熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 E: a$ v- d& U& x* k$ g好唔鍾意呢種感覺' P) i& d; Z3 ^. P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 K; C5 S- r( m# ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 f7 {, p4 o( i5 h# o. j  P; P
覺得好空虛
- K3 E! v0 _! m4 j" n1 R( W. S其實早幾次都有試過係咁, q+ T4 n: q3 P/ g7 b$ k% }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: s" v5 ^& Q; a. u: E6 D2 e6 u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! a8 p8 y/ W; [! n% ^

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
" \$ I0 i6 u0 \( s' _但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 c8 q/ r  x% N9 i
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! l5 Y$ H4 J2 W; g& i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( Z2 O! @- v9 r- S+ {5 }+ T日日有車站,, ^' l$ i: S$ u# m2 u4 T+ ~
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 Y6 N) m4 ^7 F1 Q3 ~  I% h
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; ^  P7 q! m; _) p/ L如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 T- g1 c# `1 c- S3 E2 y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. A* ^, K. E% M5 _7 Q2 s& n
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
& j" m8 y, i0 p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 x% t& y0 [# Q0 y" ^7 D0 ~總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! S" u* ]2 S; ]5 c- X其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 T1 g" g+ P, z4 Q& f; Y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( z) O1 ]/ F0 b: Z4 q日日有車站,
3 P9 c+ m' i% W, Y7 B' Z有目標!

& |$ f9 g( c' o( `' V8 iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# t8 o7 H0 N0 L/ I4 r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 ^. L& f" @" m8 P6 p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* X. o5 Q! Q( `  b: {! y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* ]/ x6 O' v  t4 V! r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  d( m) ^8 S3 q7 \& I
覺得好空虛4 F  G; c9 A+ g/ H# ~: X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; i7 e& Q) W& i7 R( M5 \; t卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 X: @( X$ Q# Z0 e
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 W  M. T( c# `/ A& r9 c

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ o3 e$ ]: q0 |! |
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.7 k7 A, \  ]1 V/ C
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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4 s+ p* B( H5 Z) t  ^$ z  mPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 K" H3 p  `" J( P3 ~$ }4 K
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
5 m4 I; ^$ R2 ?5 e* Mb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ U; F* P. }: }: u( r7 G
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- G8 L9 X! [- w$ r8 G

# H" A! ?. Y" f# E' g5 I) WJust another thought on lonliness:
8 A% F) S- I' P& \& r) NLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 _! y6 l" e! D+ B9 Q
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 U. i: e' F9 q* V我會有一種十分空虛的感覺8 n  D2 w8 B4 _: s9 t
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( x6 u$ b. R/ `. K
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 o( l1 A) m; r9 k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉6 W) n1 ~/ V/ j2 s- g
很少會超過一天～# v6 s2 L  k4 l1 \
要期待更好的明天呀！