: J  i6 V& P4 J* rPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ O. |/ ?6 l$ J/ B$ @a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ i" W. F& d+ _b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# e- _$ }( S. y: w  i7 \5 @c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. F9 G% n4 b- n9 _
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Just another thought on lonliness:; ~' F8 _0 p9 `- U4 ?, t
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
7 w8 X+ Z7 O& G# WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 U+ Z- S5 k% O4 `/ p. _+ V$ d: B
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 N" S) y$ Q8 w- O
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, y, Q8 c$ X$ U$ D# ]6 I或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: W( J9 e1 r! T" d空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: X0 E2 `0 t8 m; Y, h' ^
很少會超過一天～9 {. `/ p! J$ O. s& O
要期待更好的明天呀！