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1 p  d2 J- |: A$ S2 L  a: X假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way- R3 d; l! `( x" S. k1 Y
consider in the following (not in order):
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; F& X, i- b2 z" g( N+ t0 x2 u9 N1st, how close the relationship we are?
" E8 _* [8 [+ l2nd, how serious he/she has done?
" R- }# E) e2 O5 X" b+ O0 P3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?, T# Z+ O( _6 Y" J1 b
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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. i4 j5 Z) X( c& m: j2 hfor me:
$ @1 ^+ R' O- d3 n' j3 {  o) [i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
7 M1 d$ n( F, J; `9 Mbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
. E! g( k5 d, c. R- h  gbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。+ O: {$ @/ F" K( s
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
8 }% a2 L) ^/ S2 U5 Z4 ]人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個# P( ]' r7 k0 ~3 j) t
只要有數我都會滅