熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ B$ t& V& ?4 M8 Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ ]9 d8 J# H5 w  f- ], W6 Z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. n# U4 d0 e7 S" J( M9 t, |) Q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ V" `3 z( y4 E覺得好空虛
9 a% K, ~, z$ a6 y其實早幾次都有試過係咁" [" X/ @# q5 q' y8 K
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& N9 V7 S) I+ ]; C6 X5 A9 k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
* ?# ~) A! D; v+ O但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- F- ~3 \# A# ^$ ^& H
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 M4 ~$ L5 P! j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; M  @% F/ r( ^日日有車站,
/ W6 M0 t8 ~2 }' d" N有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
$ _1 E  Z8 q4 q% M: K你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! g- ]6 K. C: u8 }. h3 G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( V* q) ]# l$ S( r+ ^; d
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- `7 D9 `( |' n" t  n" h/ Z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 O9 U1 C" f" Y6 B# ^2 \  `
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! j1 Z3 V- f, I* r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  w% s6 G: ?$ r1 U; F3 b) |- c$ m所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) \' g4 X# Y% f+ n9 e" c& a日日有車站,8 j1 R+ p" X! m  b' {
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* d: L* r* S( z/ S" L1 i1 z' s2 u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 t$ D9 u" Y1 D1 Y- x; N: `9 q2 ]好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 t0 e2 x, D7 c' |) [5 |0 X
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  M% C- N! @0 U& R. u1 C/ T# R9 H+ C. S
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% H/ u& Z+ ~. Z覺得好空虛
2 X5 L' K2 T+ P1 c其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 ^# n9 s/ T( q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% w+ O6 v) _, X, R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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# }' E2 k, l* x; I, E- H1 M2 ?這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ N7 b$ M. V, Y$ F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., h! p+ T$ V( K# W
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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8 i  C8 Q0 h5 H( X$ y1 }5 Z( SPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
6 l+ k6 O2 R! G* p* a& j4 Ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) o, }$ I! B, d4 z3 Pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." w: c2 G2 a/ x
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ o: O" O* g! Q) @

, s6 g5 V- y. WJust another thought on lonliness:
# Z0 T: N+ {: ?9 K9 zLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: e* s6 ]4 R2 k
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
+ M2 c5 `9 y3 d( L  t- b我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; H; }1 v2 u6 G" H
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- O# g- c+ i% a% l5 n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
( X1 Y0 ?4 I4 A; s3 f( n空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 g1 Q% ?5 D$ `很少會超過一天～
- ~' j# a" s& K2 l要期待更好的明天呀！