熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 r* e/ i3 W2 I: B好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* J. V2 `" n$ E* j9 A. V) y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* H( L% @- b! N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& B& y& v- t; _, _" p覺得好空虛
* m9 W" Z/ e. Z0 P; O7 U! A' U其實早幾次都有試過係咁- j  V( ^0 f4 _: f0 Q$ ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 ]! ^, u9 W6 G( r0 D9 W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,0 I: {/ o+ v; A. ^* ^3 f
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ e, {: p  T% S* [+ a( L熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* W) A7 t, s" Y8 S) K+ D0 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 P" O) r9 h: g. X( x# U. `日日有車站,
* S5 v5 L5 S. }9 K" s# ]5 J# Z有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙* k' B, |' U& d8 T
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ m% U) q/ K' z( D8 W9 B3 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, B5 Q7 \5 L3 C1 F$ Z3 V感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... }+ `5 f! }( r: ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
6 n( r( E' J3 ~. N" n4 y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  O! j8 b' f0 p. E- ~% Q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 g) [2 p. A; q& W# y, z7 \3 P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ [0 A* N- K5 P- m7 N' r
日日有車站,
( `0 a$ i$ B! H4 k  K3 i有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! z4 U7 R& H, o: T/ o6 }9 p+ s& u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; _0 N. {* Y- O! L2 r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺* V" L. @* N. z; S2 H5 }+ f
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  G! b1 k8 ~" ~; f3 F  j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 Y9 Y  w! i3 y- P5 J
覺得好空虛$ x( V$ S: }* o6 f, _+ H3 \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) P. e3 J' A" [, T$ ^卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ m* L4 v8 W* w- C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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+ h6 z9 ^4 o+ d3 F- R這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! w  B+ l+ x% y: n- b. X; D8 ^唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.) k: ?0 @! R; L/ i5 h; C
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.- l- {3 Q( e, @7 G

6 W' x4 A7 T8 aPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 y' Q; K5 O. m$ [1 ]
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( a; |% t8 S8 H7 J( zb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! F5 O. t3 x2 L% o! O
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:. Q2 e3 K( K* k9 C4 y
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 i- ^- U, T6 q& n3 {* X4 N4 ]But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) f$ J0 m2 H; n4 r
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
  T$ ^( B) X. @8 p5 T就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
1 G+ |4 V6 ?$ @8 L, S或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& c# V( R' X8 ^- I9 `0 h
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉/ j$ q' F0 o9 N
很少會超過一天～& M1 `" v6 M) V9 u# \& ]
要期待更好的明天呀！