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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
# E5 {; l" A9 H  L4 uconsider in the following (not in order):
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. u$ V# C4 S1 U9 c( W! l: d/ O$ d1st, how close the relationship we are?0 u( b4 w  }" ]" c% j9 u% N
2nd, how serious he/she has done?& x- W& x, [# J" R
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
  \* ?& R/ I: [! w" K2 j4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?: W. H8 v, x' i8 v# t
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
" D3 _5 p% a1 M8 R8 D; Cbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
, F- L. C; n7 g' Z) h/ nbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!2 ]+ ^% p! I7 h$ K" z4 d5 L, G
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。& U: f8 T; T% O! |3 }& v
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
5 L, i: F5 q' m人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個! u* u2 U9 @% q! f4 n' X
只要有數我都會滅