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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
; x# e6 v% s3 F9 A4 s4 \* ?consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?$ r: [5 N9 x: X) V$ D" _% D
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
2 \& `, N8 Z+ H$ ~- c0 R3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?* p+ I# ^! P+ Y2 Y
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?; v* v; }" t% v. F2 J) v
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for me:/ W( k3 r, y& I9 d, T
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
3 B' q) Z, c6 {; f7 c" `but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
* H. o# B% O1 n* F4 m7 ybut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!+ r$ b- e( W3 M, o1 a$ Q6 ]5 A }
J; H& U$ T' m) p pbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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