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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way( g; j) `6 g3 E  d. t
consider in the following (not in order):
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) w9 x# h) r# s* H* o1st, how close the relationship we are?2 c) @. B( }# P' [1 i" N1 v  A
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
  E8 W8 V4 m2 ]/ a3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?+ c2 r+ m5 ]( y) O
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?& o5 b4 Z4 d8 K6 Z( n" k

. e/ V: u5 J2 n7 z7 H8 z9 Rfor me:  u6 W- C; G( {5 u) L0 D0 J; x/ c
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
5 E/ b& ?5 n& q) l1 kbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
+ U1 ]* J( d' R6 C) Y+ s2 k! @7 ?but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!- n9 g3 I3 i8 v

& @7 `* {& r# Bbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
. [5 R/ S. Y0 b5 _/ y) E8 T第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。9 g7 `9 n9 G0 ^, T
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個% }2 L# I  |1 T- k4 M
只要有數我都會滅