熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! J4 t) a$ f' P7 [好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' G' M% j7 @* j+ \" }! B8 h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) s6 D7 n2 A7 M8 C% D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 u& A' ~" R- R6 |覺得好空虛
/ y0 d; Y4 w" Q: d; n其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 i4 e6 O3 B: i, J, b$ G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 \, _+ C/ W" E4 |1 n7 g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 |/ Y8 W; X1 ]. y. ?: Z% W9 A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 |# F  p$ f9 E! U, ^熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ |1 o& D, T8 O; n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, J+ S7 O$ ~/ p5 A
日日有車站,
8 z% S* M) @& o" M& K$ t有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
! z8 Y1 i% H5 {6 c" x你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) ]% c" h+ @& u5 L3 H6 M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ m+ t  p. m8 b. C我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ i4 R5 t& d0 l" B" x5 L
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
: }. P2 L2 C" G5 N+ J3 `: M  a9 b玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. c; |; J! }0 O1 l3 d" w$ J) A+ I0 e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
8 X% }4 D- U' R8 m" O其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- ]1 U% O8 N4 C所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ n* B1 ]% v  y) L
日日有車站,: r* T1 }& b& ~; R1 c+ `7 c( w
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% m! a2 P$ [3 b; T* }如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 y+ M% \& Q) ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺" Y- n3 f9 f4 v9 @* w' p: p9 K" H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 e' Y  b' p1 Z# b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 t+ Y0 s9 k( w3 p. [覺得好空虛
7 p/ N' N" E& N. R( p其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ N+ h; V* z. a2 O- T) D7 `卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 [6 t3 ?' \3 q# O# I, ^' S用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 Q2 ?! m% e8 \2 N, S

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, W& X* ^, I( x) u1 R9 J% G這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., q1 v! F1 R8 f# h+ F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ C# J8 {6 A1 [- ]' B有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 e# y3 a/ s, W. J! ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# q$ P+ V, c" w, q: Q4 \, C. }; d# O
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! v/ b' U* b6 c' h: g
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
! E% n+ F2 y" C% C. {Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- C2 _" }1 p! V+ K9 J2 Q" E/ L3 w
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
* h' F" q, U) D  Y我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ A' c3 s: C+ X" N) C! E就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
) j# z! T& Z  W' A" i8 e( ?; A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" ^! K& G' X3 L$ `
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 ?# B+ i  H4 i6 j" F
很少會超過一天～
) \; e7 y. }4 m# G% `要期待更好的明天呀！