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% q: N' ^. ^# m6 W假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任9 G4 s. o' N9 G1 ]2 y% U/ C
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
2 ?+ B0 `3 `4 I. @) Jconsider in the following (not in order):- K3 Q  |$ g; m# I! J1 \7 G+ r

9 N( c7 a: ?3 q4 B3 P3 w1st, how close the relationship we are?
) v' C5 N' T( W) @$ v0 m2nd, how serious he/she has done?- F8 `! ^; a1 C
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?/ o# f; I* G/ g% |; C, _
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?" d1 Z- s/ p1 @- ~

  e7 u! o/ L: F" s' ^& Kfor me:
) D4 z/ V. b) K/ Ui may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.1 f1 W/ V) f9 N6 L! C
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
( ?) V4 t6 H8 N% ]7 w* Cbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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' s" J9 L/ e* k$ A* Ybut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
8 L8 D" i' G+ T# l6 ^( f第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
, g! D' s' N+ V* a人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個& W% B8 E+ F4 T7 U* W5 r
只要有數我都會滅