熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 z7 j6 f# ?* o% K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% H. H( s8 U+ k+ ~6 v4 w7 [
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: c! C/ a: U1 E4 K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! e  j( r' ~" C覺得好空虛  g% C2 j! I1 _2 p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, c3 @+ f* ?. J7 y  W( C4 l卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 n! k8 V1 E5 w0 {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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$ y* F6 E3 D% N2 `! V* i[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ h1 c7 v) n! o- p
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* x) a" r' x0 K- c0 A& k* {
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 E5 k) w- H; ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 K( I% v, k/ B( s# m
日日有車站,) r& E6 b2 V( x; `' D% f: s% F
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
+ D9 y) l. s" @7 k! Z3 p你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 M/ a* }4 S0 [8 w8 e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

  n* D) h. k+ g# w- `我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 V5 W1 k% O' V6 R4 I- `
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
" c# q5 L( N2 u# L玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* }7 x  c5 {8 H6 U0 j' M! X" W
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* e1 e! b6 W& q5 D
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 y3 L% P  s; p  O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 N+ N" x2 v* ^; S/ V
日日有車站,1 p5 ~0 @1 W0 {  y
有目標!

6 N3 s9 ~/ D( c% }  K5 Ewhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. h& i7 N7 ^! R* N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 s- ^7 e8 O% y& R1 C好唔鍾意呢種感覺# u$ o& C& n' L+ Y# h( H* z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# m( }$ F1 v( E) r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 _6 X8 E) J$ K' w$ p覺得好空虛
1 r8 R3 n% e8 p5 |! B/ e其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' ~* f5 i1 S$ J* D5 l卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) O, V. |8 I9 R' p9 c. M5 {' W; z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
& ~6 M9 Q# D; w3 J7 o- u! H唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: S& _9 d3 A& i' q& _- r, B有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ M, Y9 D$ O$ f- y% W7 ]

, g. h( \4 P# ~2 SPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 m2 l" e0 V  H
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
, d8 ]% h, g$ X: [7 Ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  @# {: B; }( r" A
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.9 J0 M: u; V8 }; D8 S; u" _8 Q, g

6 M4 Z4 U5 f* DJust another thought on lonliness:
$ I2 Q  W  A  r( `$ L1 i* m9 HLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 L/ g& h4 z$ c6 uBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ L4 _& r; }5 B. T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' @4 h- s9 z* G: V: c  @, {" ?% r
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 E( ~6 i+ a, Q  \( n1 I/ @
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% o% F' F0 m/ s9 x& c; b; X空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ ]; K' F6 [6 |' ~" o  t* @- K; z很少會超過一天～/ H* F! D- h* @2 M7 C6 \( H
要期待更好的明天呀！