熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) e( B; B1 n& D好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' E/ m2 O4 K  `* x7 `+ p5 }# x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' @% j5 _7 R- l, o6 L# B* s個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! R9 X3 z; d# i6 B覺得好空虛
7 ?; D# v! S$ V1 M- q* I3 S0 R其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 ^$ Z5 u% z8 [卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! ?% |* ]7 a4 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 v4 G1 p& x. ]4 g" ?& o6 `

4 _& ^; {; c0 D0 I- u" \- B[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
, T- h' K; T" m6 |( v  x但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! ~, p. T( a# Q# j) S熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) B! S6 L+ z) V/ m+ X+ ~. ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 R. ^4 ^7 G0 r# Q5 T' d
日日有車站,
; |& [, J5 J& i. f. J有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  b! I5 k; }1 V, V8 p& L% A
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( B) o9 e' ]; l如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., d$ _4 G; n# T( N+ q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 A4 t7 p$ Z# E7 N+ S* G: T6 Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* _) j0 V/ A$ r+ t& _/ F" Q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 ~  s# w* h8 J5 _6 V7 j其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 T% k) z2 e1 k' V" ?所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ k2 q7 o0 B+ G+ P' h7 ?
日日有車站,* I. j: o3 P/ @' I9 ~0 S2 J. E5 C
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 ]! X$ b0 U2 d4 }1 c8 F3 I6 u0 e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 p+ a0 D; E6 r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ w/ f* B  \1 V& ^% K. I% A1 {8 k- X7 V. x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  f/ O2 _/ S$ P. W$ ?( O; y6 |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% _. s. s7 v: j& M( s( t) S覺得好空虛
# _8 I$ N4 g- L% c) R$ X7 z其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ G8 y/ `+ Z5 Q, ]5 I7 u$ J: ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ d4 T$ w& V& {' L8 O1 M8 ]用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" |9 w% _; F6 m, w7 }0 M' R

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/ N5 f7 G* s; P7 Q* S3 _, l0 P/ Z這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 b8 s2 V  g) @  r) V; w唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& Y2 z7 I: A/ k/ d  D+ w' F& G
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 b% `% v$ _) M: u7 X* [
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 H5 c# ?' W$ F2 U& u0 |( q4 H8 {9 ~
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long" m' _# ]: y) j7 B
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; b. A+ Z! E; jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
6 T6 K8 y. N5 k! CLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
% Z; I- K& w" B$ a; I+ o  cBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
# k5 R- V, g2 y9 \; A! z我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
1 A" [! j& h1 q1 G" l1 S: {就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( C) o8 [9 I: P3 R3 n) C
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
! a2 n" B0 N$ _( e" f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
, Z) Y( g, e6 b% d! u很少會超過一天～0 h# R% {# u( z/ s2 P$ Q
要期待更好的明天呀！