熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) N# D* K( u- ^' f5 n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' Y7 ]' i8 f; R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ [9 R4 A, L1 S% V3 m) l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; k5 S: O/ l7 F6 N0 q* @
覺得好空虛& L1 ~! [; f6 v$ b5 n: L2 E3 G
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: |+ Y! K4 x( k* i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, r' q! _( }, J/ O  A9 @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; ~9 a5 U2 {4 s[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 T2 x1 o  ]- b' \$ t# I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 {5 U6 u/ R3 V, i+ w& D! |熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" k/ D) i3 ?" G0 E& J- ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ b8 |2 h9 Z3 Q1 X" k( L5 w日日有車站,
  A* |2 |" U1 m. i  O6 q9 @有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 ]7 }/ t0 H" Y2 V; g; |
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* b/ F. h8 M! b; Q3 Y4 h2 c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 E  c  J0 K% L5 x" K( G4 j) G6 g感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* [- y5 n! ~( `2 @) |+ {, G' j' y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 M7 N/ t5 Z1 `- A$ G: w
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ e) l, _8 _% B$ t6 I5 @/ T
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  k- b! a$ e+ M/ ?* M$ u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( d0 g, f" ]. P! h, Y日日有車站,
4 T# G" t# T1 q1 x, S有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# N& e" b4 I6 ~9 a7 r5 ?: \
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" d. t% X9 |9 t  I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 G  O- T2 i7 C$ P& `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) [7 A7 e$ J# S! l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' [: m- d+ n  o! d/ D覺得好空虛
3 d  w! R1 I+ Y& h; k$ G8 r其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 ?) i2 j5 r7 s  r6 P! {
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 {$ @1 b8 n- X! b! t6 [' U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 K% e4 y; Y5 V* P3 q9 `

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0 e+ Q$ [8 P9 i" A8 E這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! A3 q1 f( `3 v唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* Y2 p3 D( \; _6 A1 t0 }9 w
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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' d7 P  n7 z' l/ Q( `" A7 OPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 e$ H$ V  p6 {& S, H
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 M6 _; l7 K, L5 kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) [3 }" Z2 P# J1 kc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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6 K7 U- M: `& p. a$ \8 Y& B+ Q% y& AJust another thought on lonliness:, x3 I# n4 T# b7 F
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ v, h8 H6 ?, b( jBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' F: E9 G8 f  V! n, x- y4 u* ^  D
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
7 n# e" o  d2 l就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# J1 e. Q: h7 N& ]5 y+ p2 p
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 l4 F3 a/ T+ K) X$ O空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( Y( a9 D" y3 v" A9 a7 E! @6 K/ u
很少會超過一天～
* ^( a) N7 y: f2 u5 w. F要期待更好的明天呀！