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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
7 a4 Y& b+ [8 f4 N$ i  X3 K7 Econsider in the following (not in order):
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: @  P2 e2 Z0 H. T4 r1st, how close the relationship we are?
& s4 N( g% B9 E$ f$ O2nd, how serious he/she has done?( D" q" L( c/ A+ G
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?; R. X. q4 i! Y9 H" r0 G, D  g
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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# _4 U+ b  _( Cfor me:
9 r. `) ]+ v: d" u& `i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim., c3 J5 R+ m0 \( ]1 H
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
1 q3 M- S- ?8 R) s+ ~3 t% Dbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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4 e) v7 k$ G6 ^+ w) K% H6 Tbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
4 ~% `3 d/ h, D第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
8 |7 h6 o3 r8 o: @" h* \  S人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個- H; s2 y5 |1 Y- L, P" }4 k1 Q
只要有數我都會滅