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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way7 V1 K- l% C V1 g l9 b
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?3 Q/ ]# u; o/ l' j" E& V7 `, q7 O
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
$ b- D, H( o: b3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
5 D: m0 K" I; T0 _4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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6 d4 t/ `- u0 k' |+ Yfor me:
7 p9 P2 u& n+ P" I5 ci may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
8 T' F8 `/ g& ]& y. s' v) gbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
6 Z$ q/ B) l) t4 w( J& ~% m/ hbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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