熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% ^- B, q9 r) ^" C2 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺% J( [1 H+ a9 r) ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 d/ I6 K# c5 P" S3 [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' s# F0 `3 z6 `9 I7 g6 p( }% s* p; Z覺得好空虛
2 V$ {6 c9 ]* L, B7 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# N7 c, J9 e# k! ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. `1 r$ P* `' G
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 j8 w; H- a# M; s但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 D! V# [$ ?: Q- _4 _5 F熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, n. }# D- p% t8 F0 `& d) Z' R0 ]; m
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* v& C. {8 d* p8 {$ n$ V
日日有車站,4 H  }6 m- [8 A9 J+ q& S
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, {9 |, j9 F) l1 t8 n/ [
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, C3 U+ Q( l' E0 |- P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 W( v- {1 S- T6 E- M+ s$ g我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 m% m: }% i& ], P3 ]+ q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; C! M1 n  H$ K6 @8 Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 x3 P! \7 I0 p$ }6 D總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 a  [0 |# z% S- ^  d' ?& J0 L0 n! i  U
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 w5 Z- n2 X  ]1 w所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 d: E. p) K( A2 b; J: p( E
日日有車站,
' `3 ^- F1 {' T! T5 |3 O% O有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( I3 _% w4 q, L3 a# R+ S* S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* V* i% |4 R, P1 p1 ]0 c# N好唔鍾意呢種感覺& i2 j& g" L+ `, {' V0 E9 p4 _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, g/ j5 O! f1 w2 ]' B3 R8 j9 Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 a! p  i" ?; d( M; e0 F覺得好空虛! y* {; g8 T" B  G
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. C* w1 J$ M0 ~' r3 R/ Z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% C7 ~$ w; H5 H/ b5 G$ V" p& D1 Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ S8 C1 Q* p& r0 l唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& T& V9 V3 }  W) _
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; t+ Y  {" o# Y2 A; o+ o$ O8 R3 L3 _: w

: p/ r( n0 V# vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 L" H7 `% N2 u7 K0 Za) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
' @! D8 O& b' ^3 f) qb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 Z# U* `$ ^- C( f9 [  V
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
8 f1 G- q" n' B% s* P, qLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 Y( m* P4 w$ p0 H8 w- h$ tBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ ~: ?- \; X* {" }+ [- w# p7 P
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& ~$ g& C6 ?6 s0 n) {; B
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 V  Y; \1 J6 _, @- u, Q
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 ]: o3 r& X7 ^, i0 f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- e+ A2 E: }% K/ B! C' r; j: b
很少會超過一天～
' d; q+ {8 M+ {5 Z7 y- ~要期待更好的明天呀！