熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 R; ?; R! U; v
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 j! A' x( p; L0 [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ @4 Z) k$ k2 m' T8 f- @
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 p, ^! u7 R6 K
覺得好空虛
- Y0 f) S8 P4 q0 J4 K其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- u# ]# a3 a8 e) `' H" S卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; t2 Z( r( s( p; i( n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
" @7 b# i% v: T! j3 e# ?但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 l* q1 j) O1 G' N熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 s% @6 n* W/ x' W" d- W" s2 V: u所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ V2 P# w% }+ D" A$ U# J* S0 J5 V日日有車站,
( B) e! Y6 e* u9 p- Q5 B有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 X& U% K' c, j& h. C0 A" r8 H你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 e0 f- C$ C; [. o" n  i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ M3 c2 E0 a: f' U7 f! g3 l. \感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 k. C( J+ k) p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 A7 E- e, X% A1 G6 w0 D
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* I5 e& D  C; O3 t+ T( {, B' i其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ _1 C" l# _( H7 C' D' ~/ }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ u4 ]. w+ {  g% l( p+ X
日日有車站,+ ]$ d  ]7 i+ w6 r& t/ c3 S  G
有目標!

! d' z! t$ |2 U( jwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' W' \  r8 v! a& d3 L  I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; F4 Q6 j/ C: S; W% O* {' r- v好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 D# M! C$ z" _% b5 N* X
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 [( q6 s8 r8 ?" {$ b1 n' f' x$ R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ m  U1 [) t) x$ Y1 D) x; L" u覺得好空虛/ w7 }2 p( V! y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% D/ j, ?5 t+ h! I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) Q7 o& a/ t- k$ B. @6 G. `用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: D7 ?& M6 q( S- ?6 Z- B

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.  H% }& b" z, Q- y; ^3 b9 n
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 Q/ x- ?& I; u* y有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% X+ Z# _; [/ t6 U# _$ H5 }
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) e7 H$ N5 ]7 z9 l5 `' b
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& ?+ V, D8 Q7 y: Ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  B( Y$ T- Q: jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% e2 d% r+ i6 S" Z

) o3 ^4 D2 j" N1 qJust another thought on lonliness:# }. A1 f: E/ Z$ z
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) P3 R( J5 N3 F; mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" y  c7 q9 \! m# D4 L' V
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% s" T! \; r3 t" j: w
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# O# D( [! d+ N( u, K
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 O1 f7 `# Z, h  }* j- W! g空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# C" n5 o  w1 O* x, L5 k
很少會超過一天～
  Q' p5 J8 v2 w" Z- k5 l6 T要期待更好的明天呀！