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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way/ y- j) L9 I9 i1 a& L' _, H
consider in the following (not in order):
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9 l/ K% m) p G7 E: x' h1st, how close the relationship we are?3 h5 B) P4 y. Z! P" s) u" Q
2nd, how serious he/she has done?( k0 a% Y! N$ {$ A7 J
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?/ j, S& w( @$ e7 C6 U% v
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:4 L/ W- a1 L/ T
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.: P8 o8 E, J6 k0 p
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
$ O" L9 ?8 i) {- s8 Jbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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