熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 G) N" v4 a& n8 b( P4 _
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' q  k& ~4 R" ^' K7 X9 u2 B
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. X( u& m8 G+ d5 T( N: ]2 n個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, v% J: |9 C6 x
覺得好空虛6 o& Q8 I# j5 u1 s
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% ?6 m' x/ R2 i8 R  n7 a8 d卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ N  r& B/ R) R3 R; g% s) e用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% U" I0 |% x8 [: Q9 L
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% m( W. S+ z* z% ^4 e
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. N* n- P9 m; c所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# }5 |( q4 N! o* Z. r2 {" B日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙) H0 |$ ?, U0 t
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, Q( P3 g, r- C! S& r& h) f如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 U$ X7 t% C1 h( r$ Z! f/ c我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 m  z' e2 Y  I0 M. p) O
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' H) p! \1 i$ Q- C$ j% u玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ U5 J/ [7 E# h: v2 @" g/ z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. a/ w& `6 K" C2 ^8 L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) Q0 X2 g5 e  `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; Q4 x" S' R  C. j7 s% F日日有車站,* z' _& P5 J  l+ R* G% A# g
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ y4 [! m6 `2 t4 Q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; J9 j0 r8 O0 |# R* V/ h! K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ q, I$ b: c) D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) @  W  U7 g8 s# Y- z$ m/ @# R+ D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! K3 t: ~. f4 ^# k  z. i* j& q) C# M# {0 U覺得好空虛! E2 U7 i$ t+ h: r: f* ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 l; _7 Y/ W% }" Y! r4 C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; A0 b. ~: V) |- g: V+ S* w* j用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 v' a. r, y- D! R+ u( t8 U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* h) u/ W6 F. p4 w3 D8 d; F
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) J3 Q  n1 l5 v% b' P* A2 p$ z
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 I6 F5 c' ~* g3 a1 \7 X) X
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ q8 @! g& E, S" h/ `
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.' L" @. \+ H; m" M
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.* V. [; h9 d) Y! M& L2 b2 w8 E! Z

' d+ ~0 {9 D, I1 o# G+ A* J' z/ M4 MJust another thought on lonliness:" w: p: L2 d/ I# O: m" m: x: ~* K
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ l2 h+ o7 X( a$ P, }4 A: Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 N# W7 N; V/ g' z9 Q/ u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ u# V# [3 `: x. Q1 h) g/ L* s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影0 k$ h/ a. \9 N
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- R4 q2 Z2 q1 [
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
& r% a' A. `0 M# _5 f6 P$ I1 \$ y很少會超過一天～
) y! E5 `/ d0 _1 D( [' Y要期待更好的明天呀！