熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# m5 }: n  H/ k好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 {0 l& U* e+ S5 u% }, `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 p' |* w( o: o; T+ d: J6 c$ E# W
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" a- m4 t2 O. I  m) k$ O
覺得好空虛
' x& b+ h- C8 H7 @2 x其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" h: s8 g) H/ u' ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 V9 V6 D7 T1 h) p1 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! m- n- E, B4 e# t% [
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 P/ M( c) W# ~( X. H) h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 W  R. E( M  f* n6 E6 w7 U1 F$ a( K熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 U, P# z$ M) \9 d; V" j5 F8 v
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* ?9 R$ ?" u; f) j日日有車站,
' O" J, v; n) g! D有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: y/ O6 X6 W: h4 u/ s2 q1 e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 ~' p: ~  p) T( ^7 X% n8 ~+ b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: r1 X, ~) H+ S' Y& a9 G我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ [$ B! _8 f; N; \) a' F  G感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
# H2 C0 S  }6 V玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." n' `$ D" r8 Z! O
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:3 T' t- K) i1 M. K
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! b( ?: }; d$ ?6 @. ~: T* F* i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 I/ k5 K, h1 ~2 e, z, `- W7 H, L
日日有車站,
4 n; p. ~& o( x+ j8 Z6 s有目標!

& R1 A; ]  \' |2 {what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; D0 D8 K+ W4 b) ~( V2 L! k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" @& [& r2 ?; N/ @% y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. i& C* v( u7 @" K( b$ c4 n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) H7 s: O9 D% I( G% _# j$ M: f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( u4 k' Q( u0 {# }5 B+ z* k/ S  v0 e5 v
覺得好空虛$ {$ @8 v" N) l' D! e8 K: S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 e/ t, Y- h2 _2 r( p$ H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% L/ G! ]) d. ~: M/ U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; B6 G) o' q2 ]& P

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* N, c0 S/ [: d* X$ `這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- N2 @! B- I! N
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足./ @9 R  k; c1 B- ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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# G1 f3 I/ m% f/ iPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 B2 }! `% d3 N$ G) x/ [9 _( ya) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
5 V* {4 l3 `# Eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
& R" X% D7 h# }1 |) [9 P  ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.! d( j) s7 i4 q2 L: \! l. F
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; t- c# k5 R) d3 N& oLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
  a0 X9 ]- g- S' ?/ ^But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ ~" F0 `/ k. ]我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
* q! `- p) `2 F: v8 W3 S. |1 Z, g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 |7 [5 O+ i0 W  I- ~- B或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 n) w/ z# X8 s- b2 D# _( r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: C2 Y3 _2 J; {9 q( r% U很少會超過一天～
, F6 i4 u4 T3 A2 ~9 t' p9 W7 S要期待更好的明天呀！