熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, ~5 R3 ^6 t( w  |9 ~$ G
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( y  W; X) N% M3 |
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* @- H: T  H7 C/ d/ S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 K3 U$ _7 H# B覺得好空虛: J) K2 t/ ^" [7 K" E1 B. j
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 [1 N2 E, b) r; y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, E2 h. m3 k5 ]2 G& p
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 l: c" |- x0 q+ l+ H9 P6 B  ?

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) i& Y( z" n. q5 e* G# h$ ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
' S$ M  T0 N9 \! W4 z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- o4 F5 _2 @) n# G- i4 p! E7 G" e
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 ^: x5 k  M6 P$ g2 x5 ]. {' Q日日有車站,/ a  \7 w9 L" t
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( v$ ~0 [8 D" t) Z8 S你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( P( F5 O( ]$ E7 d* b$ [5 G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 R# y; U" `) n7 O( f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
5 y3 Y5 i" j, M/ g' S' r感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) |" t! ]$ M$ v& z2 u: ]( N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 X/ U  O/ x+ d2 m4 U
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:5 Y' g5 i" S) W& N- x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 e5 J+ V9 k2 N5 C+ Y  u所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! n, x- I! |/ L2 j0 R9 z- p
日日有車站,6 p1 H+ z, b/ D. h( A
有目標!

; ?2 t/ e* L& o9 d" B5 Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 i6 \; s6 M% P% t& L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 E5 w- p# O& y4 W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 }. D* _$ E! t, i# `' R; D) T/ {琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" @2 j7 ]4 @6 u( u' V  p- S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ {3 a; I) h- X, D, X" W3 Y
覺得好空虛
$ R5 S' `/ |+ l# {  q, q其實早幾次都有試過係咁# w7 `1 y/ ]: F$ p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 P9 e5 H3 {# \) X1 u- i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) d# _  {5 y1 X

0 V& Z: e6 O. R

: Y+ d( h; D2 ^0 Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.2 U' a6 X1 v& F/ a; H
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  t3 @( ]# s, R有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* h( z" O: t( @- ?

# c/ K( e2 _) B! C8 R6 k  `; _People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:& r% L3 M4 g) a1 q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ B# f# A5 `3 u3 r; ]
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 ]8 t" c) k+ f: G2 M3 I% Qc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 b( A% f8 T' Y8 m' ~7 B7 F

$ |6 k& e' G/ c5 vJust another thought on lonliness:6 r2 G+ _5 R. Q" D) O
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 X, U: S$ y, _! C
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～0 H9 O$ }! Q: H* Y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺  K9 L9 ^1 }) Y9 G0 }
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  C4 i" f9 j0 b% j. b, S. h, }/ x) B或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～6 p' z) g# p  K/ o9 ~
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" m) u3 e2 ^2 k& J4 m3 Z+ G% _3 z
很少會超過一天～0 C! [5 Q: `1 L& J
要期待更好的明天呀！