熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 d0 G0 H+ J4 @9 O
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( [- F: p" d& g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 x. _3 @$ `) b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 Q/ R6 U1 i. [1 b+ q# n( ?1 |4 u覺得好空虛
' V* U1 V! v) R4 O! q: o. e8 h其實早幾次都有試過係咁* G4 i; s. W* r' n# S
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) K' J( L7 ~; V) q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ i) M+ v9 C1 [7 `; m- P5 X+ c: d

4 y% @/ H& \& T1 j7 D3 k$ u" N[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 }8 l  c: k; K+ \3 M( y* u2 T. D但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 R3 ]5 n9 C8 c( j# \熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- y' u' c4 c0 f6 S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. J3 b& `2 N- @日日有車站,
4 h& _# \- v& w0 u5 ]有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 o( T* t; V3 s2 f你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. T4 L  \$ V& _3 y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; Z+ ], X+ B+ `/ b
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞../ {( J, ~8 G3 E
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.6 y8 `9 e6 W& D8 a
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:% l8 G4 Z. g. p" Q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  p+ ]& ~, @7 h. U所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 }  S% ?4 ^4 J2 v$ d, V, d日日有車站,
: p9 o' {0 r- g有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 ~) Z& m+ m$ p( ?; }9 c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; F5 y/ ]' {+ d0 U+ D; l6 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 P+ f6 U) J; k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& {3 C- r4 S/ }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ `/ m; ~( [- v) [# U# K3 M8 d6 E. m覺得好空虛
; T% {  \) F- |3 v其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 ]+ Q# c$ A" K$ K3 N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- H8 n( D" F) M: P- I8 T6 X
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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& m8 w; f* A# x$ a這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% O  O( v  J1 s. U! Q! z
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 j  C. [- j' F
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) b. F4 t/ w7 K2 W$ l' b% R
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ d0 A1 N* w( ?  U5 U# [/ \
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; {9 L; ~0 `$ a, a& Y9 fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.! U  q, r/ S: C  E/ n

$ c& ^- u" n- f7 ]+ UJust another thought on lonliness:3 H1 s0 q1 X/ c" r* @8 d: j
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." q! G( j; D* o1 X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～0 H2 e7 D- T+ \0 M: g
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺7 U4 F3 V- f+ O: O2 ], l2 T; E
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 ?& m! \% J8 c: e: A$ ~6 W或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* J. C0 U+ k9 p' c+ M# P- J& f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, W$ b- {7 c6 z& x" Y1 p8 i
很少會超過一天～
( b3 ?) V8 d% ~2 S* P要期待更好的明天呀！