熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: W# Z. g* @2 S0 \# T
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 ~% s5 e3 o0 [) x& z+ x2 i/ }! U! R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- H: D1 E, s2 W( T+ D. y4 \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 e: ?7 S! M2 _4 X) Q6 Y
覺得好空虛* D9 l$ @) }- M7 ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 ^2 g7 ~' M* Y+ ?: S" T卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 J0 \3 v+ W5 p8 @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
/ }, ]9 h/ E0 J3 G/ t' X但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( s% W$ ?( }9 H4 a8 l4 e
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 E; F$ _. F  S; t* ]+ c所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& P3 p" U; j7 V/ I* v日日有車站,+ q* T6 \4 ?  S& R6 G; e7 q. o* u
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ h3 ^+ |" F6 U3 q7 V% j你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ d3 G8 P8 R2 r2 K1 ]6 ]
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 K5 n0 @2 @1 ]. m0 L( u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 N' T8 ]9 Z" S6 p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 y8 H) c( e* [6 t總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) J! ~$ B3 M7 r+ H, l其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 w/ }4 r# N* B& p- K7 J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 r: s1 ^0 i5 P; x日日有車站,/ N! x; U* G& t; J' M) m3 J
有目標!

. x- |, L$ N' m& R4 T/ ^what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 q. E& T7 r8 b8 d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; l( D7 R/ s* X) k好唔鍾意呢種感覺: {) V0 n: H0 }+ N" ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 m2 k# M/ K+ M6 _$ V$ j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 e6 E4 |6 j) x8 b4 j3 Z
覺得好空虛
% ]8 L+ \# ]; d/ _- v! S+ V其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  D8 ~5 f/ U2 L, |; N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- b6 D5 ?" R0 v# N' e2 z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ w: h( ?6 f5 R3 }3 L' L' o, M3 Z" P

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. ]) F% i" \+ |; n這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* E3 Z, e) t$ K' z/ V
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ J) ?# w5 [' ?9 }% [( R; B& u* I9 @
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* A7 t& j! ]3 z! T. n0 U
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% G- n8 V2 J3 d1 `0 L2 U0 B0 M7 ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
* D! R" k! ?0 c" x. h6 W8 Vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ I) N$ \6 |, j" ?/ Z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ O& J% ?4 ]. L8 {3 {' r* a
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Just another thought on lonliness:9 _6 V  G. m4 S' m
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ [, Y9 L9 B( D4 I4 W
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- K5 \, a- L8 }8 w1 ]) T: E6 f
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺8 c5 b/ J9 {& _' i" _
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 N. \2 l+ w* F; _3 Q- v/ [! \或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～! e% i: J+ D  q/ V9 X5 S
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！