熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 `( j9 @7 A( Z5 K3 {$ o好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 ?1 a) C5 f: f4 g$ b- `' `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; T7 T0 w; X$ S* V6 ^" q3 f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 k; j/ t5 d4 ?7 O( B2 b( u
覺得好空虛+ |% x/ o( G3 n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. |2 V* r$ d/ J6 o) n; L9 k
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 _, V1 n8 [5 R7 ]& \
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 P/ ^( [) r$ p7 ~' g
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
& d. L; A+ Y* ~熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 k8 l; [& c: Z  U. X所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 h% |; V3 w: V+ W& }
日日有車站,7 D$ W( e8 M' n+ U6 E
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" E4 f' F/ j7 j! N7 p6 F4 `# Q
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. t* U2 Z. G! Z- s! i) X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ F: V2 k2 p7 P# E8 A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( ^/ ?4 B( ~6 x( W0 {$ h
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ p9 v0 i! Q" n8 ?總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* _) \* |, Z6 c# d  r- k9 t! S
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 x8 C" z$ E8 G. [- Z( X所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 k: Y, k3 m0 j0 Y2 b+ ]
日日有車站,
2 b4 u5 Z! C. n3 P有目標!

; Z7 Q& z, Z" P" t! K4 Bwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( D6 I% d1 [4 `如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( e9 c5 s( W0 l! I; K; j8 \6 O7 ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  `5 w& A* A# X* {: o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; @! F5 D( D( _) k0 n$ r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) H1 V1 S& J* J6 ?1 v. o
覺得好空虛
" B2 P2 Z$ _4 ]$ j4 k其實早幾次都有試過係咁' C3 [  d# s/ T( Q$ E2 q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 [- M: _5 j- g- n8 B1 `用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 b# m+ \; s& p

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- S  V3 T* x8 E" W* a! K1 F. s這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
/ x+ Y% v9 h- a' C) p9 k唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% B0 b) s  K5 g' t$ i有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.- h* n+ n. f/ s7 F

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& _, o6 B+ R3 G2 C6 D: Ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ o; u2 o4 j! T7 z% a) z3 Ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.4 R: E# \/ v0 p3 e$ {  G- m
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.! g) o. s2 k0 F4 L) q# O2 X. z
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Just another thought on lonliness:7 J. R! b& B0 C/ @
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* F0 p* W6 Y  U7 WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
: O" S4 ]* E5 u$ ]- I1 Y" q我會有一種十分空虛的感覺* o9 {; ?( O% _. b
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影" [/ K( S+ v$ N8 z; H" o
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 u$ ?5 y* M, j' J0 B" H空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, |0 f# U5 d6 V& }9 c
很少會超過一天～( t- `% x. a" F- S- R- H; A; c
要期待更好的明天呀！