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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way* F4 T2 c8 K. E6 G l6 i4 [# q
consider in the following (not in order):% s9 O5 [' {( n, \* {$ F; A6 {& s
4 J% |% S% K, b7 i, k6 Y; O2 N/ K2 E2 V1st, how close the relationship we are?" K& {. |" ^% q$ J) ?
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
' Y5 H2 O* m+ s4 c, d# |3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?- W# u, F/ G: p# P0 h
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:! y3 b; G2 e. i
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
5 `# |) C3 P% ybut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
& w7 B1 i/ Z0 ^6 H; r; ^8 s1 P" j9 sbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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